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Archived questions from: April, 2009 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Stay at home mom..I need help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi im a 20 year old stay at home mom for my boyfriend of 2 years daughter. i have been raising her for a year and a half. pretty much by myself. i dropped out of school and do not have a permanent job. to top it all off we have moved to the country ...

Why is the man I was with for 16 years trying to make my life a living hell?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Just a vent more than a question. I HATE MY EX. He left me and his 2 toddlers for a 22 year old. Gt to love it. I got over him leaving, we weren't happy. However, I am angry that he tried to proof I was unfit in court to get full custody which was ...

My daughter is taking drugs how can I help her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi i dont know if any of you will be able to help me with a problem i have with my daughter here goes. A few weeks ago my daughter went away for the week end and she was not back in time for the baby sitter to go to her exam they spoke on the pho...

I kissed my cousin 3 time.....and I liked it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - right.. ermm restly i went back to zimbabwe to stay with some family who i hadn't seen in over 3yrs, and i wasn't really looking forward to going cos my counsin who i sow last and he didn' talk to me. well this time he did talk and we got really c...

Our relationship is all one-sided but I'm having trouble letting go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I really dont know what to do. I have been in a relationship with this guy 9 years my junior, usual story it was great at first, we have had lots of problems to be honest a lot he has caused, i could list a few incidences and in isolation, it doesnt ...

Should I just come clean and suffer the consequences rather than wait for him to do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - right here goes, ive had a relationship with a none blood relative, to be honest he was my nephew for 7 years until my brother and his mum split up we are both in our thirties and should probably of known better, now the problem is ive got feelings ...

I was raped by my sisters husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi am 18 yrs old and just over a year ago I was raped by my sisters husband. One night I was at a party and got drunk (yes I know I am under age and stuff but it happens). Most of my friends were drinking so I called him ( my sisters husband) to ...

Keeping my boy a secret?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - hi my name is hotta to everyone i know . my mom tells me who i can date and who i can not date but my mom does not know i'm dating someone she does not like we have been best friends for so long. and i love this guy name crazy and me and crazy have ...

Baby daddy crap!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - my girlfriend of 1year has two kids(9 and 10). their dad is in prison.he wants my girlfriend to come visit him.She claims that him and her are best friends.the problem im having out of the situation is that I've been feeling disrespected by her kids ...

Trust is not possible for me without evidence!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I have been through one hell of a difficult few years and so has my little 8 year old son and his sister . My second husband was dreadfully abusive and we were quite ill by the end of it. Now I am with someone who seems to care about me very muc...

My boyfriend wont spend any time with our baby!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - hi..... i need some advice on my relationship. my boyf and i have been together six years and we have a seven month old baby. when i was pregnant we discussed what i would do when the time came to go back too work and he said i could stay at home ...

I'm stuck watching as this guy uses and abuses the woman I love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - ive been on here before asked a question about a girl. "this is my life is there something wrong with me?" i unfortunately got stupid tried to drown my sorrows in a nice tall bottle of jack and top it off wit some hard tequila. i drunk texted her. i ...

Lied to him about smoking and now he doesn't trust me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - when I met my boyfriend we were both smoking until I fell pregnant and decided to stop for my babies sake. a year ago my Mom passed away and the stress made me start again, I have have been smoking for a year now, lied to my boyfriend that I have ...

My sister is being played -- how do I help her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Ok this is not about me its my adopted sister she is 30 years old and is in a long distance relationship. The guy is 26 and is a truck driver. They have been together for 4 months and he proposed to her they have only seen each other twice since ...

I want to take her to the prom but my parents hate her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - I want to take the love of my life to the prom, the thing is that my parents hate her and i have no idea how to tell them im going with their consent or not, for goodness sake in 17!...

How can I show them that I am not trying to trap their son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - This year I went out of state to college and met a guy in the beginning of the school year and a few months into our relationship I found out I was pregnant. He said he was too young to be a dad so he bailed. During the time a guy in my apartment ...

He will be my step-brother in August and we are in love...help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Ok - I understand that the general consensus is that is ok to date and even possibly marry your step-brother. But please here is my situation - and help me out. I am 21 - he is 23 - he is in the Navy and came home on leave for two weeks - and ...

