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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

She tell me I'm not in her life plan but I love her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5803 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - what do i do when the person i love tells me i am not in her life plan. we have not been together for over a year, however, we remain in contact and i saw her very recently. i asked if she still loved me she said in a different way and not in love ...

I don't believe that I love my daughter's father anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I am in my early 30’s and I have a one year old baby girl. She is the best thing that ever happened to us. The problem is that when I was eight months pregnant her father called me a spic, and when she was only eight days old I was kick-out of the ...

Why does he want to be 'just friends'?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I dated for 28 days. We were soo happy together. He would text me all day the 1st coupe of weeks and he'd make me every morning with a 'good morning baby!' and it was so nice. The on the 18th I was with him and some girl popped u...

Do you think the long distance ruined our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - For the past 6 years, my husband and i are in a long distance relationship. My son who is 6 years old (he left a month before he was born) and i visit him twice yearly for a total of 10 weeks. Initially when he left, i would cry all the time and get ...

Two guys who want to date me! I'm really confused...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

30 December 2008 (?) - I have two really great guys that both want me to date them. Guy number one is my ex. I broke up with him because my mother hates him, he was really jealous from time to time, and I was worried I couldn't stop myself from having sex with him. I ...

Is she losing interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - Ok, I'll start off by saying that I easily get paranoid and self concious, though not near as bad as I used too. I have been in a relationship for a couple months and she and I have already told each other we love each other. Anyways Christma...

Is he no longer in love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My question is as follows: My husband and I have been married for 12 years and have 3 children. Here in the last four months my H and I had a big falling out. To be honest it was not that big of a deal. During the fight he stated that he was done ...

I'm only with him because I'm scared to be alone after all this time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5782 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - hi all, I really need some help. i've been in my relationship for 5 years but i've begun feeling differently about my bf. Lately I feel like we are not as connected as we used to be. I used to believe that my bf was the perfect person for me, a...

He broke up with me... I wanted to fix things... what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - So my boyfriend just broke up with me. I thought everything was fine...we have been dating for 28 days now. He asked me out on Dec. 1st and after a bit of him persuading me (saying "I will never hurt you, and I will never make you cry, you have bee...

I love my wife but not in love any more... plus another relationship, what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - I've been married just short of 3 years to what works out to really be my high school sweetheart. She is a wonderful person and loves me very much. I also love her but after 15 years of being together 3 married and 12 dating on and off I don't think ...

Wanting to explore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - Okay, so this is a strange problem. or maybe it isnt, i dont know. im 19 and in a serious relationship with a guy i know i want to spend my life with, and have been with him for over 3 years. but recently i felt this push from inside, something ...

Is my imagination playing tricks on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5805 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - I have a crush on a guy, and recently found out he feels the same, however i am currently seeing someone. He knows i am seeing someone, and is leaving me to sort out what i want. Thing is, i have been with my guy for over a year, and still can no...

Should I let some time pass or end this LDR because I'm so confused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - I'm writing this mostly as therapy and introspection for myself but it will be intertersting to get an outside opinion looking in on my situation. I am 20 years old and have been dating my beautiful girlfriend for a year and a half long-distance ...

How do I accept the fact my husband and I will never have sex again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - How do I get over the fact my husband and I will never have sex again? It's been over a year now. To try and cut a long story short over a year ago I really hurt my husband's feelings. I was very rude and hurtful towards him. This wasn't the 1st ...

Do we just not have that magical connection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5808 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - Lately, i have been feeling bored with my relationship. We have been together on and off for 5 years. I am worried, as we are great friends, however things between us are just rather boring at the moment, and i find myself thinking about o...

How do I break the news of a divorce to my kids?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - How do I tell my kids ages 8 and 3 that I am divorcing their father?...

How do I get back what is missing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - hey guys, this mite sound a bit strange...but here goes... so, iv been in a relationship with an amazing guy for almost a year and a half. he makes me so happy its unbelievable. we enjoy each others company, we love each other, and we have a go...

