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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hy...im dating this guy and he's one of those shy kind of guyz and so sweet...we go to the same school but we dont talk at school we only chat when we text so since we've just started dating we haven't really talk face to face so how can i talk to him at school because im kind of shy myself and i really miss him and want to chill with him and his friends at lunch,im friends with one of his friends.plz help...what can i do
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (27 May 2014):
 How can yo be dating if you don't talk face to face? That isn't dating, that a "text-fantasy-pretend" relationship. Now I'll cut you some slack because of your age and lack of experience with relationships (which is ONLY natural for your age group).
How about you say HI, how are you when you run into your "bf" in the hall ways? Ask if he wants to sit together at lunch (I mean the two of you text, so why not ask him?
As you grow older (and bolder I hope) you will find that GETTING to know someone REQUIRE being WITH that person, IN person. You can learn a lot through text, but it can't be compared to ACTUAL social interactions.
Find things you share in common and talk about those when you see him. Being shy is an excuse. If you can CALL him your BF, then treat him like a BF - that means talk to him.
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reader, RevMick +, writes (27 May 2014):
 Hi,
Just go over and say hi, if nothing happens or he doesn't say hi back you can just keep walking.
Ask if you can sit down if there's a free seat.
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