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Archived questions from: March, 2019 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend gets angry when I talk about being committed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2067 days ago

31 March 2019 (F) - I live whith my bf at his place, he can be 2 different people sometimes, one nice warm and kind the other not so. We have been together for about 3 years but when I ask about being more committed to each other he gets angry . I want children and he ...

Why is my Best-friend becoming an Enemy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2065 days ago

31 March 2019 (F) - I have a Best-friend who I have known since 2011. Our friendship has been hot and cold many times. She is now dating a man who she has known online for 3+ years over Facebook. I do not believe he is healthy fit for my Best-friend as he has lost his...

I know I'm depressed by my girlfriend doesn't seem to care.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2067 days ago

30 March 2019 (M) - Hi, I’m male in my late 20s. I currently have this issue where I can’t sleep properly due to thoughts. So I am tired all day. I used to cry once every 6 months on a major issue however now I’m breaking down every day or two. People around me are ...

I think my boyfriend should end it if he isnt happy with me anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2069 days ago

30 March 2019 (F) - Last night my boyfriend jokingly said "go find someone else then", but I didn't find it funny. We spent the evening together just hanging out, watching comedy on TV. At the end of the night he said lets go to bed. I said yeah and like waggled my ...

He cheated on me, was violent but it now feels things are back on track. So why am I not happy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2053 days ago

29 March 2019 (F) - I really don't know how I feel anymore, my head is all over the place and I'm so mixed up. I've been with my boyfriend for 8years. When we first met things moved very fast and I knew i loved him very early on. We had what I thought was the perfect ...

Is my fiance's treatment of me emotional abuse?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2069 days ago

28 March 2019 (F) - Hi I have been with my fiancée for over two years. Usually he’s charming and sweet. He has a mean streak though. He feels entitled like I should pay for everything cause he makes less money. If we have a disagreement. He says to shut up ...

Is he interested or being a polite neighbor?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2071 days ago

28 March 2019 (F) - I recently relocated to a new city. Within a month of moving in, my neighbor introduced himself and I was immediately stricken and attracted to him. The other day he stopped over and we ended up having drinks with neighbors and friends. He kept ...

I trust him, of course I do, I just don't understand his actions.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2072 days ago

26 March 2019 (F) - I’ve been with my partner for almost six years and we’re currently expecting our first baby, due in July. For a while now he’s been taking his phone everywhere with him, even if he is just going to the toilet/puts the bins out/make a cup of tea, he ...

I want to sleep with my boyfriend (no sex) but my parents said NO

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2067 days ago

26 March 2019 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a month. This weekend he asked if I could sleep over. Obviously, I’d love to. However, my parents are catholic and extremely conservative. I brought up the idea and they automatically said no. Honestly, ...

I feel nothing after separating from my boyfriend of 4 years

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2072 days ago

25 March 2019 (F) - My boyfriend and I have broken up after 4 years together and I feel numb. We've separated because even though we love each other, we're not "in love" and we both knew it and it was completely emotional. Is it normal the feel this unphased af...

Please help me get my life back together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2073 days ago

25 March 2019 (F) - Ex bf went to prison. It was severe emotional abuse for four years before that. I told him I will help him without any expectations. But he asked for a relationship again. He came out of prison, ran back to his ex-wife, humiliated me before o...

If I move in as he suggests I fear I will be stuck into one of his little compartments and kept separate from his life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2070 days ago

25 March 2019 (F) - Hi, was looking for advice. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for around 2 years. He has basically been staying at mine every night for over a year but still maintains his own place which has made money really tight as he cant afford ...

I am not feeling comfortable with his intentions towards dating me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2072 days ago

24 March 2019 (F) - Afew weeks ago, a man approached me and we talked a bit, just a small talk. However, recently, i just don't understand what he wants. So basically, i started seeing him around me more often, just glancing at me from a distance. He approached me ...

I have no clue what I did wrong and don't want to ask because I'm afraid it will make her even more angry

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2072 days ago

24 March 2019 (M) - Me and this girl we have been together for a while and recently went through a rough patch. We are slowly getting through it but today something happpened that has really confused me. We were talking on Snapchat when she said something that annoyed ...

I'm very attracted to a man who has kids and is separated. I'm torn about whether to move forward with him

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2073 days ago

24 March 2019 (F) - Hi all - any advice or thoughts on the following would be much appreciated as I'm at a total loss, something very uncommon for me. A series of events happened in my life that caused me to relocate to a brand new city without knowing anyone. ...

Do I wait until after his birthday to break up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2075 days ago

23 March 2019 (F) - I am kind of on the young side. I have been dating this guy for 2 and a half months and just seemed to have lost interest in him and am starting to have feelings for another guy. I want to break up with my current boyfriend but still be friends. How ...

How do I get the feelings I had for my dead ex into my new relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2076 days ago

22 March 2019 (F) - I'm in distress thinking about an ex who passed away many years ago I'm in a relationship at the moment I do love him but it feels in a different way to cut a long story short although they wernt always happy between my ex and me I see are memories ...

