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writes: A week ago I found out that my boyfriend of seven years who is also the father of my one year old son, has been cheating on me for a whole month! I moved out of our apartment and I've been miserable ever since. To make matters even worse, he's not even sorry for what he did. He left my son and I at home with no food while he was with some other female. When I talked to him for the first time after the incident I expected him to be begging for forgiveness. He didn't. He wasn't a bit of sorry. He was only calling me to ask for a favor. Feeling hurt and vulnerable I even asked him about us getting back together and he said he didn't want to! I'm so hurt that he did this to our family. I've been nothing but good to him, since day one. I didn't ever go anywhere stayed home with our soon, cooked and cleaned and did whatever I could to make him happy. I'm only 24 years old and I don't even have a life because I've dedicated it all to him and our family. How can I cope with this hurt and pain and move on? I'm so devastated I feel like life is over. I've been crying everyday.
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (30 December 2006):
 You and your son don't need this guy, especially since he left you all without any food while he was with this other female!! There are much better men out there who would make far better husband and father. You are young, and have your life ahead of you. Live for your son, and live for YOU. You both deserve it!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2006): You are best rid of him. You are so young and have the rest of your life ahead of you. Get some babysitters sorted, get your mates together and get out there and party. You have been released!!!! It's party time. There are some real worthless sh*ts out there and you had one. No get over it. You will meet someone better in the future so just let this be a lesson, don't be a slave to the next one. Equal!! Come on girl, get up there and brush that man right out of your hair!!! You owe it to yourself and your child to do it!!!
Take care.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (11 December 2006):
It sounds like the guy is not ready to be in a relationship. He needs to change. He probably won't realize that though for years. It's too bad. I'm not sure if he's worth your time, as much as you'd like things to be better. He lacks respect for you and the baby.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2006): youre still young my dear, dont waste your time hoping that someday he will comeback and ask for forgiveness. he do this things to you'then fight back show him that you dont need him. that you can stand your son without him.get a job if you needed so, get somebody to look after for your baby during the time you work, make your self busy, try not to think about him. put up your 1 eye brow on him c'mon.... he is not only man in this world' u deserve better one. good luck... gladyz.
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reader, beautifulxxbrunette08 +, writes (11 December 2006):
 Sweetheart,
Unfortunately, this worl is full of ungrateful people. People who will hurt you and have no sorrow for it. The thing is this...Look at your son, and thank God for him. It is hard to get over such a hurtful situation with someone you had every intention of being with forever...But your son is your life. You have to hold it together at least for him. Even if his father can't see what he has done to his family, his son will later in life realize. He will know that his Mommy pulled it together and made everything possible for them both to survive. Meantime, you are still young. Get things together and then be that young, attractive, outgoing, and caring person that you really are. Some man will see that and trust me, good things will happen to you. Just remember that your son needs you now more than ever. Of course, this hurt and pain will probably take a while to go away, but having a son helps you realize the importance of why you are still here. Just look at him and K N O W that everything will be alright.
Best of luck to you darling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2006): ok, from what it seems this guy has been an a**hole to you and you deserve better. try getting a babysitter for your son, go out with you closest gf to a bar and meet some new people. i said meet, it maight help to get your mind off of him
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