Guy has angel/devil behavior

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - Hi! I really need your help. I have been with this mas for 3.5 yrs. We have been broken up for few months. I keep calling. I just cannot make myself stop. One day he is nice. The next he is the devil. We had been talking again for about 3wks and he ...

Is he silently pushing me away??????????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - My bf of 4yrs was offended by me talking about our future. I want to marry him, and I told him. Ever since then we went 8 days with no contact or talking. Then I finally cracked and called him. He is very distant on the phone with me. I did ask ...

Am I just afraid of being a single Mom again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - i am trying to decide whether or not to leave my boyfriend, the problem is ,is that sometimes he can be a real jerk to my daughter and i can't stand it anymore. we get into fights because i stick up for her and he gets mad so i don't know what to ...

Weird confusion about my girlfriend, is it an anxiety disorder?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5808 days ago

26 December 2008 (M) - Ok, so I had my girlfriend for half a year now, and everything's just perfect - we never had fights, never offended each other, always joked around and it's just great and dream-like - until now. Sometimes, I feel extremely empty in my chest and ...

How to just end things

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5808 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - I'm 14, and i have a boyfriend and we have been going out since the end of october. we also went out near the end of july, but i ended it with him in august when i found out he had cheated on me. i got back with him in october because all our ...

My marriage isn't working... Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

25 December 2008 (M) - hi Cupid, I am 36 years of age, asian and have been unhappily married for 6 years. I married at the age of 30 out of conveniency and desperation as I had never fallen in love with anyone. I never thought I would meet my soul mate. My parent...

Who do I choose? I'm married but I have feelings for a coworker.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

25 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my husband for 12 years and married for 3 of them. Recently, someone at work has fallen for me in a big way and I feel the same. I know it's wrong but we have kissed. We have always been good friends and he is the sweetest guy, he ...

How do you know if SO is tired of you

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

25 December 2008 (F) - How do you know if your significant other is getting tired of you. There aren't any obvious signs. He comes home every night, but our sex life has dropped off to once a week (when it used to be practically every night) and my b/f seems hateful and ...

Our relationship is fine, but I still really want to get out!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5811 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - Help!! I feel like i am in a perfect relationship, yet kicking and screaming inside!! I feel that everything is great, he treats me well, respects me, we have a good time together, and we are living together. Yet despite all this, i am constantly ...

How can I ask forgiveness and make him trust me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5811 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - ive been together with my boyfriend for 8 years we have two kids together. and a year ago when i got pregnant with my second baby i cheated on him with someone else. i didnt now if the kid was his or the others so i told him 2months after the baby ...

My wife can't stand me, I think she's cheating, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

24 December 2008 (M) - Hey All, I am in a relationship where my wife cant stand me. She says we are not friends, finds me repulsive and would prefer not to talk to me, much less anything else. We have 3 children and i have always been the bread winner. I am an alcoholi...

Midlife crisis or the end of a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Is it possible to love someone but be repulsed by them sexually and continually dream of a life without them? Could this just be a midlife crisis or does it signify the end of a relationship? ...

Break-up: Before or After Christmas?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Yes, this is incredibly bad timing. I have been in a relationship for 4 years and have known for a long time that something wasn't right. I wasn't ready to admit to myself that I no longer wanted to be in the relationship - until yesterday. My ...

She thinks of our relationship as more of a friendship, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - i have been with my girlfiend for 18 months now and i love her so much. latly everything has changed and i dont know what to do. she said that she feels as though our relationship is more of a friendship. i dont know what happened. i buy her gifts ...

Should I just suck it up and forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - I have been married for 11 years and recently separated from my husband. We have 5 children together, the youngest is under 6 months old and was a total surprise. I already knew I wasn't happy and wasn't planning any more children at that point in ...

He doesn't show his affection, am I doing something wrong? Just want to feel loved...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - Okay I've been coming to you guys for advice for time and a half and its always been great, so my predicament now is with.. my bf. Okay, him and I have been dating for about half a year now and I'm head over heels for him, and he says hes the same ...

Is he falling out of love with me? The passion is dying...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is slowly letting the passion die when we have sex.....He doesnt seem to kiss me like he use to during but he still shows effection everyday....We have been together for awhile and I just dont want to be one of those couples that things ...

