A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone. We are back together for few weeks after a major fight.Since then, we don't meet each other much. She always missed my calls and not calling back. She said she is busy with her work. She works at night but recently, she said she work at day time too.She is not having financial problem so I don't get the idea why she does that. The work will keep coming and there is already people working in day time.Now, she only chat with me online after she is back from work. Not actually chatting. Obviously she is entertaining me. She stayed invisible but initiate the communication. I don't get it. If she is just entertaining me, why talk to me?Oh, one night, I called her few times. She 'missed' it and text me saying she was at restaurant. Later when we talked online, she said she was hoping me to call back again. I caught her lying because her online profile last seen time was just few minutes ago. And she can call me too if she really want to talk.I feel she is having other guy at work that I should just move on. But I simply can't. Am I over concern?Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008): It sounds like she might have lost interest in you but not know how to tell you. Tell her you would like to know where you stand then at least you will be clear and can move on.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008): Thank you so much for the responses.
From all her actions, I know she isn't interested in me like she used to. I don't know why she doesn't want to tell me but choose to string me like a puppet. She knows am waiting every day yet she want to agonize me. It is just me couldn't accept the truth.
It is time to open my long blinded eyes by the non existence love. The one I loved is changed. She is no longer her. There is nothing more I could do to fix the relationship but move on. Perhaps, that is best for both of us.
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female
reader, hannah76  +, writes (14 November 2008):
 Hello, From what you describe she isn't interested. Don't play into this game of missed calls, invisible online, busy, working and all that rubbish. Just don't contact anymore and delete her. The anon below was very accurate with their post. all the best xxxx
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