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Archived questions from: November, 2008 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

He's backed off and become distant. Should I wait this out?

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30 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months has backed off and gotten distant. Our kids are not getting along-he says he loves me but when we have our kids he wants to keep them apart for a little while. When I tried to tell him about my feelings and how I wasnt ...

My bestfriend became my lover and now he ignores me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I have known this guy for years and over the summer we became great friends, then we became more than great friends and he became ever so lovy dovy and often said that he loved me. But recently he has become distant, he never says that he loves me ...

I want him back but he won't answer my calls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5834 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - we married after a relationship lasted for years.we made a wonderful marriage,everything was perfect until...after 10 months of marriage we started fighting not on major issues(problems not related to us)but in an agressive way.now after couple ...

What do you do when the love of your life leaves you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5835 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - What do you do when the love of your life leaves you claiming he no longer loves you? We were together for 2 years and he told me I was the love of his life. he was my first boyfriend and we had everything in common and a lot of stuff, well it w...

My relationship has gone stale, how can I revive it and start being myself around him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5835 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, and about four months ago, we moved in together. We've had problems in the past that are still lingering around, trouble is, now that we're constantly around eachother, the problems have bec...

One second I want to be with her and the other I don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5831 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - I don't know what to do with my relationship. Sometimes i want to be with her and other times i just want to be single again. We've been going out for more than a year now and although she does make me happy i'm getting bored. One second i'll...

He laughed and called me his "fuck buddy!"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hi People I'm finding this really hard, I've been split with my bf just over a month, and I'm still in contact as in friends and I still sometimes sleep with him in the car, Well last nite I went round his house for the first time since we sp...

I feel like he doesn't care about me anymore...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5835 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - well, I've been officially dating this guy for 10 days. Before that we were basically together for like 3 months but he never officially asked me out. We always used to talk about a lot of things and really deeply too. I felt really into him and now ...

Do feelings really just fade away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Ok so my girlfriend of 2.5 years broke up with me a couple months ago. I have been an idiot and kept pressing the issue of getting back together, even though i know she needs her space right now and doesn't want a boyfriend. I didn't do anything ...

Is this relationship over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - I am 25 and have been with my gf for 5 years now, we are engaged and I feel as though our spark has gone. I love her more then anything else in the world and she is "in Love" with me. I don't think I'm in love with her any more, I take her for ...

Is my relationship over? Loving someone and to love someone...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - I have been with my gf for 5 years now, we are engaged and I feel as though our spark has gone. I love her more then anything else in the world and she is "in Love" with me. I don't think I'm in love with her any more, I take her for granted, don't ...

I believe in fighting for the one I love, but how do I do that in this situation? Any Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for approx 18 mos, we had a slow, deliberate start for a few reasons. We both had been burned in prior relationships (not recent though, I felt we were both pretty far moved on by the time we both got officially going, ...

He doesn't tell me he loves me anymore ..what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend whilst on holiday, I stayed at my aunt's (not biological) and he is her husband's nephew. Anyway, I decided I needed the holiday after my previous long term relationship ended. I was with my aunt for about two months when he told ...

I want to break up with my girlfriend. she doesn't cook, doesn't clean, is messy...I want her out !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - i want to break up with my girlfriend. she lives with me and has no where really to go if i break up with her. she is a sweet girl. we lived together for about three months and things just aren't goin the way i thought they would. she doesn't cook, ...

My husband of 12 years packed up and left... what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - Here goes..Today My husband of 12 years packed his clothes and left. He told me he didnt love me anymore and has left me with our 2 boys. I know we haven't been seeing eye to eye for some time but i honestly never expected this. after all, what ...

I want him back, I need him to give us a second try!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5844 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I had been in a relationship for 5 years previously, anyway it was over and within a couple of weeks i started to date someone new, who i knew of, but did not know well! We both fell in love with each other and i thought everything was g...

She acts weird while on the phone, I'm in a lot of pain because of it, should I leave her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - I got a girlfriend for 2 years now and she means everything to me. She makes me feel special and everything. The Only problem is that she been acting weird i don't know if she is tired of me when we are next to each other she acts the way i want ...

Is he looking for sympathy or what?

