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female
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writes:Please help. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years now. About 6 months into dating he told me he was moving to NY. I was devestated but told him I would rather have him leave than to stay and resent me. He told me that I was more than enough reason to stay. So he did. About a year and a half into our relationship, he broke up with me. He said that he couldn't handle the fact that I had kids. Two weeks later he begged me back and told me that he had just been scared. That now he realized how he couldn't live without me and would do whatever it took to get me back. We got back together and everything was great. We seen each other and went out often, we called each other all the time. We had little arguements but we got over them. Here it is at 3 years into our relationship. My bf has recently moved into a new house with his friend from his mother's house. Now, I can't get him to come see me anymore, for some reason I'm not allowed to go over to his house, and he's blowing me off. I've already asked if he was cheating and was assured that he was not. But, I can't talk to him on the phone about this stuff because everytime he gets mad, he just hangs up on me. I just want to know what's going on? This man has me believing this whole time that he loves me and we are going to be together forever (he even said I love you first and told me he wanted to have kids) and now he can't even talk to me...What's going on with him?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 February 2010):
I was sceptical when you said he had dumped you first time around because you had kids, and I still find myself sceptical given that he is moving in with a friend and not you. I think the time has come to move on from him, because it's clear he doesn't love you, he's using you when he wants to at his own convenience. A man who acts this way isn't worth time. You can find a guy who does love you.
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