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Archived questions from: October, 2012 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

His family are polygamist. That's why my parents are against me seeing my Bf. How can I get my parents to accept my Bf?,

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4403 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - I am 18 yrs old and in my first year of college. I have been seeing this amazing guy (Matt) since early september. He is sweet,funny, fun and just an all around nice guy. He is very focused on school and works a part time job. My parents met him ...

Should I let her remarks undermine my trust in him? She claims I was second best, that he chose me because her friend didn't want him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Hi I found out my boyfriend cheated on me a few years ago Anyways we got back on track solved all the problems in our relationship, and everything was going great. We have a child our own home and I am madly in love with him. My problem is a ...

He acts like every little problem is doomsday. Is this relationship viable? For a long term future together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - I am losing feelings for my boyfriend. I am 44, he is 47. We have been dating for almost 2 years. He works too much and we hardly ever see each other. I keep telling myself that I'm getting used to it...but I'm not. I feel sorry for myself...

What do you do when a guys mum doesn't want you to date him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - my question is simple.....What do you do when a guys mum doesn't want you to date him?.... Okay, so I like this guy...But there is one problem, His mum simply will not let me date him, according to her I am too young for him... Is 2 years that big...

My partner is too close to his sister and confides in her about our relationship. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Started dating some time ago. Brief history of family. I am widowed. Happily married for thirty years. Have one son, daughter in law and three grandchildren. Relationship is good. Have good relationship with my two brothers and their wives. My Boy...

Our children are the only glue holding our marriage together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - It seems to get harder and harder. my wife and I have been through alot a couple seperation a near divorce(10 days away from siging). when my kids were very little 2 and 6 months. I went back to school full time and worked full time and was only ...

Still single and sick of it. How do I put the Zippity Do Dah into my life and Spice things up enough, to learn how to successfully date and become a partner to a nice girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - I posted here before 4 years ago. I imagine you probably receive hundreds of messages like this regularly. I thought long and hard about whether to actually send it. I actually wrote something sinilar to this at the beginning of the year ju...

Husband is away. I'm feeling horny. Should I give in and be unfaithful while my husband is away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Am a girl of 26 married with two kids. My husband traveled out of the country a year and 5 months now I don't know when he will be coming back. The problem is that am feeling lonely and horny, many guys do comes around to have sex with me, wh...

Do my husband and I give in to my MIL's demands? What can I do about this pressure? Should I call my MIL?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Hi. I need your help. My mother in law complains that i dont call her enough. But i dont feel compelled to call her often because when i call she wll be finding fault with me all the time. Either i have not done this or that corectly. Recent...

How do I come out to my Mom and tell her that I'm a Lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Modnote: Your very long post was shortened as below is the crux of your question, which is clear,and is below. Your extensive account of prior events do demonstrate that you prefer girls and believe you are a Lesbian. But your question is the ...

Why does his Dad hate me so much? How should I deal with this, considering my Bf is in the middle of all this disagreement about me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - My bf and I have just recently celebrated our one year anniversary. We get along great, hes my best friend. We've had some hardships, however. I have a daughter from a previous relationship. The father isnt in the picture, hasnt been since before s...

My husband's parents refuse to accept the fact that my son is gay, they want us to send him for therapy to have him fixed and have gone as far as tell us that it must be our fault!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - My 18 year old son reciently came out as gay. I was initially shocked but my husband and i are trying to be supportive because at the end of the day we love him regardless, the problem is trying to get his grandparents (my husbands folks) to see it ...

If your 15 year old daughter had a boyfriend, how would you react?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Okay, so i am 15, and i want to tell my mom about my boyfriend. If your daughter came to you and told you this, how would you react? How would you want to be told?...

My husband left me for a 19 year old and took our kids with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - I have two children, a 16-year-old son and a 21-year-old daughter. Me and my husband have been married for 20 years now. I'm 42, and he's 45, and recently he left me for a 19-year-old and moved in with her taking the kids. I'd gone out to work one...

My mom is too overprotective! How can I change her thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - My mom is extremely annoying. She's overprotective of me since childhood, and continues to be so even into my 20's. I recently got into an argument with her when she declared that she thinks that its risky for a woman to be on tour alone or with a ...

I'm uncomfortable that my daughter with diabetes will inject herself in public. Am I wrong for feeling this way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Okay, a very tricky question here. About a year ago my 24 years old my daughter suddenly developed diabetes type 1 - yes, type 1 where you have to take insulin - and ever since then she has to take insulin shots 4 times a day. We have no history ...

