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Archived questions from: May, 2008 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

My sister-in-law is mad at me for what I told her parents

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - My sister in law is mad at me for telling her parents that I hope that she and her husband have kids and that I hope they have a girl so that my 2 girls have someone to play with. Two days prior to me saying this, she told me on the phone that she ...

I'm not happy but we have a child do I stay or leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6049 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - ok im going to make this as short as possible...me and my boyfriend have been arguing a whole lot lately and its getting to the point where im not sure if i want to be with him and dont get me wrong i know people argue and no ones perfect but i mean ...

Do you think a 20yr old guy is too young to be dating a mother and become a father figure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - I am a 20 year old guy who is still living with his parents at the moment ( i am currently looking for a apartment to move out). i have a decent paying job and i have begun dating a 25year old mother of 1. My parents dont think im ready to do this, ...

My ex is making me feel like I'm crazy! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I feel like i'm going round the twist. And i'm a jumped up opinionated, arrogant idiot! I spent 2 yrs with someone that lied and did me out of money, yet he has me now thinking it was me that is crazy. I daren't tell him where he's gone wrong ...

How can I get him to help me persuade his parents to like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6049 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Hey guys/gals i seriously need some advice!!! me and my boyf have been together for about 4-5 yrs now. He means soo much to me-and we are proper close- and although we can have our lil arguments i see him not only as a boyf but as my best mate! ...

Please some one help me I'm desperate to get over this guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I am 27 I was in a relationship with my daughters father for 4years...we had a roller coaster type of relationship. he is very jealous and treated me like I was wrong for having had sex before him... basically all of our arguments consisted of ...

My BF accepted his brother into our lives, knowing he was a nuisance! Can I even trust my BF now, let alone MARRY HIM?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for three years. He is Iranian, Last year his brother came to England. He stayed with us for about a year - my boyfriend had told me his brother was very good. I discovered this was a lie. He takes heroin and has ...

He told me he can't trust me because I didn't tell him what friends and family were saying about him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I have been in a serious relationship for 3 years, my boyfriends friends and family have been saying awful things about him to me. he lost his job he has children and they call him worthless. I didn't tell him and we are supposed to be moving ...

Any advice on dealing with my unreliable mother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I hope you guys can help me out with this. My mother is really upsetting me! Not only is she one of those nagging mums, who get on your nerves and interfere with EVERYTHING you do! But it seems as though she doesn't care about me anymore. ...

I want to find my birth father - but I have none of his details... Any ideas?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hi I have a problem in that I know nothing about my birth father - except his first name. I desperately want to find him and I have tried everything from my birth certificate (which doesn't have his name on it) to friends reunited and fac...

I don't think I am being unreasonable I just want to enjoy quality time with my man undisturbed by any one!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I met my boyfriend last year on holiday and fell in love with him. He is a caring and loving person we have a lot in common and most importantly he makes me laugh. We live in different countries and I recently flew to his country t...

My ex has restraining order but is ignoring it and still comes round to threaten me!

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30 May 2008 (F) - i recently had a child, who is a really wonderful baby and very good, and i love her dearly. the only problem is the babys father, who i recently split up with due to your advicein a previous question. first of all let me say i am very happy that i ...

My husband always waits until I am at breaking point to say how sorry he is, the niceness then lasts for only weeks! I'm at my wit's end!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i have been with my husband for ten years, married six. we have 2 kids. sex was never brilliant, he has ed, but the first year was great, then it slowly got worse. i will cut this down for the average reader!!! I have over the years caught him ...

He drinks too much and abandons me in the weekends, should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I was just wondering if anyone would know what to do if they had a boyfriend that was always drinking going out all weekend even though we have been together 6 years now and we have a 2 year old daughter and im 5 months pregnant and he keeps saying ...

Is it wrong if I throw away my boyfriends' divorce papers?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - When cleaning house, I came upon my boyfriends divorce papers. Is it wrong if I throw the divorce papers away myself?...

My girlfriend is not able to have kids and I want to. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for about 7 months now. Just recently she had to have Hysterectomy done which means she will not be able to have kids. I love her to death but I also would love to have kids (my own biologicla kids). So, my qu...

Was he flirting or just being friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - GUYSnGALS i need ur help...there's this guy i know before but im getting to know and talk to him very much...aswe were getting to know things about each other what we liked, disliked...he asked me whati like in aguy and viceversa...it turned out ...

