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*adermis
writes:I got a girlfriend for 2 years now and she means everything to me. She makes me feel special and everything. The Only problem is that she been acting weird i don't know if she is tired of me when we are next to each other she acts the way i want when we are over the phone she threats me like nothing last time she told me she loves me was 1 moth ago i really need some advice. I don't know what to do leave her or stay like this Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (20 November 2008):
 5 hours is a reeeeaaaallllyyy long time to be on the phone. Cut that down by some of those hours and she'll probably be much happier on the phone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008): I just saw your followup and I have to ask...do you phone her? If you do, then stop calling her so much and stop talking to her such long periods of time. She likely just needs some space. She needs other outlets and friends, too. That is just the healthier way to conduct a relationship. Relationships get a case of 'overkill' really fast if just one person, is needing to call all the time, they come off looking clingy and needy. I am assuming you are actually seeing her in person too? Then you need to only call her about 2-3 times per week, and keep it short..to about an hour.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008): You need to communicate to her what you have said here, in your posting. We don't know why she's acting wierd. There could a number of viable answers to that question.
It could just mean that after long term dating, some couples do get complacent and somewhat 'lazy' and don't feel the need to compliment and make the other feel special. Sad but true. They still love each other but they forget that a relationship takes ongoing work, all of the time.
I would go to her with your concerns and see what she has to say. Ask for her honesty and complete truthfulness. Good luck, and best wishes.
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reader, Radermis +, writes (20 November 2008):
Radermis is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe started acting like this like 1 moth ago i talk to her everyday for about 5 hours on the phone and when she hangs up she goes and call her friend and she don't pick up when i call
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