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Archived questions from: February, 2010 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

He has a lot of baggage.. Should I keep seeing him anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I met someone recently..i was unsure if i liked him but i knew if i was totally turned off i would have ended the date sooner (we met from online)..the first night we met at a bar and then he offered to get dinner and then we went to get another ...

I feel so alone now my boyfriend has left me so soon after having his baby

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of two years just broke up with me, i just had his baby all he wants to do is go out with his friends and telling me he wants space. I tried moving on hangin out with friends taking care of the baby by myself but i feel so alone like ...

Before you all roll your eyes, I love my teacher like a father

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - You all are probably so bored of hearing this topic! I am in love with my teacher! But before you Scream out in anger, its not in the way you think. A teacher at my school who has been here for about a year and a half maybe two years, taught ...

My boyfriend has to move for work, and my mother wont let me go with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - okay so heres the deal . my boyfriend got offered a job about 8-10 hours away , and im still in school so my parents wont let me go with him .my school year so far has been hell and my boyfriend is like the only way ive been getting through it ,to ...

Dating for two years and now having to take a backseat

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27 February 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for two years and now all of a sudden he got his daughter living with him and don't want a serious relationship he wants to be single again but yet he tells you that he loves you but not in love with you but on the other ...

How can I make my mother understand she's being unfair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Okay, so this isn't really a relationship question, but here goes: I'm 14, nearly 15. I have a little sister, who's 10, nearly 11. My little sister is, essentially, I spoiled brat. She gets WHATEVER she wants, and gets away with EVERYTHING. I L...

My boyfriend is studying too hard, how can I get him to talk dirty to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - i m in a comitted relationship.well my bf is a bit frustated because his parents constantly scold him.the reason is bad performance in acaedemics.stdying hard,as well as devoting a bit time to me.but i am bit sad because he has lost interst in ...

My mother says I am sending the wrong message by giving a gift

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - ok, my mom said it means u like a guy when you give him a birthday present and he's not your boy-friend?? is that true? im 15 he's turning 17 and she wont let me give my guy friend a birthday present. i dont think it is true neither do other people ...

My adult daughter's boyfriend "gropes" her in front of me... How can I deal with this?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I recently welcomed a young adult daughter back home after she started self harming because her same age boyfriend was disregarding her sexual wishes. He wanted to do some things she did not and forced these things on her. She is still his girlfr...

Three years on and he is giving me mixed signals ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Please help. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years now. About 6 months into dating he told me he was moving to NY. I was devestated but told him I would rather have him leave than to stay and resent me. He told me that I was more ...

We were getting on great until I told him I have kids

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

27 February 2010 (?) - Ok, this is another situation that I'm starting to have. Its kinda related to my previous experience with me and a married man. About 8 months ago I met another man that started working with us. We immediately got attracted to each other just by ...

There is no joy in my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I feel my family life is driving me crazy. I have such a dysfunction in my family,that is almost hard to believe it. My husband works all the time and my grown kids are in trouble all the time. We have no intimacy, fun or joy in our life. My ...

Different Race or Religion, what would your family do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and his family doesn't know about me yet. We live in different states, but we lived together for about a year though. He's 18, so he's legal. We are still soo in love. He wants to tell them about me, ...

How to deal with resentment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I'm 14 and I'm suffering from resentment, its KILLING ME! The guy that I'm in love with, doesn't love me any more and he's moved on. I hate him , he lead my best friend on and did other things that made me feel small.I stopped talking to him s...

Does the penis stop growing or is it a continuous process?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I'm nearly 20, was raised in a strict home, my mom remarried 6 years ago after loosing my dad to a car accident. My mom and I are close. We can wear each others clothes. She and I go a lot of places together and my friends that know her know she is ...

Should I give them the money despite working so hard to save it to make myself more financially stable?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Hi I'm facing a dilemma here. After leaving an abusive relationship of five years (which also ruined me financially; also during this time the situation was so unstable I was moving from job to job, state to state and just handing over my paychecks) ...

How can I make her happy? I don't want her to regret choosing me over her family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - hi any help you could give would be great im 26 and have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years now. this was both of our first lesbian relationship and we kept it secret for over a year because we wanted to be sure about each other before tel...