My sister cashed a check in my name, what may happen as a result?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - ok, my sister wrote a check in my name and she close her account but cash the check at a bank that i have a acount at. i don't want her to get in trouble but thats so wrong to sign my name and CASH it. please tell me what is going to happen...

I slept with my wife's sister and best friend, one is now pregnant...what can I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - Hi all This is all a complete mess!!! I slept with both my wifes sister and her best friend and dont know what i can do now. They both came onto me and are so hot that i could not resist either of them... The problem i have now is t...

My husband is spending too much time with my dad, and he's neglecting me and our children!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I've become concerned about my husband lately, as in the past few months he's been spending too much time with my dad, and not enough with me and the kids (two boys, one is 6 years old, the other 8). When they first me, they got on great, and th...

Any advice on how to ask my mum about going on the pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together a while now and we're ready to have sex. But i'm 15 and i don't know how to ask my mum about going on the pill. Also i don't know the places where we can. Anyone got any advice? ...

Tell me, why would they get married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - my sex partner has a babymom that comes to his house on the weekend. his son is 11 years old witch he loves and will do anything for.on the other hand he is involve with a younger lady which he loves to make LOVE to, he seems to care about the ...

I think he wants to love me, but isn't capable of doing so!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had ongoing issues for the full term of our relationship. We have been together for almost 8 years and have a beautiful daughter. The way he is behaving towards me is causing doubts in my heart as to whether he really loves ...

I.m afraid my parents will oppose me living with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend thinks I'm too negative when it comes to finding a solution to a problem. I always say it won't work. When I face a problem, I always want to leave it until I really have to face the problem. I also think about the worst scenario when I ...

We have a son together, and I just found out he's been married for two years!!! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - What should I do? I met John 6 years ago. We both worked for the same hospital. Within first year of dating I got pregnant. He always said we were going to get married and be family. In time I got pregnant 2 more times but miscarried. Shortly after ...

I ended my affair with the family friend but he still pursues me! I'm afraid our infidelity will come out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

28 May 2008 (?) - I cheated on my husband with a family friend. Husband does not know.I broke it off, but he won't let me be. He is persuing the family friendship in an effort to stay close to me. He doesn't care whether our spouses find out. We each have three kids. ...

Why is his family trying to split us up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I am in a very serious relationship with a boy. We are engaged and everything. One thing really bothers me though... His family is constantly trying to get him to talk to or get back with one of his ex's (and If it doesn't work with one they move to ...

I love her way too much to be just a friend to her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - Hi I was just dumped by my girlfriend a week ago. We have been dating for 3 years now and have a 2 year old son. At first I couldn't believe it, I called her constantly, only to be shut down. 4 days later she slid a note under my door saying she ...

My husbands parents hate me and I'm pregnant, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - My husbands parents hate me. His mother accused me of being a witch because I did Tarot for fun.They even offered him money not to marry me. Well we were married on June 23rd of last year, and it was wonderful. except for his parents, who even at ...

My mother is hanging out with this guy all the time... what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - My mother hangs out with this guy all the time and my dad doesn't relly mind a lot.But i swear they are more than just friends.Like yesterday when i walked through the door they were hugging but when i walked in they walked away like nothing ...

Married and confused, I'm falling out of love with my husband and in love with my ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Please Help... I am 29 years old and have been married for 6 years. I have recently had 2 children and my marriage is totally boring. My husband and I do not see eye to eye on almost every issue. We were raised and grew up completely opposite of one ...

What if you tell your partner you'll get married, but you don't really mean it? If you've just said it to get out of child support?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Hi! What if your partner stressing you to get married but you really aren't ready but if you tell your partner that your not ready she/he will threaten to take your child away from you and take you to court for child support but you know you can't ...

Itchy and red around my testicles. Is this dangerous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - hi im 13 now the age is wrong, but around my testicles it is very itchy and red. its been like this for 1 week. i cant tell my parents. is it dangerous? thank you ...

I'm terrified of dogs, and this is causing a problem with my sister and me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - My sister is a dog lover. I am terrified of dogs. She adopts large dogs and has several at a time. She recently moved from across the country to a few miles away from me and my family. She has become pregnant for the first time. I can't stand ...

