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Archived questions from: May, 2014 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

2 guys and I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - Hi everyone well for the last 6 months 2 guys have been interested in me. Both of them are my friends. I find them both attractive. The first one has done so much for me, he is always there when i ask him for help, he has helped me more time...

How do I confront my boyfriend about pictures and files I've found?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I having problems trusting my boyfriend who I've been dating for 6 months. He's my first boyfriend and he says he loves me deeply but I find it hard to believe him because of some of the things I have discovered on his phone ...

We are meeting for the first time and her parents want to know my job? Do I say I'm not working?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

31 May 2014 (M) - Hi, I'm in a little bit of a dilemma, and I need some advice. I met this girl in her late twenties on a dating site. She made the first move. We've only traded a couple of messages back and forth, and are planning to meet tomorrow. She...

Would it be bad to tell my girlfriend I want to spend time with my friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

31 May 2014 (M) - Is it bad to tell girlfriend I want to go meet some friends for an hour or two. Once she comes to my house she doesn't leave till weekend finishes. I can't get rid of her because she doesn't see me all week. Sounds bad but I'm a guy I like to do ...

In a man's mind, why would he ask you to turn off the light to kiss him? I thought that men liked women to do the opposite.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - What does it mean when a man wants to kiss you in the dark? Call me paranoid but I get the feeling that's a bad sign. I have self image related problems and far less from perfect but I'm always trying to improve the quality of my life- although...

I'm done with dating and want no more to do with women!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

31 May 2014 (M) - I don't even know when to begin...it's like every time I try I somehow get used. My troubles started four girls ago and yet somehow I haven't learned my lesson. Let me tell you about myself; I'm twenty-three, college graduate, and living at home. I ...

I've got a boyfriend but I have a HUGE crush on his cousin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3853 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - Ohkay , so im dating this guy ( lets say his name is ... bob ) bob and I are really close and i really love him , we broke up and then got back together. ( , but when we got back together we werent as close )anyway so then me and his cousin started ...

We've been together for 6 months but now he's pushing me away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I'm gonna make this quick. In college, just been diagnosed with epilepsy, secretly depressed - family thing I just can't talk about it. I've been with the most amazing guy for six months, we really love each other. Well I thought we did. I love him ...

I want my boyfriend to kiss me and be boyfriend material!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend (who is 13) and I (who is also 13) have been going out for almost a year, and he hasn't kissed me, hold my hand or hugged me without somebody telling him to! And I have asked him why he hasn't kissed me yet and he said "he wants ...

Why isn't he talking as much as he used to? Is it the distance? Or did he just want sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3865 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for over a month and a half now. We met online and live an hour and a half away from each other. I went to his city three weeks ago because I needed to get something there and he took me out to get drinks. It was a lot ...

I cheated on my long-term girlfriend after we became long-distance. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

30 May 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 24 year old male and I've dated the same girl since high school for over 7 years. Words can't describe how much I love this person and I still do. Almost 2 years ago, she moved to Europe for medical studies because she didn...

Should I go to my boyfriend's best friend's birthday party? I don't want any more drama!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - Ive been seeing my boyfriend for about 10 months, exclusive for 6 months. Its going brilliantly! And we get a long so well. But last week hit a bit of a problem. So we have gradually been introducing each other to family and friends etc and its ...

She said my 'offer' isn't good enough?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

29 May 2014 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years and I recently asked her to move in with me. However she turned me down. I'll admit we've had our arguments over the years, mainly because she kept saying she thought I acted single but I've never ...

My question is why some lasses follow you around when you give up on them? Give her a second chance or will that lead to heartbreak?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

29 May 2014 (M) - Hi I was sort of knowing a girl and dating her but I felt she was a bit cold and distant so I thought she's not interested and moved on! To tell you further, I actually liked her a lot and it was sort of heartbreaking to move on! Surely it took s...

Did I over react when I dumped him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - My boyfriend - I guess now ex boyfriend - is in his late 40s. We were dating a year and a half - exclusive for a year and 3 months. Over that time, I brought up the future several times. I want marriage and a kid and am ready to start nesting. He ...

I wonder if he could actually care for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - Hi, I met someone on holiday five years ago. It was clear we liked the look of each other but nothing ever happened. He found me on facebook somehow when he got home and three years later we were still texting every other week. Last year he asked me...

