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Archived questions from: February, 2014 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I don't think I love him as much as he loves me, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

26 February 2014 (F) - Hey its me again.I've been hurt by guys from time I started having boyfriend Which is at 19 .I have never had a real boyfriend before until now,I'm someone who likes older guys but this one I have now is only 20 and doesn't seem to be what I want. I ...

Why do women lose interest in sex after being in a relationship for a while?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

26 February 2014 (M) - Why do women lose interest in sex after being in a relationship for a while? Maybe this Isn't the case with all women, but it seems to be like a continuously notorious pattern in my relationships. Women lose interest in sex but I still want it....

Can it be stress or is he getting bored with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

26 February 2014 (F) - Is it me being insecure or is he falling out of love? My boyfriend of a year and a half goes through phases where he telling me he loves me everyday and then phases where he doesn't. At the moment he doesn't really say it a lot. He says it if I say...

After a year this is what our sex life has become?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. We used to have sex alot! But this month we've only had sex once he's 21 and im 20. The last time two times we've started having sex he just stops and says he's to tired, or his legs or whatever is ...

Do I preserve my family or go with the love of my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

21 February 2014 (M) - Hi all, im after some advice please , around 12 years ago i met the love of my life, we saw each other for a year and went our seperate ways due to seveveral miss understandings, weve always kept in contact losely but over the past year we got...

How to clarify where I stand with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - After almost 2 and a half years my partner decided to end things out of the blue about 6 weeks ago. I am heartbroken and shocked. It's now been a week since I moved out of our joint apartment and he texts me constantly. He hasn't deleted our rela...

Advice for a broken heart.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I reunited after our breakup back in November. We were hanging out enjoying each others company, almost like it was new and exciting again. He started to become distant and having less contact with me in the past few weeks. I as...

S true love real or do you think people generally 'settle' with a nice partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I have posted about this previously but I'm still in the same predicament. Basically, I am currently dating a lovely guy but I'm really unsure of my feelings for him. We met online but decided to be friends (he was keen, I didn't feel ...

How do I find love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

18 February 2014 (M) - I am 48 years old I never had a girlfriend nor a serious relationship I am not a bad looking guy but I feel very unwelcome when I try taking to women or asking them out I made a fool out of myself Friday I asked out one of the waitress at the ...

No communication from my BF for 9 days. He's ignoring my texts. What is going on and what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - Ive not spoken to my bf since 8th Feb, he works away. I held down and tried not to txt or ring but I asked him to ring Friday and never did. I texted on Sat, nothing, and rang yesterday and still nothing. I'm not sure what to do, I cant stop thin...

I am writing because I feel so low .............

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I'm writing this because I'm feeling so low, and maybe any answers might help. To cut it short, I met this guy many years back, we started off as friends, He lived away from me, but when we met up, it became more than friends. I then found out he w...

Husband belittles me in front of friends and family. I want to leave him, but is there any way I can correct the situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - I became very resentfull toward my husband. The main reason is that he complains to people about me. He doesn't complain to everyone but certain people. Like this couple that we don't see very much often, may be every couple months. Usually ...

This Is For The Broken-Hearted on Valentine's Day

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

14 February 2014 (?) - Hello,readers! Here it is again! The day you see those gigantic red symbols called valentines; which are supposed to be hearts. They don't even look like a heart. Well, if they stick a knife through it, tear a hole, then fray the edges, it will b...

The intimacy is gone from our relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

14 February 2014 (F) - Hi I am a 33 year old female I feel like I am in my prime. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs now he is 27. We do not have any children together but I do have 2 boys 11 and 16. We have custody of them every other week. Within the past year or ...

Is this feeling of distance and disconnection common for an LDR?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

14 February 2014 (M) - I've been in a long distance relationship with my partner of 14 months for 6 months now as she had to move back home due to being unable to pay rent. However, we do get to see each other weekly or fortnghtly, depending on situations. We're also ...

I tolerated him making changes but it's killing me when he goes out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

14 February 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I do not know what to do. I am in a 4.5 years of relationship. Like 3 weeks ago, eveeything started to change. They go every friday to play volleyball or play poker and I used to go with him. One day, he told me whenever I go with him...

After four years everything he does irritates me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

14 February 2014 (F) - I have been with my partner for 4 years. we Live Together and until towards the end of last year everything seemed fine with us. recently though everything he does/or doesnt do rather irritates the life out of me. he no longer comes to bed at ...