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19 November 2008 (F) - After my boyfriend showed no interest to me lately I decided to give him some space. I assumed that, he needed it because he didn't call me for about a week but all of a sudden he calls me 24/7 and wants to come and see me but I am not in the mood ...

I don't know whether or not I should move in with my boyfriend when I am just "not feeling a spark other than friendship between us!"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5839 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - My boyf and I were together 4 years before i broke it off for one year. I didn't feel our relationship was going anywhere, and felt we needed a break. We got back together 4 months ago, and have recently signed up for a place together (1 year on the ...

My feelings for him seem to have faded, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5847 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I have a relationship problem, i don't know if i even have feelings for the guy I'm with, at first everything was sooo good but when he told me that he found out he had a baby mama [he got her pregnant before he got with me] that's when things ...

Now that he's not on probation, he wants little to do with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a little over a year. After the first month I met him, he was arrested, I stayed with him through that. Then, six months later, he went to court for what he was charged for and put on six months probation. ...

How can I survive when my husband doesn't even look at me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - My husband doesn't even look at me. I'm attractive, by and other's opinion. He does not smile at me, or want anything to do with me. I always have to initiate everything. Even a walk or just a bit of nice time together. He is always in a bad mood...

We broke up because we were better off friends and now he hates me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - i recently broke up with my boyfriend of one year because i felt that we were more friends than lovers (although the sex was good). now he really hates he and thinks i set out to hurt his from the start. i didnt he say he will delete my numbe...

Putting up with the partner's stress and mood swings - when is enough, enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - What say you? When is enough, enough? Does how much you'll put up with depend on the circumstances of your partner's mood swings as well as the length of your relationship, or is it never excusable to take your mood out on your partner? Does anyo...

She told me she was falling for me too... then she changed her mind!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

16 November 2008 (M) - Here's the story! I've been in love with this girl for 3 years and until recently was too scared to tell her how I felt. Since I told her, things have been realy weird between us and last Friday she told me she was falling for me too, I was really ...

Why do men cheat? I am so disgusted with my boyfriend!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - why do men cheat? my boyfriend of 5 years has cheated on me... I have tried to forgive him and move forward but its hard... instead of talking about my feelings to him I just bottle them up... it is so difficult... I kiss him and I think of her ...

Help with ex girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5850 days ago

14 November 2008 (M) - I cheated on her while on drugs and drunk (which is no excuse, i know) but what happened happened. I love her so much and after it happened she saw that I had asked the girl if she was clean on myspace message and asked if I did anythign with her I ...

My wife and I move in and out of each others lives and homes. What do I do to make us both happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5849 days ago

14 November 2008 (M) - Need help! Don't know what to do. I married this woman. We met at college and she chased me. We went out and then married twelve years later. In between I kept moving out or taking jobs away but I always ended up coming back to her and she would ...

I feel like I should just move on, but I can't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

14 November 2008 (M) - Hello everyone. We are back together for few weeks after a major fight. Since then, we don't meet each other much. She always missed my calls and not calling back. She said she is busy with her work. She works at night but recently, she sa...

Still in love with my ex, but he isnt sure if he wants me back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - Question: I've spent three years trying to make my own mind up but with no success, I need help in deciding what I should do next. Do I continue hoping that we will get back together? Do I leave my current relationship, spend some time on my own w...

Is this a case of long distance destruction? Could he really change his mind so fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a little less than a year now. Everything has been wonderful. He's sweet and kind, he loves doing things for me, we have tons of things in common and we have so much fun when we are together. About a two mo...

Do I keep or dump him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend (dating for 3 months),a clever and charming business guy, has suddenly stopped giving me attention and says he is too busy with his work to see me. He says he still loves me, but not seeing him as often as before brings doubts to my ...

I thought we were doing great but my wife told me she's not attracted to me anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - I need some feedback here-,my wife and i have been married for 8 years now-weve always had our problems of course-no infidelity-nothing like that. about 6 weeks ago we were getting ready for church and my wife tearfully told me im not in love with...

I have to stop feeling this way before it kills me. How do I handle this ?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I need help. I am getting seriously sick - literally and metaforically - because of the situation I am in. Here goes..I have been married for several years now. During the marriage me and my guy have been through a lot ups and downs and I see him ...

