A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: i have been with my girlfiend for 18 months now and i love her so much. latly everything has changed and i dont know what to do. she said that she feels as though our relationship is more of a friendship. i dont know what happened. i buy her gifts soemtimes and take her out to dinner occasionally. what do i do? i want her to feel like she is in a realtionship and and not just a friendship. please help me. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, nokutenda +, writes (23 December 2008):
be unavailable,don't call her,stop buying her gifts,don't text her,get busy with something else
she will start missing you and realize she wants more than friendship
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female
reader, sappygirl +, writes (23 December 2008):
you are probably giving too much and she has gotten bored.
Unfortunately girls like a little challenge..excitement.
Not to ignore her and be a jerk, but be less available and attentive. Don't make her YOUR WORLD. just focus your on your life, and when you start giving less..see the diffence because she will give more.
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