It's my Birthday today, so I can lie to my parents. Right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Today was my birthday and my parents went out of town and so this guy that my parents hate, went out to his friends old abdoned house out in the country to celebrate it and we kind of got drunk and we went into the house to have sex and in the ...

I think my dad self-harms, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Okay, well I'm 18 and recently I caught a glimpse of my dads arms while he was playing with my younger sister and I saw self-harm marks. I know that they're self inflicted because I used to self-harm when I was younger and they look the same as ...

Braces???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - There seems to be a new system in the UK whereby children needing braces have to achieve a certain degree of severity to be able to have treatment on the NHS. both of my daughters require braces but their teeth aren't as bad as other children so ...

I hate my sister!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - i need help. i think i hate my sister! she always gets me so angry and encourages me to do the wrong things. she dropped out of college, shes failed half of her GCSE's and i know shes on the pill and has a fake ID. shes recenly got cuaght in topshop ...

I'm scared to tell her that I'm going out with someone 12 years older

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I am 22, my bf is 34, and we love each other. My mother is 45 and yesterday she told me a guy who was 38 asked her to be his gf. (My mom has an amazing bf who is also 45 so obviously she won't date that guy.) My mom doesn't know about my relatio...

Starting to hate my sister!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, heres the thing i know it's harsh but i am really starting to hate my sister. she has become so spiteful! this isn't just your typical sisterly thing oh no! way deeper than that. she basically has an eating problem bu...

Ideas on how to make more friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I would like to make some more friends because most of my friedns are working away at the moment and the only entertaining thing left for me seems to be families and watching movies as well as working at home. Any ideas would be welcomed ...

My ex boyfriend told everyone I'm not a virgin anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - what should i do?,my ex-boyfriend told to his friends that there something happen between us,that im not virgin anymore. my mother did not know about it..i made NAME in our place our family, so im afraid that if people in our place know about it...

Feelings for my step-nephew!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - well this a real good one and its driving me crazy, my brother has two stepsons from a previous marriage and we had post ouch for near hand 20 years, my oldest step nephew and i began talking a lot and realised we had so much in common, there was a ...

My daughter is dating a great guy but I feel sad. Is that normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (M) - Hello. I'm a divorced dad with three great kids. Well my oldest is 17 and she has just started dating a 23 year old man. She has known him for a long time and he's ok. The thing is I feel really happy for her but I feel really sad as well and I ...

Would I be a bad parent for moving in with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - So my situation is that I use to talk to this guy my freshmen year of college and we were "dating" and we were pretty serious, but it was understood between the both of us that it couldn't go any further because he was going to soon be deployed to ...

He loves his daughter, but not her mother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I know this guy who truly loves his 4 year old daughter and doesn't want to do anything to ruin his relationship with her, but he doesn't love the mother. Is there any way he can still be in the daughter’s life without being in the mother's? Here's ...

I think I'm in love with my 10 year old step-sister

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - Lately, I have been having really troubling thoughts. I have come to terms with the fact that I have fallen in love with my 10 year old step sister (I'm 18). I just don't know what to do anymore. Before anyone asks or starts accusing, I am n...

My little sister has just had her first period and my parents are out of town. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - My sister, she is 11 and I think she just got her first ever period today because when she woke up she scared shit then I went to her room and I saw blood on the bed and on her pjs she was wearing, she won't talk to me and my parents are out of ...

My son was suspended for sniffing glue. Why would he do that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - My 14-year-old son was suspended from school today for glue-sniffing. He came home at 11:30 this morning, and I was surprised to see him. I asked him "What are you doing home so early?" He admitted he'd been suspended from school for a week...

I feel rejected and am getting really depressed about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - This probably sounds really stupid. But, I feel really rejected. I feel like nobody evr wants me around, and that everyone is always plotting against me, and giving me bad school marks on purpose, because they don't like me. I don't really get on w...

I feel our relationship is going down hill because he always has his daughter.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - hey just need some advice. ive been with my boyfriend/fiancee for 2 yrs know. at the beginning of the relationship everything was perfect i loved being around him there as nothing i was to complain about,the only thing was his daughter he has a know ...