I can't get closure in this relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - I recently became involved with a guy that I was at college with 3 years ago. When we got back in contact several months ago, we became very close and he admitted that he had strong feelings for me when we knew each other before, and that these ...

I need male advice: how to keep a man interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - I need male advice: How do I keep him interested without looking needy or like I'm playing games?...and, why won't he tell me if it's over? We've been dating for 3 years, and I'm feeling ignored. My self-employed man said he's too busy to exchange...

He's convinced that I'm cheating on him. Does anyone have any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend says im not tight anymore like I used to be. So he calls me a slut and horror cause he says im cheating. Its really sad actually cause I dont go anywhere EVER and i'm always with him if im not at work, so he says im doing it a work ...

He forgot my birthday again! Should I continue with this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend forgot my birthday for the second time. We have been dating for about 3years now. Distance has always been a problem but it is so torturing and painful that for the second time, I had to remind him again and all he could say was work...

I'm losing that loving feeling!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5814 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - hey im scared that i have stopped feeling for this guy fancy my ex i woke up this morning and i thought of him (like every morning) and i didnt get that buddley feeling in my belly and i put are song on , put my headphones in my ears , cuddled ...

He says he doesn't love me! Should we break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - Here goes my story.. I met with my present boyfriend in college. When we met, I didn't find him particularly attractive in any sense and would have never thought about a relationship with him. He liked another girl at that time (her childhood friend ...

How do you know if your husband still loves you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5815 days ago

19 December 2008 (F) - i've been married for 1 year and now we have our baby.. i just want to ask how do u knows if ur husband still loves you?i love my husband so much i care for him i accept all of his worst .but sometimes i dont feel that im special to him. he dont ...

I felt hurt and humiliated - is it normal to think that my marriage could be in trouble?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

19 December 2008 (F) - I would like to know if I'm just being over sensitive or would you also feel real hurt if it's your birthday and you invite a couple of your close friends to have dinner with you and one of your husband's female collegues was also invited and he ...

My man calls me stupid all the time, I'm starting to look differently at him, what do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

19 December 2008 (F) - My man calls me stupid all the time and it's really starting to hurt me and change the way I look at him. I have also have notice that he doesn't seem to be attractive to me anymore. I asked him if he still thought I was and he said yes but it ...

If I leave, could I be leaving the love of my life? Or if he is the love of my life, should I have realised that by now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5815 days ago

18 December 2008 (F) - I am currently living with my man of 4 years. We have signed for a lease of one year. Thing is, i feel guilty, i am always feeling unsure about our relationship, as to whether or not we are best as just friends. He is so lovely to me, and ...

Could this still be post natal depression? I feel I have fallen out of love with my husband.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F) - I have a strange sort of problem which is beginning to scare me a little. I am 25 and gave birth to a beautiful little girl 6 months ago. After the birth I had post natal depression which really came between my huaband and I, and although I have ...

My love is fading

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5798 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - im 21 yrs old and i have a boyfriend we been together for about 3 yrs and we have a 5 month old son, he is the first and only boyfriend i ever had,lately im been questioning my love for him, dont get me wrong i do love him but its not a strong ...

Fell in love on-line, now heart broken, how do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I know this is going to sound sad and pathetic, but I really need help. On Myspace there's this thing called Roleplaying(they probably have it on other sites like it too), it's where you use someone else's (famous or not) pictures and talk with ...

All he wants to do is go out with friends and text other girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year now in the beggining when we meet i was not really interested in him because of our age difference he is 23 and i am 31 although i look alot younger than him he told me he did not care about the age ...

He invited me for Christmas so I cancelled my plans, but then he got cold feet, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - Help! Everything's going wrong! I've been seeing my boyfriend since September (although we had known each other as acquaintances for six months before that). Things were just starting to feel comfortable and easier than when we first started going ...

Does anyone understand why he is now ignoring me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - I need a good, clear, understandable explanation to this puzzling problem Why would a guy I've had a past with and admitted before that he liked me, text me (sometimes 5 times a day), talk to me online, tell me about his life and what he's doing,...