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Archived questions from: May, 2019 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

We had amazing dates, but now he’s left me confused!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2036 days ago

31 May 2019 (F) - Hi everyone I am a single mum to two small children aged 1 and 5. About 4 weeks ago a met a single dad with 3 children online. We spoke daily and instantly hit it off so set a date for about 5 days later. He called me the day before as wanted...

She thanked me, said she had a good time but also said she is not looking for anything serious

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2036 days ago

31 May 2019 (M) - I matched and got talking to a girl on a online dating app.. Few messages later went out for dinner. Holy smokes she is stunning. I don’t have a clue how it went. She kept thanking me and saying she had a good time. But also said she is not looking ...

What's it like dating someone with a young child?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2037 days ago

30 May 2019 (F) - I'm currently seeing (nothing official yet) a guy who has a young kid, 3 years old. I never really wanted any kids of my own but I am really starting to fall for this guy and I think he feels the same way. I'm not good with kids, not because I don't ...

My boyfriend overreacts at the smallest of things and is getting too much to bear

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2040 days ago

27 May 2019 (F) - Hello and thank you So I must say I'm annoyed with my boyfriends attitude little things set him off. He over reacts to minor things and its definitely getting to be too much . As an example for the last month he says he has been outsid...

Am I wasting my time, should I break up with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2042 days ago

25 May 2019 (F) - Okay, so im 26 yr old female. No kids. Living on my own. I am disabled so i get about 700$ a month to pay all my bills rent and food. It is very hard to live on that amount per month bc the rent and utility bills alone are that each month. Anyways, ...

I can't sleep next to my boyfriend because of his snoring!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2042 days ago

25 May 2019 (F) - Hi! I am with my boyfriend now 5 months and everything else is great in our relationship except we can't sleep together!! I stay with him a few nights during the week and i just can't possibly sleep next to him! It's impossible for me,i am a very ...

He wants us to go back to "friends" after being so keen to start with.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2044 days ago

24 May 2019 (F) - I’ve been seeing this guy for a couple of months, initially he was so keen and was talking about our future, plans, and meeting friends/family, but this has completely changed recently! He knew from the start that my father had cancer, which he...

I want to date but don't even know how to get someone interested in me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2042 days ago

24 May 2019 (F) - So I've gotten myself into probably common predicament and so far I haven't been doing well to get out of it. I'm twenty-six now, finished school last year, have a job but trying to break into a career and eventually be moved out of my parents house ...

Do I let people set me up for dates?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2035 days ago

24 May 2019 (M) - So its been quite sometime since I left DC.And I really wish I came back with some better news, but hey life is life and it doesnt always go your way. So on with it. Its been over 6 months since I said to myself that I wanted to start dating aga...

My boyfriend does not reply to me anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2041 days ago

24 May 2019 (F) - At the beginning of the relationship, we would always talk to each other message each other constantly. Until he stopped talking to me a lot. He asked me awhile back to always reply to him when I came online- so I did. Eventually he started ...

My girlfriend cant see my point of view and issued an ultimatum

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2042 days ago

23 May 2019 (M) - I'm in a bit of a dilemma as I've just started a relationship with a girl who I really thought was the one. We've been going out for about four months now and I really do love her and she loves me. She's just been on a massive rant to me today ...

Why did he suddenly back off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2045 days ago

22 May 2019 (F) - Hi I wondered if you could give your thoughts on why this man has suddenly stopped texting me - January he messaged me started texting frequently and then one night after a higher out he rang and told me he liked me and would I go out for a drink ...

My boyfriend stares at and approaches other women, it makes me uncomfortable.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2027 days ago

20 May 2019 (F) - my boyfriend keeps looking at other women when we are out and ive seen him literally turn his neck to side and stare for ages at other women also he goes up to women on theyre own and chats to them about anything usually starting with theyre dog to ...

