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writes:Ok so my boyfriend (who is 13) and I (who is also 13) have been going out for almost a year, and he hasn't kissed me, hold my hand or hugged me without somebody telling him to! And I have asked him why he hasn't kissed me yet and he said "he wants it to be special and not get caught" but I find that hard to believe since we spent New Year's Eve together and gone to the beach together (and there has been times when it was just us two). And when I hug him or put my arm over him, he just moves away....soooo. What should I do?(Btw I'm his first girlfriend) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2014): well you need to say how you feel honestly i would have dumped his *** and if he dumps you know he wasn't for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2014): It's COMPLETELY normal for people who are inexperienced (regardless of age) to be EXTREMELY nervous about making that sort of move- you are very young and it's a bold move, he's likely cacking it, honestly... he doesn't know how how to express his affection just yet...
Don't worry about this... It's much better that he's sensitive amd a bit romantic than some pubescent horn ball trying to jump you... :/
Some would say man up to him but let's face it, he's a 13 year old inexperieneced boy... You have nothing to worry about.
Don't plan, or rush things. Get to know each other, develop emotional bonds with each other, or engage in each other's hobbies, of take up a new hobby together.
Sex is minefield of complications, there's major risks involved, pregnancy being the most important... I advise not jumping into anything that you have your whole LIFE to explore... What another 70 80 years? Do t do anything you feel nervous about, because even if you feel like doing something bold, you're still developing mentally and emotionally, as well as physically.
Take care and good luck! :)
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (30 May 2014):
 Don't rush things. You (and he) will have plenty of time to kiss and hug.....
Good luck...
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