Is it normal to get on so well with a mother in law?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I am getting married in six months to my boyfriend of 4 years. I have known my fiancé since we were toddlers, and know his parents for almost as long. His parents like me a lot, and mine like him. I get on really we with my (soon to be) mother i...

My husband sides with his sister not me. How do I end this argurment and not feel aggrieved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I really need some help here as I am going round in circles. I have had a massive falling out with my sister in law and we have had nothing to do with each other for about 18 months. My husband sided with her in the argument so naturally things h...

Has my boyfriend really changed?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I have had a rocky 8 months to say the least, with my first ever boyfriend and now i'm just wondering has he really changed? I first met my boyfriend when i went back to school after missing a year, i was sent to learning support ...

Its my first relationship but it doesn't feel normal!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - Me and this guy we have known each for 1 month now. We were complete strangers when we first met. Starting from the 5th day we known each he was talking about how much he loved me and how much he cares for me because of how much we have in common ...

I have the hots for my sister's husband!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I am 36 F. I know what I think is wrong. but it is difficult for me to stand this. I think it is due to I am Pisces and he is Scorpio by Sun sign. I am interested in my younger sister's husband. We flirts and he calls me to talk personally. I feel h...

She lives in his house, wears his clothes and has him at her beck and call... am I wrong to think this is out of order?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I both are 17. I have recently found out that one of the girls my boyfriend introduced to me as his sister is not, in fact, his sister. She is just a really close family friend. She has no blood or legal ties with him what so ever! ...

First meeting with his parents and I. Do I take a present and if so what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - My Boyfriend said he wants me to meet his parents next weekend and I am scared. We have been together now for 6 months and this is the first time he has suggested this. He said to me to not be bothered by his Mother. I asked him what he meant an...

We dated for a year. Then were told we're related. Is it wrong to stay together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - I have been talking to this guy a year now and he's everything I wanted in a man. After the year was up we were told we were related. That hurt me to the core. We care for each other so much. Is it wrong to not let go? I wish I would have known...

Would it be best to wait? New relationship: Is there really anytime where sex is to soon?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - after having my daughter 5 months ago, and her father leaving me while i was pregnant .. I Finally met someone amazing . He Makes me laugh , has a great personality , extreamly attractive , has a lot of things going for himself There's nothi...

He's looking at Porn every night. Is this what men do or is this unacceptable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - Mondote: Please provide your age next time you ask a question to help people who answer your question/s. Been with C for 8years, lived together for 5years and have an 8month old baby. Always had arguments about porn with empty promises about not wa...

Torn by family loyalties...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - I would like to get advice on something family and money related. I have a job working full time with a decent salary. My family has a small business which they are struggling with. They have asked me for money several times in the last 2 years. I ...

How do I heal the relationship? Do I love too deeply?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my bf for 21 months - nearly two years. We have a beautiful 1 year old son together. I have two kids at home with me so two toddlers. Last night though, out of nowhere he turned around and told me he fell out of love with me ove...

Should I Trust My Husband? Am I Wrong For FeelingThis Way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been married for almost 28 years. I have always trusted him because and have never suspected him cheating on me. Lately he has upset me because of some of the things he has done. One example occurred several years ago when s...

How do I get my confidence back after all these years of harsh treatment from others?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Where to start...I'm 24-years-old, and have no friends. The reason is being I'm not confident enough in myself to talk to anyone other than basic small talk. My background: I was bullied very badly in high school. It started sophomore year (9 ye...

It's beyond me. What kind of help does my wife need about her fetish? She seems to want to get sick. I'm at a loss. Does she need help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - I'm 31, my wife's 28, and recently she's developed a new fetish. She's become hooked on getting a stomach-ache having read webforums and sites about 'stomachache fetishes', and eats a lot of rich food in order to get it. She keeps going on a...

I'm at my wits end. Help! what should I do. The Laptop gets more attention than me in this relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Hi everybody, well my problem is this.... For the last two years since ive been with my bf he has been constantly working on his laptop to make a computer game (not so much in the first few months) It's his dream to make it big and i support hi...

He blocks me out. Yet I do everything for him and his children. Is it time to stop being so giving? or break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - I met him about 4 years ago. 2 years ago we finally got together after both being in love with each other for about a year. He is about 10 years older than me and has a few kids. At the start things were perfect. He was so in love with...