One date later, should I pursue this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2050 days ago

19 May 2019 (M) - I have been internet dating for a little while now and have had 4 dates. The last was a woman from Canada who is visiting over here for a month. She contacted me and explained she was travelling but we chatted a little online and we went for a dr...

I feel so alone and I'm so scared of being abandoned.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2047 days ago

18 May 2019 (F) - I'm wanting some advice about a few issues right now and a bit of perhaps on guidance on what to do next or how to make the next decision on the next chapter. I'm currently in a small city in the UK and I've been struggling with mental health is...

Why are men so cruel? Is that the way of the world?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2049 days ago

17 May 2019 (F) - I’ve asked for help in the past and am very grateful. Which is why i’m Asking again. As I need to process something clearly. I am 44 years old. Divorced twice ( arranged marriage in Asia and an alcoholic husband in the UK). I have worked all ...

My boyfriend goes out drinking every weekend and our relationship is devoid of intimacy, emotional and physical contact

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2050 days ago

17 May 2019 (F) - I am feeling sad because my boyfriend has just gone out to the pub and told me he isn't getting drunk, but he will be getting drunk tomorrow night. We've been together for 2 years. I am sad because this is becoming a pattern. He gets to the weekend ...

My best friend says he's in love with me after his break up but I don't feel the same way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2051 days ago

17 May 2019 (F) - My best friend has recently been dumped by his girlfriend of three years, this is the first time he’s been single his entire since he was 16 and was naturally cut up about it. However after about a week he’s told me that he doesn’t care any more ...

I'm completely infatuated with a married man who's my boyfriend's friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2051 days ago

17 May 2019 (F) - I just need someone to tell me that I’m crazy and maybe give me some advice on how to move on. I feel like I’m a high school girl! I’m 21 and I’m completely infatuated with a 40 year old married man who also happens to be very close with my ...

Its hard to see him but I need him in my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2048 days ago

16 May 2019 (F) - There is a boy that is intending to have a relationship with me,we really are into each other but we hardly get time to be together or see each other. he doesn't live that far from me but its just a difficult situation when it comes to seeing each ...

Should I be suspicious that my LDR girlfriend hasn't told anyone about us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2054 days ago

13 May 2019 (M) - I've officially been with my LDR girlfriend for six months now, I'm in the UK and she's in the US. I've been open about our relationship from the beginning but my girlfriend on the other hand hasn't told anyone, other than one of her friends. At ...

Does my girlfriend deserve a second chance because she didn't 'go all the way'?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2041 days ago

13 May 2019 (M) - I can’t forgive my girlfriend for cheating on me even though she didn’t ‘go all the way’ with the other guy. I’ve told her what she did was unforgivable but my friends and family all think she deserves a second chance and that I’m being too harsh on ...

I have feelings for the old flame who's come back into my life but I have a really great boyfriend now. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2055 days ago

13 May 2019 (F) - I’ve been dating a guy for the last 6 months and things have been going reasonably well between us. He is a really great guy and he is really good to me. He is thoughtful, supportive and everyone I know thinks he is really great. I really like him ...

When should I make my relationship public?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2056 days ago

12 May 2019 (F) - Hi, Asking for some advice not to hurt anyone’s feelings. I’ve been single two years and started dating again around a year ago, a lovely lovely guy who I unfortunately just wasn’t attracted to. We got on amazingly and maybe that’s why it cont...

I try to be understanding but am I being a fool here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2057 days ago

11 May 2019 (F) - Last August I matched with a guy on Tinder. I’ve been legally separated and this was my first venture into online dating. My ex is a narcissist, so it’s taken me awhile to work on my self esteem and confidence enough to put myself back out there. ...

Would he date me or does he want me to be his sex buddy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2058 days ago

10 May 2019 (F) - I'm going to try not to be biased... I've been speaking to this man once or twice a month online for the last 18months. We planned to meet up a few times but have both flaked on eachother many times. In the past he said he's single because h...

