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writes: hey there i feel that this is pretty important i have a girlfriend and we have been going out for 1 year and two months so arguements are just going down and love levels also, well last night i was doing some snooping(which is bad on both ends) so i have her msn password, which led to her other passwords, and i found out that she is planning on breaking up with me, and that she wants to go out with this other guy at school, she feels like i am trying to control her, and this makes me mad that she would keep a secret from me, i tell her everything, all the girls i like and dislike, and it also says she flirts with him all the time, well hope you guys can help. thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006): If you have her passwords and are snooping then you are controlling her, you're invading her privacy.
You guys are very young, still at school, you don't trust each other and she's interested and flirting with other guys. Your relationship looks to me as if it is over, time to put it down to experience and move on before things end badly - which they will do.
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reader, Saskia +, writes (21 December 2006):
Well if she is already flirting with this guy and says she wants to break up with you then,even though you love her,it sounds like that she wants out..i know its ahrd to accept but maybe you should find someone who deserves you more..she shouldnt be flirting with that other guy and if thats what she wants then maybe you should find that perfect girl for you..when you two do break up..she will finally realise exactly what she had with you,and probably regret it,but dont sell yourself short,you have lots going for you and there is someone out there who would love to go out with you..just look out for her
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reader, bellachic385 +, writes (21 December 2006):
 Don't panic bring it up or act like you know. Spend time with her and try to change her mind. I wish you the best. When she brings it up, stay calm and talk about it. You may convince her to stay with you.
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