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Archived questions from: February, 2019 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Am I just being paranoid? Overthinking? Will I ruin things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2098 days ago

28 February 2019 (F) - Am I being paranoid? I have recently met a guy online and we have met a couple of times now, but I don't know if my current feelings are super paranoid or if I am looking at any red flags... This guy has been incredibly giving, thoughtful, k...

Could these have been semen stains ... is he cheating on me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2096 days ago

27 February 2019 (F) - Hi guys. I just need some advise. I’m driving myself mad and keep toying between am I just being super paranoid or is my gut instinct trying to tell me something... basically I want to know show I be weary of my partner! We have been together ab...

My bf just got tattoos for his deceased ex wife!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2099 days ago

27 February 2019 (F) - I'd like to have some opinions about my situation. My bf just got huge tattoo representing his dead ex wife. We became couple after he was separated from his ex but shortly after she passed away and he was the one found her dead on the floor at...

Should I move to the capital with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2099 days ago

25 February 2019 (F) - Hey guys, I'm currently in a relationship with a guy I met through a house share (which i'm still at) and I really couldn't be happier. We bring the best out of each other in so many way and he's made me realise why it never worked out ...

I am so confused..looking for insight about this relationship..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2101 days ago

25 February 2019 (F) - I met someone 6 weeks ago. Im in my mid-40s and spent too long in a loveless, abusive marriage. Ive been alone for 3 yrs and was resigned to being done w men for good. I have trust and abandonment issues and have settled for weak, passive ...

I don't know what this man wants from me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2099 days ago

25 February 2019 (F) - I am a lady in my 60s and have been in an on/off relationship with a guy of similar age for 5 years. We usually fall out because I get hurt that he has not included me in his family get togethers or not bothered to get me anything for my birthday. ...

How can I help this relationship survive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2101 days ago

24 February 2019 (F) - I am 40 F,3 years ago I met a 21F College student that was on a internship.(Asia)- I Never dated woman before. At the time I was in a leadership role within the college. She made passes and I resisted, because I was nervous, scared and becau...

Somebody keeps hacking my boyfriend or is he cheating?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2101 days ago

24 February 2019 (F) - I keep finding my boyfriend on multiple dating/cheating sites and find his search history is filled with things like: Women near me to have with tonight? I have asked him about it and he says he didn't do it. Tat someone is hacking him. Is that ...

I'm too shy to ever find love.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2103 days ago

23 February 2019 (F) - I am 24 and never had a boyfriend before nor have I ever dated anyone mostly because I have never been asked out before. I am a shy girl and I don't know how I can even get dates. I am not really a drinker, so I don't go to places that are big on ...

Starting out in serious relationships: Coping with "forever" ending and trusting the next "forever"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2102 days ago

23 February 2019 (F) - Please bear with this question. I'd really appreciate supportive answers, rather than blunt or patronising answers, if possible :-) I've only been in one relationship and it did feel like it would last many more years than it did, though it lasted...

How do you maintain a positive attitude when nobody seemingly has any interest in you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2103 days ago

22 February 2019 (M) - Hi there. I'll try and keep this brief and to the point. I'm 27 years old and have only been on 1 date which wasnt all that great. Never had a long (or short term relationship) but I always tried to tell myself I dont want to be in a relationship ...

Can you please give me some ideas on how to make his birthday special?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2105 days ago

21 February 2019 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a month and his birthday is coming up next month and I want to do something really special for him but I cant really think of anything. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!...

I need help with work and love advice! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2106 days ago

20 February 2019 (M) - So I’m having a frustrated year so far.... Work I closed my business last year after over 3 years of trading and got into a retail job, I then got let go from that retail job and the got called to go to a different branch. I hate it! I try to see...

Am I fighting a losing battle? She is still speaking to her abusive husband!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2106 days ago

20 February 2019 (M) - So... there's a woman I've been talking to for a little over a month. And when we're together, things are good for the most part. The problem is... this woman is married to a man that she has been involved with for a few years. He has threatened h...

My boyfriend often makes me feel inferior and I am not sure if I see a future with him. Please help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2107 days ago

20 February 2019 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 years and I had a huge argument recently. I mentioned applying for a 6-month advisory governmental job in another town. He got very angry and said he doesn't want to do long distance again (we had done it for a year internationally ...

I’m scared to talk to him about my desire to have children! Help?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2107 days ago

19 February 2019 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now and we're both very happy but there's one thing that I feel scared to talk to him about and it's the subject of children, he's had relationships in the past that have ended badly and this worries ...

I get angry over little things, and he thinks that’s dumb!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2107 days ago

19 February 2019 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for a year and 2 months. Our relationship is good and I'm happy with him.. but I dont seem to stop getting mad over tiny things, or sometimes i get mad at something and he thinks its dumb or that i shouldn't be getti...

I really like her and want to continue communication with her, but she’s on holiday! I don’t want to put a foot wrong, so I need advice!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2108 days ago

18 February 2019 (M) - Hey everyone, This feels really pathetic but any advice will help. Basically I’m messaging a girl who I met a few weeks back. She lives just over an hour away and i met her on a night out. Since then I went back the following weekend to see...

Do you think it's possible to build a relationship over feelings for a different person?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2108 days ago

18 February 2019 (F) - I've recently started flatting with five other people. One in particular, I'll call him S, I didn't know very well, so I assumed everything would be fine and we all signed on for a years tenancy contract. That was maybe 8 months ago, and during t...

He couldn't get it up! Any ideas why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2109 days ago

18 February 2019 (F) - Hie Cupid, I fell in love with a very amazing guy, about two months ago. He's in love with me too. So, after hanging out for six times only (writing this because it might be the answer to my doubt), on Valentine's day, we both decided to lose ...