Is it normal to feel unsettled in a long-term relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2078 days ago

20 March 2019 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We moved in together after 6 months of being together and we're generally quite happy (we've "broken up" twice but each time lasted for about an hour each!) Anyway, I feel like recently my life is becoming...

I like him far more than I want to

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2077 days ago

20 March 2019 (F) - Hi I am need of some guidance at the minute and hope you can help! I first met Tim when I was at school, we were close friends and always shared a fondness of each other until teenage years when we lost touch. 12 years ago we became in contac...

Is the grief causing him to treat me badly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2078 days ago

19 March 2019 (F) - Hello. Firstly just for some context I was in a on and off relationship for 10 years with the sweetest best friend of a boyfriend who was my high school sweetheart but his lack of ambition and lazy attitude I couldn't take anymore. We are ...

She thinks there was a hidden message about being fat in my fruit and yoghurt comment

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2076 days ago

18 March 2019 (M) - So I have been with this woman for 18 months. Our relationship has been perfect so far, no arguements, always get on. Today she had an arguement with a friend and was not very happy after. She sent me a message saying she was going for a walk and ...

I am not sure that I can be the support system I think my b/f needs

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2051 days ago

18 March 2019 (F) - Hi all! I have been dating my BF for about 4 months now. The relationship was very fast moving and we basically were pretty "offical" after a few weeks of dating. He was pretty intense, But I felt like I had finally found someone who really cared...

My boyfriend got a cake and presents and its not his birthday

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2046 days ago

16 March 2019 (F) - Dear All, Today my boyfriend of 3.5 years received an anonymous gift, cake and a red rose. It mentioned his petname and said "your smile is everything to me." The cover of the cake mentioned " happy birthday". It is not his birthday. My boyfri...

Why am I kept separate from his family?!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2084 days ago

14 March 2019 (F) - Im not sure what to do. Ive been seeing a guy who i met from work for around 2 years, we dont work together now and we have separate places too. The relationship got off to a rocky start due to work colleagues gossping and me cheating with an...

Any advice on how we go forward after a break?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2085 days ago

14 March 2019 (F) - I split up with my ex a couple of months ago now and we didn't have any contact for a month but he contacted me and we have met a couple of times. We split due to me feeling he didn't want the same as me commitment wise and i admit i compared...

Why would a man leave like this, could this be related to anything I could have done without purpose? Is there any possibility to get him back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2084 days ago

13 March 2019 (F) - I dated a guy I work with for a month(I started working at this place 2 months ago),but we don’t work in the same office. It was a really intensive dating. We met almost everyday, spent a lot of time together. He was really into me and I liked him a ...

He has a crush on me but then why isn't he acting on it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2083 days ago

13 March 2019 (F) - I am recently single...I was in a relationship with someone for 2 years and it ended 2 months back. During the course of the relationship we frequented this bar and we were always together,drinking, kissing ..so basically everyone in that bar who ...

How much time do you think she'd take to be ready to date again after her previous long relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2084 days ago

13 March 2019 (M) - Hello folks. I'm being driven nuts by a dilemma and since I can't talk to any of my friends about it, I thought I'd ask about it anonymously instead of turning it over in my mind to no end. So this is the situation. I'm a 25 year old, attracted t...

I really like her but she's giving me mixed signals

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2084 days ago

13 March 2019 (M) - Hi I really like a girl and get mixed signals, sometimes I feel she likes me and other times she is distant and feels like she is pushing me away. It's really a day by day thing. Some days she is clearly interested and then others seems to want to...

How do I go about finding love ? Does it happen when you stop looking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2084 days ago

13 March 2019 (F) - How do I go about finding love ? Does it happen when you stop looking? I am a single female that turns 33 in a couple of months and everyone around me is married or on their second child- I feel the pressure and loneliness of being single but...

I don’t know how to deal with his awful moods!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2083 days ago

12 March 2019 (F) - Hi, i just wanna ask someone here if you have this kind of experience. Im living with my bf. Yes i do love him and i think he love me too. But this everyday dealing with his i dont know how i can call it " sometimes he is fine, he is happy he is in ...

Why would he spend so much time courting me then suddenly act like we never happened?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2086 days ago

12 March 2019 (F) - I started seeing this guy about 2 months ago. Hes a nice person, was married for about 8 years but divorced for 1, he asked me out a few times before i finally agreed, and was as sweet as can be the whole 2 months we were dating. Refused to let me ...

Should I give up on the idea of being with someone I really like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2087 days ago

11 March 2019 (M) - Hi I've had a few relationships before, one of them lasted two years and the other three years. They were both happy enough. But i usually ended up with a girl who liked me a lot, rather than me liking them a lot. So i decided this time I ...

He won’t listen to me, that he has no need to prove himself! How to get through to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2087 days ago

11 March 2019 (F) - Hi, I have known a guy for about four years and have been dating him for nearly two years, he is good friends with my family and he and my Grandad are always winding each other up. They love the banter but as per usual my Grandad took it a bit too ...