Do I really love my boyfriend? Or is my pride more important to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i get into little arguments once in awhile. we've been together for 7 months. it usually starts because of something he does or say that just irritates me. and the way i deal with it is just not talking to him. i know that's unfair ...

IS this midlife crisis or have I fallen out of love with my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Help! I have realised that I dont love my husband anymore. I like him, hes a nice guy but theres no passion or interest. I dont know what to do as we are in a business together and after working so hard at the business I dont want to give up my ...

I want more attention, but is it because of me or is it him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - hi their just a small relationship problem. ok me and my partner have be going out for about 5 months we new each other before as friends for another 5 - 7 months.. things were great in the beginning we had a few tiffs nothing special, then we...

I don't feel the same about him anymore and I don't want to feel that way.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5854 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. All of a sudden one day I didn't feel the same for him. I thought when it happened that it would go away after a week because I have felt like this before and it has gone away. Now I have been keeping it ...

I don't know about this relationship any more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5854 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - I don't know about this relationship any more. Sometimes I love my boyfriend so much, somtimes I feel like I don't want to see him and if I never do I'll be fine, and sometimes its so awkward seeing him, and sometimes I love seeing him. It's ...

My girlfriend is acting weird, it seems like I am bothering her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - Dear cupid. I have been with my girlfriend for almost two months...but i think something is not working out for me.. she is korean..and came one year ago from there...of course we have different cultures..but i really try hard to understand h...

Am I so wrong for wanting to leave my husband and make a better life for me and my kids?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - I still care about my husband but I am ready to move on and better my life and the lives of my children. I have been with my husband 9 years now but for the last 6 years my husband has not worked and I have been the one supporting our family ...

I don't want to see him any more but how do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5843 days ago

8 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for the past 7 months, and they've been great, with a lot of happy times, but i feel its come to the point where i don't want to see him anymore, i don't feel like i want to talk him, text him or see ...

My LD lover of 6 years doesn't have time for me and our daughter!

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8 November 2008 (F) - i am involved with a guy for the past 6 years, we have a 2 year old daughter, we live apart in differant towns, he is always telling me he is very busy and has no time for us we see each other once every month. is there reason he is having an ...

How long until I can truly move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

6 November 2008 (M) - Why am I still feeling this way? It’s been 1 year since the break up. One full year –time has flew by. Is it even possible to still feel LOVE? How long does it take to get over it. I know there is no possibility of me getting back especially ...

Six months later, she's acting differently and it's breaking my heart.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

6 November 2008 (M) - Hello. I am going steady with my girlfriend for 6 months now. I am 39 and she is 48. The first few months were perfect...we loved each other so much. Now 6 months later things are different. We don`t kiss as often as before,she does not tell me she ...

I want to date other guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5858 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for 3yrs. he was my first and i love him dearly but latley i've been feeling like i dont want to be with him anymore. hes had many other girls that hes dated and i feel like i haven't dated enough guys to see exactly what ...

He broke up with me, but doesn't seem to quite want to let me go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - Ive been split with my guy for about nearly 3 months now, but are relationship seems weired compared to my other relationships, and also a few of my friends ex relationships. On the day we split it was his choice to end it, anyway we split in the m...

Is she testing me after 8 months of nonsense?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

6 November 2008 (M) - Hi Everyone, I have been dating this girl (# 1) (28 years old) for 8 months. Months ago she basically said only friend status. Days later from that she went on vacation and I met another women. I dated her (lets call her # 2) for a couple mon...

Does she want me to Love her already? Its only been 2 weeks!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5858 days ago

6 November 2008 (M) - there is a girl who works behind the bar in my local pub. i liked her but never really spoke to her as I didn't know what to say. 2weeks ago she came after me and told me she liked me and wanted to go out with me. we have gone out a few times and ...

My long distance beau is depressed and dealing with all sorts of stuff. I don't know if he wants me anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5858 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - Hi I have read a couple of your threads on this site seeking help for my own situation. I see that many responses are unbiased and offer some solid perspective. So if you wouldn’t mind, please read about my situation and if there is anythin...