A
female
age
41-50,
*arling000
writes:Lately, i have been feeling bored with my relationship. We have been together on and off for 5 years. I am worried, as we are great friends, however things between us are just rather boring at the moment, and i find myself thinking about other men. I have gone off sex, and when we try, i can never get in the mood. Im not sure if he just doesnt turn me on anymore, or if i am just being disrespectful. I dont expect to be feeling butterflies every day i see him after 4 years, but sometimes i just feel that spark has gone. I just feel ike i have to decide now once and for all as to what i need to do. Do i stay or go? Do you think i am just a commitment phobic, feeling trapped, or does it sound like we just do not have that magical connection (i do tend to have high romantic expectations). Thanks, i would really appreciate your advice. XX
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reader, timbo  +, writes (27 December 2008):
every couple goes thru ruts. problem is realizing that and doing something about it. change your routines, change your lives,give up something and pick up something new. tell him you are bored, maybe he'll want to attempt to change that. maybe hes feeling bored too and is ready to go dancing with you and relite that spark. communication people
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