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writes: right.. ermm restly i went back to zimbabwe to stay with some family who i hadn't seen in over 3yrs, and i wasn't really looking forward to going cos my counsin who i sow last and he didn' talk to me. well this time he did talk and we got really close and one time we was just messing around and i was laying on the sofa and he sat on me and i was screamin telling him i couldn't breathe and things then he started to give me air and started to kiss me and i kissed him back and i liked it. later on that night i huged him good night and we started to kiss again but this time there was moree passion adn we started groping each other, but he stopped cos it was gonna go furhter.. the next day things wehre wierd between us until i had to go catch my plane to came back to gland.. i hugged him good bye twice and the second time we started to kiss it left soo i go i didnt wanna stop but i had to stop it because we were in the hall way and anyone could catch us out..i really like him i've liked him since i was young and i know what we did was wrong but i dont think i'll be able to stop myself. his caming over to gland in june and i dont know what to dohow can i stop this from happening again?? and does it make me weird to like my cousin?
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reader, LoveIsRough +, writes (12 September 2009):
It has happened to me several times with my girl cousin. Why do you think my icon says that? I've kissed a girl and liked it--even though i'm straight.
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reader, CT +, writes (1 May 2009):
well first of all...he is your cousin! if you decide to take things further, that would be considered incest in western countries! I know how you feel though. My best friend confessed to me that she had a crush on her step brother back in senior school! I told her that even though they are not blood related, it would be morally wrong to enter into a relationship with someone who is suppose to be a brother figure to her. She has since ceased any romantic feelings for him, and has a great man in her life who loves her and respects her. You will find that special someone in your life one day. Good luck!
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reader, LazyGuy +, writes (30 April 2009):
Depends, cousins can be far removed from each other. Hence the term "kissing cousins".
If he ain't close in the bloodline then you two did nothing wrong.
No idea what the local laws are in your case but I think in general anything further removed then first cousins is considered harmless around the world.
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