He says he loves me but has a girlfriend. How do I get her out of the picture?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2058 days ago

10 May 2019 (F) - I’ve been dating a friend that I have known for over 30 years. Only thing is that he has a girlfriend. He has been with her since August 2016. My husband passed away in 2017 early and he has been there for me. We started seeing each other in Late ...

Is he backing off to give me space to deal with father's illness or backing away completely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2060 days ago

9 May 2019 (F) - I met a guy 6 weeks ago and it was a bit of a wonderful whirlwind, he was very keen and just pretty damn perfect from the get go but things are now starting to feel different. About a month before we met my Dad was diagnosed with cancer and things a...

I know I should just walk away .... but I love him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2060 days ago

9 May 2019 (F) - Hi I wonder if anyone can help me.. So I have been with my boyfriend for just over 3years and also he's an overthinker and recently he was feeling a little depressed. I supported him and was going out of my way to be there all the time .. he was m...

He says he loves me but doesn't respond to my texts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2060 days ago

8 May 2019 (F) - I met a guy on a dating App about a month ago. We hit it off well - he seemed sweet and respectful. We met and there was a lot of sparks and chemistry. We both have complicated relationship statuses - he's divorced with a child from the marriag...

Why am I only drawn into these inappropriate, wrong relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2061 days ago

8 May 2019 (F) - Why am I always drawn to taboo, inappropriate or wrong kind of relationship?? Ok here is a little detail about myself. I grew up a bit of a wallflower - no confidence at school, never pushy or good with hair and makeup and so was always the l...

I'm afraid of dogs and now I'm in love with a person who has a dog

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2059 days ago

7 May 2019 (M) - I'm 33 years old male and as silly as it might sound, I've been terrified of dogs my whole life. When I was 8 years old I was attacked by pack of dogs and I was bitten so severely I had to spend weeks in hospital. I still have scars and ever since ...

Never been on a Proper date.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2062 days ago

6 May 2019 (F) - Hi I'm a female who is nearly 50 and all throughout my life I have been scared to go on dates and avoid dating sites like the plague. The thought of having to sit there looking pretty making small talk with a potential partner makes me feel ve...

Why does married man come on to me do I look like I date married men?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2062 days ago

6 May 2019 (F) - Dear Cupid I am single and been single for a very long time. Today at work I ran into a guy friend I use to work with at the one company and he always tells me how beautiful I am but he is a married man Im thinking to myself nope I will never stoop ...

Where to meet guys after college??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2061 days ago

5 May 2019 (F) - Ever since graduating from college 5 years ago, I can't seem to meet guys. It took over a year before I met my ex and that was through a friend. I didn't meet him on my own. In college, I had no problems getting dates simply because everyone was ...

My girlfriend's perfectionism over grades is making me feel critisized. How can we talk about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2062 days ago

4 May 2019 (M) - My girlfriend is a perfectionist and a very anxious person. She's in her 4th year of college and just submitted her dissertation this week. After submitting it, she must have cried for at least an hour, because she "knew it wasn't good enough". ...

We don't seem to be on the same page and I want to date others. How do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2065 days ago

4 May 2019 (F) - There is a guy that I've known of for about a decade and always had a crush on but we'd never really spoken much to eachother. We now both work in the same organisation and are also on the same college course. Since starting the course we have sta...

How do I tell my girlfriend her bed isn't comfortable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2062 days ago

4 May 2019 (M) - I’ve been dating my girlfriend for a few months. So far everything has gone great. The problem I have is that I think her bed is super uncomfortable. Her mattress is a 3 inch thick piece of foam. Her blanket is 4 or 5 layers of thin blankets that ...

How to turn down Guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2064 days ago

3 May 2019 (F) - So I feel a little ridiculous posting this but I never thought I'd have this problem! I need to figure out how to quickly, unambiguously turn men down. I feel so uncomfortable doing it that sometimes when I am asked to get together, I just...