My husband's parents favor his kids more than my oldest child.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - My husband's parents favor his kids more than my oldest child. I got with him 2 days after i found out i was pregnant with my son (3 years old) he sees my son as his own. He has a daughter that is 8 and we have a 2 week old daughter together. the ...

I feel as if my marriage is falling apart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - More than a question I need advice. I feel like my marriage is falling apart!.. I dont know if its because of the birth control I use. I recently read other womens reviews on the same birth control and most suffered some of the symptons I have, such ...

Help! I'm in a no win situation...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my lad for 10 monthish. I left a guy(x) I was happy with to go out with this guy (y)because my mum convinced me that he would be better for me. (x)his imperfections but i didn't want to end it. she didn't like him but i gave it a ...

My family is against our relationship.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 16 years old. I have a bf, he is 12. Some people think that it's wrong because I'm 4 years older, but I don't care because we love each other very much but the problem is that my whole family don't like him, so I can't come home to him and ...

I hate my dad because he cannot offer me the lavish lifestyle that has been my dream!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - hello dear cupid, i am 22 and i have a strange problem.... I hate my dad! i know he is my god and my caretaker...but still i hate him because he cannot offer me the lavish lifestyle that has been my dream although he has always provided me with the ...

Afraid exs family will cause problems for my family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - i am in a predicament as i have not seen my kids for nearly 3 years and i am getting to the stage that i want to see them again,my new partner has her reservations regarding me seeing the kids and not a selfish level but on a level that we used to ...

Do I go home and live my life without him or stay with him and be unhappy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Hey guys, i have an issue that has been bothering me for some time and i dont know what to do and how to deal with it. The problem i have is i have been with my boyfriend for about a year now and at first everything was ok, a bit hard because of my ...

I want to sleep with my sister.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - My sister 6 year elder then me see is marred and see live her husband and see have a 6 year old baby. She only come my home only when her baby school close during summer. But see is so beautiful my question is I want to sex with my sister But ...

Flashbacks of my stepbrother who raped me !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I'm 19 even if my age says I'm way older.I have flashbacks about the time when i was raped. Heres how the story goes. I was about 13 and a half. My step brother Brendan who was 18 always babysat me. I know him since I was 11 but he didn't do ...

My boyfriend is not allowed to see my kids! I think this is so unfair.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - my ex boyfriend and i have 2 kids together however i have a new boyfriend and its court ordered that my new boyfriend not have contact with our two kids i want to know how he can dictate this and also why he has a new girlfriend and baby and shes ...

I hate my mother!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I HATE MY MOTHER she plays favorites my older brother being her favorite; she would always say we dont have enough money to get ME this but...she even bought him a CAR I ALWAYS wished i was born to a different family one where they would actually ...

Why won't he tell my brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - Couple of days me and my brother's mate kept giving each other signs. We honestly fancy each other because we both stare. He hasn’t told my brother that he fancies me, why is that?...

It feels like a spring rain in the desert, for someone to come into your life and install some believe there is happiness out there.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

25 April 2009 (M) - I have a bit of a dilemma! I am from a well disciplined upbringing, very close to my mother... and with a firm believe instilled in me that i should treat others with the respect i would expect myself. at the start of this month, on a social ...

This is my life. is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

25 April 2009 (M) - aye where do i start? ok my current cituation is shit. im in love, I feel like a hopeless puppy, I've screwed up many relationships. k so when I was young my family was extremely poor. I barely had lunch money. I never had anything new. but I have a ...

My daughter drinks too much and is angry with me, what can be done? She dislikes counselling.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - My daughter is 31 years-old with three children (all of them have different fathers, not sure if that matters) she is still with the father of the youngest one. The father of the other two were both physically and emotionally abusive. I am really ...

We have a baby; he keeps doing drugs. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - my man keeps doing drugs he says he will stop. Than 3 months later he dose it again we have a baby together i really want to make this work. What can i do to try and help him i love him. And i hate him. He breaks my heart. I dont know. Should ...