New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in December, 2006, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (2), 3 (5), 4 (6), 5 (1), 6 (2), 9 (1), 10 (3), 11 (1), 14 (5), 15 (1),
16 (1), 19 (1), 20 (2), 21 (5), 22 (1), 23 (1), 24 (1), 26 (1), 27 (5), 28 (1),
29 (2), 30 (1),

Archived questions from: December, 2006 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

It's been 3 years and it seems like the more interested I get, the more distant he becomes.Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6566 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Hello. I need help. I have been with this guy for about 3 years now, and I am so confused. This guy is 20 years older than myself- I'm 36 and he is 56. At first, when he started asking me out, I found every excuse no to go out with him. This ...

Do you think he hs just lost interest, or genuinly wants time alone? Any thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6567 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for the past 6 months. I was cautious about getting into anything because I thought he was just after a bit of fun, but anyway things progressed and we have seen each other every day since the start of June this year. I ...

I found out my wife lied to me, so many years ago and can't get through this! Advice please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6567 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 15 years after two years of dating. Recently we received a card from a woman that revealed my wife had an affair with her husband for over a year while she worked for him. The relationship happened before we were ...

I don’t know whether to pursue the friends with exs thing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6556 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - Help. My ex broke it off with me just before Christmas. It has been the most confusing thing I have ever been through. The last time we saw each other didn’t go especially well, but we didn’t argue which I think had been part of the problem. We ...

How do i get over a mentally, sexually, financially abusive man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6566 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - ive been in love with the same mentally, sexually, financially abusive man for 10 years. how do i get over him and why am i still obssessing over him...

she offered me an ultimatum of "re-concilling a relationship with her or not ever seeing my son again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6568 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) - I am a father to a 15 year old boy, of which his mother and I have been apart for the past 12 years, but i have always made a point of maintaining a relationship with him. 2 years ago his mother offered me an ultimatum of "re-concilling a ...

We are soulmates, but for the past few days

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and have lived together for 2 years. we are soulmates, but for the past few days, he has been really distant, and has kept his mobile on silent for the past few days and barely even acknowledges me. i dont ...

This is a long one but it's worth it..... What is her game?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6565 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) - Hi there... I am 25, male, please help. (This may take a while, sorry its so long). Ive been going with a girl for well over a year now, we used to be best friends, and always have been. There was always chemistry between us, but she was wit...

He has hurt me and will continue but I still don't think I can walk away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - hiya this i lad i like has messed with my head and my heart but i still like him and im worried that when he next asks me out ill say yes and get hurt again how can i stop my self and forget about him? and why am i still attracted to some one who ...

How can I get the passion back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6568 days ago

26 December 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for a year. It used to be great. We experimented a little bit, and we broke up for a little while. We got back together and we have been for about two months. We only broke up for a few weeks. Now she seems to ...

He said we would be together forever. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6569 days ago

24 December 2006 (F) - hey my name is whitney and im 13 and my b/f Evan is 14 and moved to phili and he hasnt talked to me for 1 1/2 days and he said he would call me like everyday and he said we will be together 4 ever and im so sad cuz when i dont talk to him i get sad ...

Is it time to end my long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6572 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for almost a year. i don't know much about his personnal life. he doesn't do anything for me we only talk on the phone.he was supposed to take a job to make more money and so we could be ...

Is he avoiding me because he thinks I may end this 10-year affair?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6572 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) - I have been having an affair with a married man for 10 years. We have split up during that period but after about 6 months or so we have resumed the affair. He has 3 grown up kids and he doesn't work--retired with a pension. His wife works as a uma...

I found out that she is planning on breaking up with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6575 days ago

21 December 2006 (M) - hey there i feel that this is pretty important i have a girlfriend and we have been going out for 1 year and two months so arguements are just going down and love levels also, well last night i was doing some snooping(which is bad on both ends) so i ...

Meeting him has shown me that the men I dream about are out there

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6564 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years. I'm still at university and recently have been on a law placement and met a really nice guy. When I've pictured the man I will marry all my life, this is type of guy: intelligent, attractive, considerate, ...

My dad thinks she is jealous

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6575 days ago

21 December 2006 (M) - Hi, i need some help here, my ex gf and i broke up a fair while back and now i'm with someone else called Holly, now my ex claims not to love me or anything or even fancy me anymore, however on my msn screen name i have i love Holly, and la...

I really should not have got married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6570 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) - Hi. I dont even know where to start. I thought i had life sorted. I was marrying my best friend. We had problems for a while. Anyway to cut a long story short. I started an affair . I tried many a times to stop the affair but it felt so right.. ...

How can you bring a spark back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6575 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) - simple. im a gurl. with a guy. the relationship is going no where. we are difficult. and itz hard to communicate. not meaning to sound mean but i am bored. we could both use some suggestions to help bring back a spark. thanks....

I like this guy at school, but I can't break up with my bf. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6576 days ago

20 December 2006 (F) - hi there i have a few problems here im confused and stuff i like this guy at my skool, and i want to go out with him but i cant seem to break up with my bf well my bf is watching me he wont let me use the phone well he does but only to call my one ...

