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writes: im 15 and ive got a 16 year old boyfriend im in year 10 and hes in college, he also works most nights and because of his religion hes not alowed to date girls, this makes it hard as he always has to come to my house but im scared of what my mum will think of him so only when shes out... i hardly ever see him i usualy see him once a week and sometimes not even that! another boy fancies me and if i started going out with him, id be able to see him any time i wanted to also hes alowed to date and is in my school. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (14 December 2006):
 Well if you even thinking about dating somebody else, then it indicates you don't love your boyfriend. I think you should split up with your bf anyway if you feel the need to stray. You are flattered that this other guy fancies you and are ready to throw your current relationship away.
Why are you with your boyfriend? You have only mentioned his bad points.
You only seem to be thinking about yourself in this situation. Work out what you want and what you need from a relationship. If you really loved somebody, attention from other guys should not even tempt you away.
I have just been the dumped boyfriend in a very similar situation to yours. Honesty from an early stage is the key to any relationship. It saves heartbreak in the long run.
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