I'm dating a restaurant owner who's 10 years older and struggles with money. Is it worth it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2108 days ago

18 February 2019 (F) - Hi everyone, It's a bit long but please be patient with me. I'm currently dating a restaurant owner for almost a month. We met a supermarket and he took courage to ask me out on a date. We really hit it off after the first date and continue ...

I don't like children at all but why am I thinking about the possibilty?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2106 days ago

17 February 2019 (F) - I’m 26 and have never ever ever wanted children in my whole life and the thought of giving birth and being pregnant makes me feel sick and squeamish. I don’t even find babies or children cute and I get very uncomfortable around them~ at Christmas I ...

How do I show this man that I'm worth having a relationship with?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2108 days ago

14 February 2019 (F) - How does a woman show a man shes worth having a relationship with, ive been on quite a few dates with a guy but he said he wants to sort himself out a job , own place then maybe a relationship with someone. The words he used were someone he didnt ...

Should I pursue a relationship to push away the feelings for my best friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2113 days ago

12 February 2019 (M) - I'm majorly confused here and need some kindly advice. I've fancied my best friend for over a year now, we share a house at uni together and often hang out and have a lot of fun. However, she does a have a boyfriend who she goes home to see every ...

I want to be at a place where women would be in abundance.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2115 days ago

11 February 2019 (M) - After a night out, I realized some things about my future with women. We went out for a close friends birthday and had dinner with 20+ friends. Then we went to a club/bar in the city where much of our med school was there. I had fun dancing with my ...

Should I try to track this woman down?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2113 days ago

9 February 2019 (M) - Hi, I'm a 32 year old man, I have gotten out of a long term relationship about 6 months ago, which lasted 10 years and a 3 year relationship prior to that. Anyway last night I met a woman that I got on with quite well and ended up kissing her. But I ...

Has anyone ever lost their libido to this degree due to boredom and lack of emotional connection and was I selfish for not being a sexually dutiful partner?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2115 days ago

9 February 2019 (F) - Thank you to anyone who reads and responds to my post. I recently separated from a 9 year relationship, 4 years living together. I'm not sure if I have done the right thing but what I do know is that I am heart broken knowing I have broken his ...

We live together and have 3 kids but he hasn't talked to me in 7 days because of trust issues.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2117 days ago

7 February 2019 (F) - Tomorrow will be a week since we last talked. My bf of 3 years, father of my 3 children, stopped talking to me unexpectedly. I am unsure why, though I suspect it could be because of a message from an old hs friend. The message was completely ...

I want to travel but I'm bad at long distance and at the same time don't want to break up with my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2117 days ago

7 February 2019 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for three and a half years. We've lived together for two of those, at least during semesters - we go to the same college. The rest of the time we go home to our families at opposite ends of the country. I will be grad...

Should I be doubling my efforts to become a social media butterfly? Should I just be me and hope she accepts it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2115 days ago

7 February 2019 (M) - I am quite shy and not a big talker. I’m also (I think) thoughtful and an excellent listener. I seem to get along well with extroverted women who talk enough for the both of us and appreciate my attentiveness. I’ve had a few relationships (lasting ...

I fear I will fall apart because of the distance that his military life has created

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2120 days ago

7 February 2019 (F) - My boyfriend left a few weeks ago to study at the army’s university for four years until he finishes his course and begins a full time job as an officer. I spent the last couple of years of my life by his side day in day out without ever spe...

He's not as into me as I am into him. What now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2116 days ago

6 February 2019 (F) - i probably know what i should do but id still like some advice. I have been 'dating' a guy for 4 month we dont always get to see each other every week due to work and other commitments. We spend time at each others places but we had a massive talk ...

On the one hand her behaviour is awful and she's constantly picking up fights but on the other hand she's very keen on moving in together! What's going on here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2120 days ago

6 February 2019 (M) - Hi I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years. We're making plans to move in together soon. Everything was pretty much perfect until about 6 months ago when she started picking fights with me and usually there wasn't a clear reason, nothing I had do...

Money, my relationship, my girlfriend's friend and her boyfriend "chipping in". How do I deal with all of this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2117 days ago

6 February 2019 (M) - Hey, I been with my gf for 3.5 years. We are living apart due to finances. Throughout our relationship I have been supporting and providing. Recently I have not been able to due to my work, our meeting has been suffering, we are unable to do ...

Why was my boyfriend so weird about his phone? Is he trying to hide something from me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2116 days ago

6 February 2019 (F) - I was at my boyfriends been together two years and I went to sit down on the bed and saw his phone there so picked it up to move it as soon as I picked it up he snatched it out my hand now I am thinking is he hiding something from me? Has anyone got ...

I'm bisexual and I have a girlfriend but I develop deep, emotional but non-sexual bonds with much older women. Why does this happen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2122 days ago

4 February 2019 (F) - Hi everyone! Thanks in advance for taking the time to read this. I'm not sure my question belongs on a relationship site, but this is seems like the most suited place I've come across so far so I'm just gonna give it a try. I'm a bisexual (or pan...

How do I turn men down without actually spelling it out that I'm not interested?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2123 days ago

3 February 2019 (F) - So I feel a little ridiculous posting this but I never thought I'd have this problem! I need to figure out how to quickly, unambiguously turn men down. I feel so uncomfortable doing it that sometimes when I am asked to get together, I just...

I still might have feelings for my best friend , but we’re both with other people! What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2120 days ago

3 February 2019 (F) - hi, i'll try and keep this short as possible. almost 2 years ago, my best friend (let's call him j) and i both discovered we had feelings for each other, but we couldn't be together as he's with someone already (who's now become another one of my ...