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writes:i love my sex partner so much. He has other plains with his son's mother. she's always in and out of his life. He suppose to married her in 3 months but he's unsure.I'm HURT! i've been ONLY with him during our 5years of sex relations. Why would he get married if he's not ready, is it because of his 11 year old son?(thats what he tell me)do you think he's using me for sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): Why are you hanging around a bloke who has plans and a future with someone else? You must be mad! I certainly wouldnt be someone's sex partner, that is for sure! Have some respect for yourself and get out now, he is never going to be yours, so why stay there.
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reader, pashanoodle  +, writes (27 May 2008):
 I suspect he is having his cake and eating it too...does his "fiance" even know you exist? I doubt it. What are you wanting from him anyway? If he hasn't committed to you in 5 years - what makes you think he would/should now? Sounds like you have been happy enough to be the "bit on the side" until now?? I think he probably isn't sure about this upcoming marriage, but he'll probably go through with it (poor woman)and play happy families while assuming you will be his "sex partner" on the side as always! Maybe it's time you got a new BF...one without any "extras", be clear with him that you won;t have anything to do with him if he goes through with the wedding... so if he wants you he needs to end it with the fiance. I don;t think this will get you anywhere...but it might help you see where you stand and help you make the move to leave/let him go.
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reader, edsbabygirl +, writes (27 May 2008):
 I definately think you are the fun on the side. He may care enough about you to keep you around, but girls in your position are easily replaced. Find you self a handsome single man.
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