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writes:im prberly over reacting but how can u tell if your bf is bored of u i havent seen him for over a week now and online he seems to take forever to answer back to me or says be right back and disappears for ages the recently when i phone him he never answers and when he does he like can u phone me back in a hour and when i do he can only chat for a few mins is this normal we been togetehre a month and a half Reply to this Question
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (30 December 2006):
 I don't think that you are over-reacting one bit! I think, by the way you described how your bf has been acting, is that he probably wants out of the relationship. But that is just my opinion. The best way is to talk to him face to face, and not over the phone or online. Remember there are much better guys out there that will treat you much better!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2006): No this isn't normal, hun. He sounds like he's not interested anymore and he's not telling you. Why, you wonder? Aside from being yellow-bellied and immature, he isn't saying much because a lot of males (especially the young ones) do not handle relationship 'issues or problems' by talking. They simply just disappear and say nothing. Breaking up is very, very tough and a lot of people want to avoid confrontation: So it likely your guy feels why should he put time and energy into something that is over? It's just a big, cruel mindgame, sweety and couples do this all the time to each other.
Listen, it 's just one and a half months..you don't have a real clear picture of 'who he even is' so stop chasing him, stop texting, phoning and contacting him-he knows where you are. He knows how to pick up a phone and call. Your sense of worthiness should not come from being attached to some little twerp, who is treating you like yesterday's leftover's. I know you 'like him' but the way he's acting is saying-not interested anymore. Write him a text and tell him-you don't like being ignored and you are moving on. And never contact him again. You do have pride, strength and courage dear-you are just too afraid to use it. Start dating other people.
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reader, kellyO +, writes (6 December 2006):
 Find time to talk to him and tell him how u feel.That is the best option here. Make sure u do it face to face than over the phone or online. You will be able to read his intentions and find out in generally what is wrong. Try to do this in a mature way.
Goodluck dear.Kelly
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