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Archived questions from: 3 October, 2012 (see latest in Family category)

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Family: Help and advice

My younger brother seems to be cyber stalking girls, what do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - Hello i dont know what to do with this. i was on my phone yesterday and my brother had used it earlier and gone on his facebook when i got it back it was still logged in and i know that he can be very immature with his friends so i looked at his ...

My parents seemed cold towards meeting my black girlfriend, then later mom called and said she wanted bi-racial babies. What do I say?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I'm a senior in college and over the summer I brought my gf home to meet my folks. We had been dating for a year and wanted to wait before meeting each other's families. So the first half of the holiday we went to her parents' in another state---it ...

He's my ex and now he's married. So is he just looking for a booty call with me? Based on his actions?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - My ex dumped me a few years back. We were together a long time. It got really bad at the end. He ended up getting a restraining order against me because i would follow him, (not proud of that). Anyway, we bumped into each other last year. It was n...

Should I have just said nothing at all? Her erratic behaviour on the vacation was too much for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - should i just not say anything at all I went on a vacation with one of my husbands former co worker. Its not like she was my friend or anything like that. I just knew her and because we saw each other very seldom, she seemed ok for me to travel...

Should I feel guilt or shame? I am having a relationship with a guy who used to be best friends with my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

3 October 2012 (?) - I am having secret relationship with my ex-husband no longer former best friend's, is this trouble or what? Here is the background of how and why this developed. It started eight months after I left and filed for divorce. That is NOT why I left a...

He broke it off. But he still hangs around us a lot. I know he get depressed. But could he be having second thoughts about the break-up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4431 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hi things came to a sudden end in august we were together for 6 years we have children and he sees them regular, we have slept with eachother a few times, he seems to be hanging round a lot one min and not as much the next he says hes not interested ...

I no longer know if I want to get married. So how do I bring up the subject to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I found out my boyfriend has been looking up engagement rings lately. Im happy and flattered. We talked about marriage before and i used to be excited about it. I love him very much and i know he loves me. We have had our trials but we have gott...

Why does he act like he cares and then he acts like he doesn't?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I am Asian and in my culture it is quite common to get married to your cousins. I understand that this is not something everyone agrees with but its very common where my family are from. My parents are first cousins too and I love there relationship ...

My husband contributes and so does my Mom. Is my boyfriend contributing enough to live most of the time in my home?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I've been separated from my husband for over 2 years. I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for 2 years. I live in a house with my three sons and my Mother. My ex husband presently pays $3500 per month for the mortgage and taxes He also gi...

What is right? My wife is saying she has no problem if one of our unmarried daughters chooses to have sex in our home with a Bf. The thought bothers me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I have kids. In particular, I have daughters. And in particular I have a daughter who is 19. She took a year off after high school and travelled the world. Now she's back home and is trying her hand at university. OK, so she's "of age", so if ...

My cousin has a Gf. And he and I flirt a lot. I am still a virgin. Should I agree to sex with him?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hi guys! Hope you can help me. I am a shy type of girl but i do flirted with my first cousin. Its my 3rd time to meet him last january. He's from jersey,he lives there, he's d same guy i wrote here last 2010 http://www.dearcup...

Any tips on how to restore some calm into this fractured family? A very dominating sister in law causes me the most pain.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hey all. Just wanted an outlet I suppose. Bit of background... My husband and I have been together 10 years and have 2 children. We are having dramas with his sister. She's very domaninating - does whatever she pleases. We've had co...

I am truly doubting my decision to break up. Despite his failings, did I make a mistake to break up with him? Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend last Friday and I'm starting to doubt my decision. Did I make a mistake? We had been together for a little over two years and we had been in a LDR for six months (I was the one who had to move due to my dad's job). I...

Is it over with this guy? He has lots of reasons he says he is busy. Is this his way of ending the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hello, i met this guy about 4 months ago. everything was going well. Until his mom died. After that he is in charge of all the affairs related, at the same time he is going to be retired soon and he is an executive and has a lot to do at work, and...

I walked in on my 17 year old cousin masturbating. Do I need to set some boundaries, considering my freaked out reaction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - hey, sonething happened to me this morning and its been freaking me out all day and ive been really confused. i totally forgot about you guys and i would really appreciate some help. I'm 18 years old and my cousin,17, has been living with me t...

I cheated on my workaholic wife -- now what?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I have been married for 10 years and have two kids under the age of 10. My wife recently was made an executive at her fortune 200 firm and has not been home much since. She leaves for work around 7 AM and most evenings she gets home after 10 PM. ...

How can this be resolved? I have a feeling that my Bf does not want to tell his family that he has a daughter almost 3 years old.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm 18, and I have a daughter who turns 3 in December Basically, I fell pregnant and I didn't find out until i was 14 weeks pregnant, I'm still with the childs father but here's the tricky part, 2 weeks before I found out I was pregnant, my...