He keeps promising to spend more time with me but never does!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

13 February 2014 (F) - This is kind of hard to explain. For the last month or so my boyfriend has been distant and doing his own thing. He's been hanging out more with friends and just spending more time by himself or doing other things. That's great and all except f...

Should I tell him this hot sexy guy wants to take me out for Valentine's Day to make him stop being so cold?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

13 February 2014 (F) - What should I do, boyfriend is breaking my heart.? My boyfriend and I usually argue about little things but this time I was really hurt and when we argued I was really angry and said he doesn't deserve me. I felt really bad and apologi...

I don't want to be in a committed relationship right now but am feeling badly that I hurt him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

13 February 2014 (F) - I was officially with my now ex-boyfriend for about a year and a half, though had known him (and occasionally been "seeing" him) for a couple of years before that, when I broke it off because I feel like I don't want to be in a relationship at the ...

I'm wondering if the relationship has lost its magic

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

12 February 2014 (F) - I have been in this relationship for four years now and we have been like a married couple for years now. I am wondering if it has lost its magic now. He's extremely busy at work because he thinks he needs to work hard. He complains that he's poor ...

He has made me feel so undervalued in my role as a wife!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3934 days ago

12 February 2014 (F) - Hello, I have a question that I have been having a hard time with. My husband and I have been married for 13 years together for 17. His mother recently passed away he was in Florida to be at her side for 1 week I took care of our kids. He returne...

Does this mean he's losing interest?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

11 February 2014 (F) - hello im a 36 year old female in a long distance relationship. i really love him and he says he loves me too but, lately i have had some strange feelings. we use to talk every day now we really dont. he use to call me two and three times a day now, ...

Has he maybe just plain lost interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

11 February 2014 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a few months now. Anyway we both got pretty busy during the holidays and I was busy with school so we didn't go out for a while. Eventually, we started talking again and went out about two weeks ago. He iniated. So ...

Am I bored with him or intimacy or both?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

10 February 2014 (F) - So, I've been with my boyfriend for two years and for the past few months i've noticed i'm never "in the mood", we used to be sooo intimate at the start of our relationship and it was great and now the thought actually makes me feel negative. We've ...

Things are finally working out in our relationship, but now that marriage is on the table I'm not sure about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3937 days ago

9 February 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We have had to face a lot of difficulties but now finally things are working out and he has said we must get married. We lived together in our second year, then he had to transfer back up country, where he...

Do women ever regret leaving a nice guy and going back to their abusive exes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

8 February 2014 (M) - Why do some women, do not like romance, they say they would like to meet a nice guy , but when they do, they go back to the guy before, who was mentally, an abusesive, to them? when you start going out ,they tell you how bad their ex was to them,...

Is there any way to save this relationship or is it not meant to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3939 days ago

7 February 2014 (F) - Hello everyone, I’m no good at relationships I never have been. Every relationship I’ve been in seems to fail. I’ve been dating this guy for a year, at first things was amazing! (I'm about to be 21 and he's 22). Then things got bad and then they...

My ex is back in town for the week, should I see him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

4 February 2014 (F) - Hi Everyone, I'm having a hard time right now and could use your advice. I dated my ex for a year, we broke up almost a year ago and he moved to a different city a few months ago, but is back in town this week. He emailed me to ask if I w...

How do I move on, when it's clear that there will be no closure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

4 February 2014 (F) - My ex dumped me, a little over 3 weeks ago. He told me he loved me in a text and then disappeared. He then turned up on facebook a week later and started posting things right after me in order to provoke a response or get my attention, none of ...

Am I asking for too much of his time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

3 February 2014 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 4 months already. But my family and friends both feel that this guy is not right for me because he does not see me as an important person in his life. Part of me knows that, but the other part of me does not want to ...

Who means more to you - the person you loved first or the person you love today?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3943 days ago

2 February 2014 (F) - So I'm just curious here. Who do YOU guys favor more? Do you have more thoughts, special feelings, or emotions towards your "first love" or towards someone who's your "new" love??! I find myself going back and forth between these two guys and there ...

My first love has already moved on, but I feel like a lousy person because I'm falling for his best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3945 days ago

2 February 2014 (F) - So my ex boyfriend moved 6 hours and now has a new life and a baby with another girl. (They are not together by the way) HOWEVER, him and I still occasionally talk. We acknowledge that we still have a lot of love for each other but that the distance ...

I took him back after he broke up with me but now he blames me for everything

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3945 days ago

2 February 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 1 year in march. I love him so much and he means the world to me, he broke up with me early in our relationship which I put down to him being on steroids. His whole attitude towards me and life changed ...