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writes:i recently broke up with my boyfriend of one year because i felt that we were more friends than lovers (although the sex was good). now he really hates he and thinks i set out to hurt his from the start.i didnthe say he will delete my number and never wants to talk to me again.i really wanted to stay friends as i really care for him alot.what should i do?leave it and accept that he hates me or try and contact him.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (17 November 2008):
You have to let him go through this phase.
You can't just simply dump him because you want to be friends and expect him to be fine with it.
You've split up with him. He didn't want to split up and so he is very hurt.
You have to accept this and let him get over you before you get his friendship back. It has to be his choice to be your friend.
When you do the dumping you don't get to pick how they react.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, AuntBeth +, writes (17 November 2008):
 If you really value his friendship, then meet up with him and explain that you care for him a lot: but only as a friend. Offer him comfort, but say your relationship would be much better if you were just friends.
If he continues to be difficult, or refuses to meet you, then don't waste your time on him. Move on, and eventually I'm sure you'll become friends again.
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