I found out he has another girlfriend but he wont admit it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - Me an my boyfriend have been toghter 16mnts an I recently found out he's been seeing another women.Although he still tries to hide her she makes herself well known around da neighborhood DAT they are toghter my problem is he will not admitt it an ...

Are we dating or is this just FWB?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - Before I ask this question, I'm going to ask that if you want to answer, just answer respectfully. I recently started seeing a 30 year old man. We have gone on a few dates before about a year ago and once about 6 months ago, but I sort of backed o...

I'm confused about my addiction!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - Am 25 yrs women with no child and I need help. I'm confused ever since the is this lesbian used to give me attention and loving I start have bad addiction of musterbating each and every time when am alone I use my spare time on bedroom and ...

I'm terrified he's going to go from "I want to marry you!" to "I don't want to get married to you!"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - When my boyfriend and I started going out with each other - after a few months we used to chat about what kind of wedding we'd have etc etc. we were both on the same plane about it cost wise and all that - not too expensive but a fun day and put our ...

I mentioned my ex and now this man has blocked me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3852 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - When I was in college a guy lived next door and I lived there until the end of college and moved and he went to michigan we were just friends and neighbors. He came into town not to long ago and low and behold his aunt is next door that he was ...

My fiancé wants to postpone the wedding?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

28 May 2014 (M) - My fiancé and I have been engaged for almost three years now and we have planned our wedding for about a year now. Our wedding is coming up in July and last week she told me she wants to postpone it because she is scared and she clams to not be ...

What practical things can I do to improve myself and start a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

27 May 2014 (M) - Hello all, I'm a university student who desires a relationship but has never succeeded. I realised in the last few years that I was behaving a typical "nice guy" (in the bad way). I have improved my confidence and being myself, spending more ti...

He's a sweet and wonderful guy, but he never wants to go out and do anything

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is gentle and makes me laugh, is loyal and sweet, helps me when I need it, makes sure I'm safe. I love him too, but things are getting just.. Ridiculously boring. I love going on walks when the weather is good, or to the beach...

How do we overcome our fear of talking face to face?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - Hy...im dating this guy and he's one of those shy kind of guyz and so sweet...we go to the same school but we dont talk at school we only chat when we text so since we've just started dating we haven't really talk face to face so how can i talk to ...

Help me get the girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

27 May 2014 (M) - Hey, guys. I'm here asking for advice on getting the girl. It's not a specific girl but just someone who I can settle/be with. About myself: I'm 6ft, shoulder length tidy hair, semi-muscular and I do get quite a few women saying I'm cute. The pr...

She is a really nice girl but I don't have strong feelings for her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

27 May 2014 (M) - I have started seeing this girl who I know for 2 years now. I was never attracted to her but she made a pass at me a few months ago and now we have started dating. I still dont have very strong feelings for her but she is a really really nice girl. ...

Is my new boyfriend a tight wad?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - I met a 45 year old lovely guy who said he is ' careful with money' On our first date he asked if I was going to buy the second round of drinks.I laughed and said it was only a coke both times but felt embarrassed me made the point. Then we agreed ...

We don't make love anymore, we just have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship as of about a year ago. We have been together for 3 years. The last 3 times we have been together we hardly make love and is more like sex. This past weekend we were together after not seeing each other for 4 ...

I am falling deeply for my older Boyfriend's cousin. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - I'm 19 and with a 34 year old man a year and half. Please don't comment on the age gap , I prefer older men. About 3 months ago I met his cousin who is 31 for the first time. He told me a lot about this guy how he cheated on his now wife when the...

How hard should I try to make this relationship work, even though he has a fear of commitment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - My current boyfriend and I have a very romantic and dramatic start. Now we have around one year and a half dating. It's my second longest relationship and i'm very proud and happy since i went through a lot of frogs back in the day. The proble...

He was my first love. But drugs rule his life. How can I stop loving him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 27 years old female, when I was 15 I met a boy who was 16, just one year older than me, he was my high school sweetheart, we spent many years together after, we went to different universities I studied engineering and ...

Is my Bf's outlook on ever or never having children normal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - So my boyfriend loves kids, and he's so cute playing with them etc. however we've talked and he's on the fence about actually having kids. He's absolutely fine with having them if I want em but he just can't see where people find the time for it. ...

