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writes:Help!! I feel like i am in a perfect relationship, yet kicking and screaming inside!! I feel that everything is great, he treats me well, respects me, we have a good time together, and we are living together. Yet despite all this, i am constantly trying to convince myself something is not right, and lately i have been thinking a lot about another man. Would i be wrong to get out of this relationship despite the fact things appear to be fine with us? Sometimes i just crave the feeling of being single, and free. It scares me the thought of being with my guy forever and never being with anyone else. Please help. XX Reply to this Question
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (24 December 2008):
 I feel this way sometimes. Like you are in a perfect relationship but something doesn't feel right or you are scared to be with him forever or just want to be alone. I'm not sure if this is your case but with me, it's boredom. I get bored really easily and just want something new and different and fun. Before you leave this guy or make any drastic decisions, do some new things with him. Go out and try things neither of you have never done before. And really sit down and think about why you are with him. Is it love? Is it simply that you want some drama in your life and he is too mundane? By not knowing how you feel about this guy it is hard to tell you what to do. If you feel you are just with him just because it's how your relationship ended up and there is no love there then you probably should move on. But again it is hard to say without knowing how you feel about him. Good luck with everything.
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