Should I interfere in my daughter's relationship after the way he behaved or should I leave it alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I need some advice re my daughter. She is 21 and a student doing well at college. Unfortunately she got involved with a guy who although he seems quite sweet etc etc, is not working and not at college but after some pressure from her, is now ...

Pregnant and scared my daughter will feel left out once the new baby comes along...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I've just found out that im pregnant and i feel really guilty bout it. Im 28 and i have a 5 yr old daughter already from a previous 5 yr relationship. Ive been single for 3 yrs so its just been me and my daughter weve done so much together she such ...

Should I give him another chance and not pressure him so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Alright, where to start. I'm 16 and i've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. He's from a different state than I am. We met on Myspace and just got to know eachother. We thought we might try a relationship out just to see how it would work ...

In a relationship that can go nowhere...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - What do you do if you were living defacto - then he moves out to be with his 4 troubled childern - ages from 23 - 10 years of age. He is still married but not with his wife. We are still dating and getting on well but I rarely see him and there ...

I want to travel the world but my parents won't let me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - This is not really a question about relationships or anything but I am only 13 and I want to travel the world and be on my own but my parents won't even let me walk around by myself! What should I do?...

Is this relationship wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - Ok heres the deal. I'm a 15 year old boy and I have a 19 year old brother. My brother had a girlfriend and they broke up. She is now 17 and really hot. My brother's ex girlfriend and I go to the same high school now. So one day I was talking to her ...

Husband walks out, how do I pick up the pieces?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - im a 19 yrs old housewife and my husband (29 yrs) says we are over. i met him in my country ( he is a soldier) and we only spent a 3days together becuase he was leaving soon. So he went back to America and we just talked on the phone from time ...

Is it ok for a Indian man to date/marry a white woman?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - I have met a nice Indian man. I am a white female and have heard some rumours that Indians can not date/marry white woman. I am not actually looking towards marriage yet as im only 20 yrs old. He has sent me love songs and he seems real into ...

I can't work out my boyfriend's brother

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost five years now, and i moved in with his parents and his brother 1 year ago.I think that his brother likes me but i hope I'm just being paranoid. Every time he gets drunk he finds a way to come talk to me and ...

Everything I have done has been for him, now I find he is having an affair

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - I found out very recently that my husband was having an affair for the last 6 months. I am not sure if I can forgive him or ever trust him again. It's not like it was a one time thing. He wasn't even the one to tell me, I had to find out when I ...

My boyfriends parents wont let him come and see me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - So there's this guy I really like. He lives 2 hours away and his parents wont let him drive down to see me. He told me he likes me so much. We don't know what to do because we want to be together but we wont be able to see each other. We don't know ...

He seems to have lost feelings for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - Married for 19 years, love my husband with all my heart but can't seem to continue to deal with him always being in a bad mood. He never seems happy. He says it's all due to finances but we both make good salaries. He is constantly talking about ...

Help, my weight problem is making me feel like crap!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - Hi aunts. ok ive yet to meet any female that doesnt have this problem. but ive been feeling really self concious about my weight. the thing is that i know im over weight but my dad (very unpolitley infront of family and friends) pointed out to m...

Troubles at work, and I can't quit!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - My boss hates me! I just started working at Taco Bell because Im a 21 yr old college student and I needed a job with flexible hours plus I have two out of country trips so I need a flexible job. Ok so here's the problem. The hiring manager w...

Hung out with my cousin and my boyfriend is pissed I didn't beg him to come.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - This may seem trivial but my boyfriend is making a massive deal about it. My cousin is here form overseas and i want to spend as much time as possible with her as i have not seen her for 6 years. i invited my boyfriend to go karting, ice ska...

Healing a Wounded Heart

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24 February 2010 (F) - One of the most interesting things about romantic relationships is their ability to help us heal childhood wounds. Men and women alike are deeply, and often repeatedly, attracted to a romantic partner who has many of the same traits as their ...

Is this wrong???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - I have just found out that my boyfriends nan and my great nan are sisters. There was a big age gap between them (my great nan being older), she went on to have my grandad and 30 years later my great nans sister had my boyfriends dad (so they are ...