Twenty eight and throwing tantrums

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - My lovely live in boyfriend has some sort of anxiety and depression. He has spoken to people about it in the past, and been on antidepressants before my time. His recount on things I've said or scenarios that have happened where he ended up getting ...

My ex treated me better than this boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - I was in a relationship for 9 yrs with my ex boyfriend who I dumped a year ago since the relationship was going no where and there was lot of trouble as it was a long distance relationship. After breaking up I immediately got into another ...

Why would they be interested in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - Two childhood sweethearts. . Looked me up after twenty years.. One grade school kept in touch more than the other from Jr high.. they have children and our grandparents. .and from different states .. I finally have a four old daughter and am not ...

I feel betrayed, and I want to be happy again. How can I get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

26 May 2014 (M) - Ok my question is how do i get over a relationship that i just got betrayed and put all my effort into. i feel heartbroken and miserable every night i have been drinking every day and i still cant get over this. i look on social media and she is p...

They are all vain, shallow and racist. Will I be alone for ever?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

26 May 2014 (M) - Hi, I'm a 19 year old gay guy who's never been in a relationship. And I feel really terrible about it. I hate feeling lonely and depressed all the time. But I feel like I'll be alone forever. I know it seems like it should be but the gay community ...

Given the circumstances why wont he give me a key?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together about two and a half years. He is 35 and I am 27. He has been married before, I have not. I am at his place often, probably about 5 or 6 nights a week. I do not have a key, so if he has to work before me he will ...

Can you change your mind about attractiveness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - My friend (mr A) recently started dating this girl who previously dated his best friend (Mr B). She was very into his friend and when he lost interest in her she was very upset and cried to my friend (Mr A) about it. When her and Mr B started dating ...

He was so eager to see me. Then we had sex. Is he now fobbing me off? If yes, then why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - I want an honest opinion, please don't judge me. I met a guy on a night out a month ago in a different city. We talked every single day via messaging/phone calls ect. a significant amount. We agreed on a date for him to come and see me at my pla...

The ex stayed with the family for the funeral so why not me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - Hi So I am after some opinions as to whether I am over analysing things and being silly or if I am right to feel upset. I am new to this site and so am expecting there may be some readers who will judge me pretty harshly but that's ok, maybe I dese...

My clock is ticking and I want a baby!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - I want a baby and I am dating a guy who is 7 years younger than me, i'm nearly 39 and he is just approaching 32 and we have been on and off for over a year but it was just sex that turned into something more but only the last 2 months we have been ...

My girlfriend has been texting a much younger man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

25 May 2014 (M) - Here is a the concern two weeks ago I found out that girl I have been dating for five years and living with four and a half was texting a younger man. I found this out one night awhile she was sleeping with phone still in her hand. The text were ...

I feel like I am his enterainment while his wife is waiting for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - hi. i am dating this guy. i am a foreign living in USA for 7 years. he just got here as a refugee. we met 3 months ago. his english is very little but somehow we can communicate, we liked each other so we became friends first. now we are kind of ...

My boyfriend keeps registering on dating sites and tells me it's just "for a laugh"

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - Could some one advise me what to do please? I have found my boyfriend to be registering on different date sites. This is the fourth time I found out about it now. He says its just for a laugh and unregisters from them, but then secretly registers on ...

Unusually big chemistry - how do I take it from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

24 May 2014 (M) - Hi Friends Background: I know a girl I met for a few weeks nearly 4 years ago when she was in my town. We had an unusual chemistry between us, lots of teasing and flirting. She left and we went out ways pretty much keeping in touch at times on faceb...

My parents hate my boyfriend and I can't see him! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - My parents hate my boyfriend Ok so I have been with my boyfriend 8 months now and we are in a happy, comfortable relationship, I love him to pieces and his family are lovely people however my parents hate him here are some bulletpoint reas...

I'm not used to relationships, it's scary and I feel pressure. Is this normal when something is new and different or is he not the one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - I met a guy one last year and felt like he was the one. I became so fixed on the idea of him and fantasizing about him. I put up this perfect illusion of him. But we had only met once. A year later, recently, he visited me for about 5 days ...

My boyfriend is too truthful!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now. We both Graduated from college; where I met him. He's trying to start up his legal justice career and I'm on the same path for child and youth studies. We've lived together for about a year ...