Divorced guy asked me for drinks then backtracked and said that we should stop before things get complicated!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2088 days ago

10 March 2019 (F) - Theres this guy that ive been talking to via email. We know each other well due to his son going through school with my brother. Ive always liked him, but never really said anything. So recently I decided to send him a message to see how he was. We ...

Am I just paranoid/jealous or is my boyfriend's cousin really weird with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2087 days ago

8 March 2019 (F) - Hi I've been having weird gut feelings. Ever since I've started dating him his cousin seems to have a problem with me. She's accused me of changing him when I haven't done anything and sent me hate messages which caused tension between me, her and ...

She said yes to the date...but her female friend wants to join us as well!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2087 days ago

8 March 2019 (M) - I asked a girl on a date and she said yes. but we were not sure what day we were both free. A few days later i suggested two dates, the first she was busy and the second she said maybe. A few days later we were chatting and I asked her to remember ...

Is our relationship cooling off? I'm unsure of the signs I am seeing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2091 days ago

8 March 2019 (F) - Hi all ———— I’m in a new ish relationship. We met actually almost 6 weeks now and at first I felt like he came on really strong and wanted to see me a lot and made every excuse to find time to be around me..(his work can be difficult at tim...

She blocked me on facebook because I looked her up

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2090 days ago

8 March 2019 (M) - Been seeing this woman for four months, have a lot of fun going out dancing movies places to eat, the sex is great, but she only has time to see me once a week,I told her I looked her up on Facebook, she got really mad,she said that's personal, so ...

I can't let go of what my boyfriend did

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2087 days ago

7 March 2019 (F) - Hello, I recently posted about my boyfriend crossing the line. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-this-is-not-acceptable-and-he.html Him and I talked about it and he says he understands how I see that he crossed the line and that he will...

He changed his looks and I am no longer attracted at all to him. Do I end things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2088 days ago

7 March 2019 (F) - Hi I’ve been dating a guy for 6 months- it’s had it’s ups and downs- mainly as it started as a friendship with absolutely no sexual attraction on my behalf . I’ve never looked at him and thought ‘god your handsome’ but he has a lovely personali...

Colleague thinks my new man is settling for me! Should I do anything about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2092 days ago

7 March 2019 (F) - So basically my question is around a new romance I have just started. Myself and the man I’m seeing both work in the same industry but we don’t work together in the same company. But our paths sometimes cross at networking events etc which is how we ...

I love a guy who is nothing like my abusive ex. But we are of different religions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2093 days ago

5 March 2019 (F) - I m in my mid 20s. I started dating a when I was 18. Through all bad times we were together. Long story short I was abused mistreated by him. He was verbally nd at time phsycially abuse too . He ghosted me then I was begging him to talk. His ...

I have a boyfriend but had a one night stand. Pregnant and not sure who the father is

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2089 days ago

5 March 2019 (F) - I habe been dating my bf for almost 6 months now. He is a great guy and i really like hin. But i made a huge mistake. I have been talking to a guy I met in an online chat room for almost a year now, 2 months ago he flew to my home town and we spent ...

I want to settle down he wants to date for a few more years

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2093 days ago

5 March 2019 (F) - Hello, I just got out a two year long relationship because my boyfriend won’t commit to me. I’m not blaming him, I respect what he’s dealing with and I miss him A lot. But there were some flaws that I couldn’t ignore. We have been in a long dist...

My parents make racist remarks about my girlfriend. I've tried to talk to them but they won't stop

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2093 days ago

5 March 2019 (M) - I’ve been dating a girl for a few months. I’m really happy. We can’t get enough of each other. We still haven’t had our first argument. We have tons of stuff in common. I get along well with her family. Basically everything is going very well. ...

I feel like I am second prize and he is with me because he can't get the porn models he looks at

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2094 days ago

5 March 2019 (F) - The man I’m dating looks at a lot of porn . (I’ve seen it when I visit his home ) it’s just glamour model after glamour model and women way out of his league . Much younger and models . It makes me think he’s dating me only because I’m all he can ...

I’ll go on what seems to be a very good date and then never hear back!How do I stay positive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2094 days ago

4 March 2019 (F) - I’ve been using a popular dating app and marchebwkth a guy who also put that he was looking for a relationship on his profile. He asked me out and we had a great date this Friday . Lots of laughs, chemistry, etc. I was careful to keep things ligh...

When do I tell someone about my Herpes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2093 days ago

4 March 2019 (M) - Hello, I have a pretty difficult question to ask. My current relationship of 8 years just terminated and I'm pretty devastated. Although we were not married we have lived together for the last 6 and a half years. I've been trying to find different ...

Should I see my one night stand again? I'm not interested in sex with him again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2094 days ago

3 March 2019 (F) - I had a one night stand two nights ago. We were at his house and I left in the middle of the night because I couldn’t sleep and I wanted to go home. During the night I had given him an old number that is disconnected because I wasn’t sure at the ...