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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been talking to this guy for over a month and a half now. We met online and live an hour and a half away from each other. I went to his city three weeks ago because I needed to get something there and he took me out to get drinks. It was a lot of fun but we didn't even kiss. We were still texting regularly though and he came to visit me last week. We went out, spent the night together and made out a lot but didn't do anything sexual. He playfully said that I was teasing him because I was on top of him kissing and I said that maybe I should sleep in the other room and he pulled me down and said no. He seemed respectful after I made it clear that nothing was going to happen and asked if I was uncomfortable, which I wasn't. He honestly doesn't strike me as the type of guy who only wants to get laid but I don't know. After he left, I texted him to make sure he got home ok and he said he did. That was four days ago and I still haven't heard from him. Why isn't he talking as much as he used to? Is it the distance? He did say he might be moving 3 hours away from me because it's closer to his work. Or did he just want sex?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (30 May 2014):
 it could be that he just wanted sex
or he is busy
or he realized after you met a couple of times that the chemistry was not right...
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