Is he using me for sex, but is it possible he has feelings for me too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - i love my sex partner so much. He has other plains with his son's mother. she's always in and out of his life. He suppose to married her in 3 months but he's unsure.I'm HURT! i've been ONLY with him during our 5years of sex relations. Why would he ...

His ex came back into his life, and now I'm wondering if I should be there for the DNA test on my husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6053 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - ive been married for 3 yrs and now got a 2 yr old son be4 me and my husband got married he already know that i have a child of my own so its not a problem to him. me and my husband is always far from each other coz of his job he is in the military. ...

Our daughter, husband and their four children are living with us. He's not working, she only works 2 days a week. It's getting tough on us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - Trouble at home, my daughter and her husband and four children that are well loved by myself and wife. It wasn't bad at first but going on 6 months and her husband hasn't worked a day and she only works 2 days a week. It's getting very tough on my ...

Am I just an obsessed teenager that magnifies and thinks about everything he does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - I really like this guy and he's my best friend's step brother. I live with my best friend, her mom, and her step dad. The guy I like's name is Jack. Jack comes up every weekend from college and we talk to eachother at night for a really long time. ...

She says she wants to get back together when she is ready. Do you guys think I should wait for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 May 2008 (M) - Hi, Can anyone help me? Me and my girlfriend split up at the end of January as she got depressed because of her home life, and wanted a break from me as she was pushing me away, and she didn't want to hurt me. We have stayed in contact mainly thro...

How should I go about appologizing to her parents

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 May 2008 (M) - I've known my gf now for over 2 going on 3 years and we've been dating for going on 2, and i'm so in love with her and she feels the same for me. High school sweethearts, planning to get married the whole 9 yards. Well on problem...her mother d...

After my sister left the nest, my mother became overprotective of me. How should I speak to her about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - Ok, so my sister moved out about 5 months ago. My mom was having a hard time with it, but now she is perfectly fine. About 3 months ago when she got over her leaving, she started treating me like I was 2. Now she doesnt let me do anything. I want...

Since our third child, my wife's sex drive has diminished so I find myself frustrated, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 May 2008 (M) - hi im im a relationship with my girlfriend for 6 years we have four children and my problem is since my 3rd child my partners sex life has gone we have done it one it 13 months and now i am get fustrated and think its time to leave what can i do...

What is a single mom's best bet?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - I'm single mom with health issues, my BF wants to buy a house and put my name ONLY on the mortgage and he pays Is this wise? The reason I am having a dilemma: I live in a bad neighborhood, my kids like him, we have been together for 6 years and ...

What can I do? My dad is very overprotective!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I like this lad..but my dad is very protective over me. When i split up with my ex boyfriend, i wanted another lad to come round just a few days later (i was upset) - obviously, the answer was "no, wait a while" [dad]. so i've waited.. 6 ...

I'm 23 and my 15 year old nephew got me pregnant!

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

25 May 2008 (F) - Im 23 and my 15 year old nephew impregnated me! I want to keep the baby because I love him but he tells me he cant. Im so confused I love him and Ill love our child just as much. Advice?...

Is he stringing me along or really sorting out "issues" with the mother of his kid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6054 days ago

25 May 2008 (F) - I met a man whom i feel madly inlove with and for a while i thought he loved me too.Our problem is that he's still seeing the mother of his six yr old son.He told me that he is willing to break it up with her so we can have a proper relationship.But ...

Please help me, I found out my fiance slept with a girl of 17! We have a child and I'm trying to keep myself together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - I don't really know where to start, here goes! i have been in a relationship for almost 5years and myself and my fiance hit a rough patch and it had been hard for a little while and neither of us where happy. i kept it together as we have a 2year ...

I need my fun loving self back, instead of being stressed out and overworked.!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6055 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - Hey family. I've noticed lately that I am more of an uptight person than I used to be. I have 2 kids, and it seems like I do most if not all the work in my house, including earning the bread. My partner does the minimum, and he knows and admits to ...

Is once every 6 months fair for him to see his newborn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - Were not together and never will be (as far as im concerned) but we have a child on the way. He said he cant be there for us from day one of my pregnancy which iv accepted, but he will be there financially for us, which im fine with. Although, he g...

I am not very close to my mum and don't know how to tell her about my period start.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - I know everyone has the problem of telling their mum that they have started their period, but i just cant bring myself to do it, me and my mum arent really close like best mates. And i dont want to tell my friends coz im a late starter at 14!!!???...