His family doesn't like me and he's obvlious to it. Should I skip the family wedding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - Please help!! His aunty hates me and posted horribly messages to him when she found out we'd split up after a stupid argument (didnt even know what had happened). It sounds stupid but its caused sooo many problems for us because i dont want to be ...

Help! I like my brother's friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - Hello, help me on this please. Is it okay to be sexually attracted to and want to date one of my brothers friend? ...

He is a great father to our kids and they love him but I cant help but feel like hes settling for me,while desiring someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - when i was just barely 16 my mother and stepfather married for 15 years went through an extremely intense divorce. i went to stay with my biological father and there i met the future father of our 3 beautiful children. for 3 months it was great. i ...

Husband's money is controlled by my dominating father-in-law

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - hi , i got married after my MIL expired. my husband works with my FIL same co. , after marriage i realised my husband does get to keep any money with him he has to ask his father , even though father is getting pension , it is very annoying,as in ...

I hooked up with his cousin 2 years ago and now my boyfriend cant get over it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - okay, so i need help! i've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now, he's everything to me. well about 2 months ago he was talking about his cousin and then showed me a picture of him.. turns out, i hooked up with his cousin like 2 years ago!! at ...

Help, I don't love my wife but can see no way out.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - Please help me, I'm in despair. Im 35 years old and married to a woman I can not stand. We have 2 children aged 5 and 3 and have been together for 8 years. We are not compatable at all, I am sociable, she is not, I am fun, she is forever serious....

My parents are separated and I don't wish to see my mother, she is the only bad thing in my life!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - Ok i know what everyone is going to say but i genuinely hate my mum. She walked out on my and my sister about a year ago to be with another guy leaving my dad with all her mountains of debt and responsibilty for the both of us. She apparently ...

My mother says my hanging out with a 19 year old is the same as statutory rape!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - My mom says that I shouldn't be able to hang out with my guy friend whos 19 and im 14. She says its " stagetory rape" but I looked it up and its only if you do sexual intercourse things. I wanna hang out with him but she says its just " bad news" ...

I am hoping I am adopted so I can be a US citizen and work for the FBI

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - hello readers well where do i start. for some reason i feel that i am adopted i do look a bit like my mum and dad but i feel that it is just a similarity i have always felt that i wanted to be adopted and my real parents (thats if i am adopted) ar...

Need the adult kids to move out as I'm stressed out with their lack of respect!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

23 February 2010 (?) - I am deeply bothered by something. My ex husband and I are no longer married, because when we were married years ago, he had absolutely no respect for me. I felt I didn't deserve this. I worked hard at being a good wife and Mother. I had always ...

He's sending a gift to my house and I am afraid my Mum might see it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - my long distance boyfriend is sending a gift to my house through the post and i`m worried it might be something sexy like a thong or something and that my mum will see it. he said that he hasn`t put his name on it but he would love to see me wearing ...

I feel guilty about asking my mum to move out when I got married

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - I wanted my mom to be on her own and get her apartment after I got married. She finally got one and will be moving soon and I feel sad and guilty now about this, I thought that this is what I wanted but now, im not sure. I have mix feelings about ...

I have discovered my mother has left my sister everything in her will, this is the final straw after the years of abuse my mother gave me as a child

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2550 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - I have just discovered a will my mother has made 2 years ago. she has left my sister everything, lot of land, large house, money and everything that she owns. she has left me her share in a piece of land that there is a legal battle to ownership ...

Should I continue with this marriage or just forget about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - I am 22 years old, i left my country to another country for work, when i wish to return back to my country i called my friend ex-girl and plead her for a serious and decent girl like her. She gave me her friend number, i and her friend open comm...

I am in love with two brothers and I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Hi everyone please forgive me i am not good in English. l am in love with two brothers.l was actrated to Daniel since 2008 l use to tell my friend how l feel about Daniel so when Daniel asked my friend out she asked me if l was ok with her going o...

Does he seem into me, or was he just being nice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - I need some advice on my status with my brother's roommate, who I increasingly suspect might be interested in me, but has yet to make any moves. I am a little hesitant myself with the fact that he's my brother's roommate and if we did date, I would ...