Which woman understands me best? I feel more love for this second woman. What should I do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - i have a baby with someone and i stay with her, but the problem is i have beendating someone else, for more than a year now. The other woman and I love one another so so much. It is like my first relationship ever ,we talk ,we laugh and we understan...

Do I need professional help? I STILL can't get my ex brother-in-law out of my mind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4410 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Can't get ex brother-in-law out of my mind! I'm going to try and make a long story short! I'm still attracted to and in love with my ex brother in law and I can't get him out of my mind! It's driving me crazy! We has sex one time, and use ...

We want to settle down and have a baby. Getting our finances right to buy not rent is the aim. Have you achieved this goal successfully? How?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for just over 3 years and we really want to get our own place. We don't want to rent as we feel that we will be wasting money paying the rent each month and at the end of it we will have nothing ...

I sympathize but he thinks I don't understand him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - Hell everyone, my boyfriend and i love each other. However,there is an issue that we have been facing since we started dating almost a year ago,and i think its getting worse.I need some help with that. I come from a wealthy family ( please ...

Struggling with my long distance relationship...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I am struggling with a long distance relationship. I adore the guy I am in a relationship with but as a single mother, divorced I feel I miss the contact and emotional closeness when we are apart. We have been together a year and I do most of the ...

How can I improve my mom's quality of life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - This is not a regular relationship question. However, I'd really appreciate it if you'd all try to help me out. I basically want tips on how to improve my mom's quality of life. She has progressive MS and is in an electrical wheelchair. She can only ...

Is this a normal reaction to stress?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - today, one of my parents and one of my siblings got into an extremely heated screaming match. you could almost feel the hate boiling between them. they were hoarse after, because it was so intense. then there was horrible crying and sobbing,...

I'm unhappy and feeling worn out in my marriage

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - I've been married for 15+ years. I have two step-children, one of whom lives with us (20 years old). I hate to do it, but I have a laundry list of things that have been bothering me.... I am feeling very worn out of late. My wife has no inte...

My older brother physically abuses me and my mom is fine with it. What rights do I have in this? What power do I have to stop him from doing this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - Hi. So, my older brother hits me. He doesn't do it very often but when he does, he hits me bad. He abuses me verbally constantly calling me names and insulting me in every possible way. He's always been like this to me since we were kids, he's ...

I thought marriage was all about cherishing the one you love. All he does is cheat? And ignore his children and me. Should I break up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I have been in this relationship for 7 1/2 years and I have been married 2 1/2 years. Through the time of all these years. He has done nothing but cheated and he feels like its not a big deal at all when he gets caught in his lies or the females ...

Should I try to start something with my sister's guy friend who she treats badly. And should I open up to him and tell him that I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - Recently my sister has been dating this guy he is ropughly 21 years old, and I really like him I'm a guy and underaged. I think he likes me back. My sister doesn't really want him she just uses him to buy her stuff, and she talks to other guys. ...

Do I tell my brother that his wife wants to have sex with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3183 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - I'm 18 years old boy and I've a really stupid problem, I guess. I have an older brother, who's married and his wife doesn't leave me alone. It all started few months ago, when she came to me and wanted to talk. Then she told me she likes me and ...

Should I leave him? I'm tired of feeling 'second class' and "not quite good enough for him".

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been together now for about 14 years. We have 2 beautiful children. However, i am so sick of dealing with his selfish ways. He has cheated 3 times, the first was about 9 years into our relationship and was a full on relations...

I've just broken up with my Gf. Can I have some advice please? Her mixed messages and all the pain I've been going through is a heavy load.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - My girlfriend of 2 and a half years just broke up with me on Saturday saying we need some space. She says I need to become more independent and self sufficient. I can see where she is coming from but I can't tell if it is tough love or forever....

I'm jealous that his 16 year old daughter is pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Ok I know this is going to generate negative responses but here goes. My longtime baby daddy just informed me that his 16 yr old is 5 months pregnant. One, I can't shake off that he waited 5 months to tell me and second, I can't help but to feel ...

He lies to me. Do I keep putting up with this? I do love him, just tired of being treated like a doormat

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - I found out my partner had cheated gave him a second chance everything seemed to go well but then I found out he wasn't telling the whole truth of his affair I told him the lies are now worse than the affair, he said he knows that but he didn't want ...

Our daughter has admitted she's marrying for money and we are very upset!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

22 October 2012 (M) - I have issues with my daughter marrying. Not her partner, but her motivations for marrying him. Our daughter's 19, and her boyfriend's 22, she told us she's fairly wealthy - we had no idea when we met him, in fact he lives in a fairly normal...