When we make love it feels empty. Should I still get married feeling this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6576 days ago

20 December 2006 (F) - HI i am getting married in a 7 months and i'm not sure about it.I have had problems with trust and approval from men and it lingers in this relationship.I feel like he dosent love me...yet he tries to do sweet things but i feel we are ...

Recently he seems to have lost intrest in me..what can I do to spice things up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6578 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) - i have been with the man for almost 6 years and we have had our ups and downs and been thru alot lately with everyday life,we use to have the best sex life ever, then recently he seems to have lost intrest in me, like maybe im not like i use to be ...

Watching her give birth has turned me off giving her oral sex! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6580 days ago

16 December 2006 (M) - Can't give her oral sex any more............ Hi, my wife just had a baby about 10 months ago, a wonderful little girl. I was in the operating room and seeing her going thru delivery left me with these images in my head. Before I used to...

He will be kicked out of her parent's house if he goes off his GF

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6582 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) - im madly in love with a guy that has a gf and he been confessing his love to me alot. he says he has gone off his gf and sees her as his best mate not gf we had a few nights out together and we finding it really hard to just hang out as we almost ...

All the medication he takes lowers his labido?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6567 days ago

14 December 2006 (M) - I love my boyfriend very much but we don't have sex anymore. he says it is because of all the medication he takes lowers his labido. I ask him to talk to his doc. he didn't. evrything else is good but i am thinking of getting a secerit lover. what ...

She's still in contact with her Ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6579 days ago

14 December 2006 (M) - Hello, I could really do with some advise on a few problems in my "great" relationship. I've been seeing an amazing girl for 7 months, and all i seem to do is chase her and get repeatedly rejected. We keep in contact throughout the day through email ...

I think it would be better if i went out with my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6582 days ago

14 December 2006 (F) - Hey ok well Im dating this boy and we have kissed and stuff, but i really want to get back with my ex as I like him more then my present boyfriend. I dont really feel brave enough to dump him though but i think it would be better if i went out with ...

Who should I date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6582 days ago

14 December 2006 (F) - im 15 and ive got a 16 year old boyfriend im in year 10 and hes in college, he also works most nights and because of his religion hes not alowed to date girls, this makes it hard as he always has to come to my house but im scared of what my mum will ...

He agreed that he wanted marriage, but said he needs time. Now his behavior has changed and I think he might have been playing me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6582 days ago

14 December 2006 (F) - ihave been dating this guy for 7 months and i love him. he is the man i want to marry. he also told me the same but just want time lately. i have been having mixed feelings about him becoz of how he is been behaving; he has changed. it's like he ...

Does he want me back and is he realizing that he let something good slip away? Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) - My ex and i broke up about a month and a half ago. Him and i were talking to nite and there was alot of flirting going on between us. Like when were talking we were holding hands and weaving our fingers though each and others we hugged alot l...

Has he bailed out on me already?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6586 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) - How long is a reasonable length of time when you haven't heard from your boyfriend to presume that the relationship has finished? We went out on Wednesday evening and it didn't finish on the best of notes. I was quiet all evening as the situation ...

I'm thinking about him... should I go back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6585 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) - I went out with a lad on and off for 3 and a half yrs. We split up in august and recently i cant stop thinking about him and make myself really upset. I know he'll have me back but i dont know if i want him or if its just a relationship i miss. I ...

How do I cope with this hurt and pain and move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6567 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) - A week ago I found out that my boyfriend of seven years who is also the father of my one year old son, has been cheating on me for a whole month! I moved out of our apartment and I've been miserable ever since. To make matters even worse, he's not ...

It still bothers me, the cheating,drinking and other bits

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) - This is probably a long post ,but i am really stuck on this, I have been married for 20 year's, over that time we have had many rough patches.2 children which are both now grown in the military. Both boys are my step children from his first marria...

Haven't seen my guy in a week! How can a girl tell if her bf is bored with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6567 days ago

6 December 2006 (F) - im prberly over reacting but how can u tell if your bf is bored of u i havent seen him for over a week now and online he seems to take forever to answer back to me or says be right back and disappears for ages the recently when i phone him he never ...

How do you recapture the fun in a relationship that seems to have gotten lost?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6590 days ago

6 December 2006 (F) - how do you recapture the fun in a relationship that seems to have lost it, assuming you're both still very in love, but maybe assume only one person is willing to make much of an effort, b/c the other believes relationships shouldn't be work, they ...

I'm scared to break up because I don't want to hurt him. I still care just don't love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6588 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - im 16 years old. im with this really fantastic guy but i dont think i love him any more. we're arguing over stupid things, and i just cant seem to conect to him like i used to be able to. i think the fairest thing on him to do is to break with him ...

There's no way hes walking all over me anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6591 days ago

4 December 2006 (F) - Ok, where do i start?! Baically i(18) was seeing this guy(25) for about 9 weeks. At first it was soo great! We wernt together but kinda where if u know what i mean...like we didnt say we were bf and gf but we never went off with other people. After ...

Things kind of fizzled between us...what can I do to get his attentions again?