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Archived questions from: March, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I need to get past this shock!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - I've been in a serious relationship for 16 months now and everything has been perfect. We never argue, enjoy each others company. Have lived together since August and continually talk about our future together. This morning however, he popped out to ...

Although he's fun the heart says "no"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Today I went for my first date in a long time, the guy was great- good looking, funny, kind but acted like a big kid. As much I enjoy a laugh and a good time he seemed a little too childish for me. However when he asked if we could meet up again I ...

Is he in love with me? or was I just a cheap feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - I've liked this guy for a while, and sometimes I feel like he's making moves on me. Yet, I'm not sure whether those moves are fueled by his possible actual attraction to me or whether he just wanted a cheap feel. As bad as it sounds, I don't mind ...

Boyfriend gaining weight, how can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is gainign weight. I'm not saying it to be harsh, I'm saying it because I'm worried about his health. Everytime I mention it he gets all defensive and goes 'you should be the one telling me I look great.' I don't know what to do, please ...

Does he like me? I have not seen him for three years!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - There's a guy I know that I've know since I was 11 years old and at 11 I liked him (a lot) and I heard rumours that he liked me, but being young and stupid we were too scared to do anything about it. When he was 12/13 he moved to Spain and I thou...

We've been together four years and I've always hoped he would change!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Hi, I've been with my bf for about 4 yrs. We've had our share of issues. I always hoped somehow he would change, but I don't believe he will. Sometimes its incredible he's sooo complimentive, charming, he will cook for me treat me great and o...

I just don't want to hurt anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Ok well I was.with my boyfriend for two years the first year was wonderful. Then he cheated on me hurt me bad but I loved him so much that I gave him anither chance then he started accusing me of cheating the whole time ive been fathful.he dosent ...

How can I become more confident, especially in my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4624 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - I really need some advice on ways to boost my self-confidence. I'm approaching 30, so I think I should be able to function in an adult relationship, but my lack of confidence is threatening to hinder or even ruin things with my current boyfriend. ...

Girlfriend got asked out by a guy on facebook?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

31 March 2012 (M) - My girlfriend was recently asked out on Facebook by another guy. We have been dating for over a year. Her response was that she could not do "any one on one time with another guy because she would not approve of me doing that with another girl." I...

Was I wrong to discredit all the good we had in our relationship? Did I take it all for granted and basically throw a good thing away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Just wanting to know people's opinions.... I asked a question about this before, but there is new information now... My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. From the beginning, he has been very loving towards me, tel...

My boyfriend's dad is creating problems in our relationship and shows no signs of moving out

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriends and I have been together 3 years in July. We got a house together almost 2 years ago and I love him very much BUT his dad moved in with us when he started going through a divorce almost a year ago. At first he refused- said he ...

I have no idea what's going on, she's done a complete 180 from being over the top, to completely ignoring me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

31 March 2012 (M) - Well where to begin. Basically, I met a girl who at first appeared very forward shall we say, in her feelings for me. I received many flattering (although false) compliments from her, and she was quite touchy feely, a little possesive, alway...

Is this girl pregnant with my boyfriend's baby? I cant even ask him because he's locked up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time he's bad but I really love him and he loves me very much,I'm only16 and I need help?...I found out that he was texting other girls...one of their names was Gina,now this was about five months ...

Am I just wanting something I can't have or am I in the wrong relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Im a 24 year old with a little girl. I'm feeling extremely mixed up at the moment. I recently got back together with my little girls daddy (he is 42) who I've known for the last 8 years. In that time we've had an awful lot of problems, break up, ...

I'm not happy when I'm single

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4624 days ago

30 March 2012 (M) - I've been in a few relationships now and I enjoyed them, however I have found that whenever I am not in a relationship I feel very alone and sad. Ive been single for about 4 months now and I still can't be happy with my life, any help??...

How do I control my sexual urges? I've gone from a highly sexual relationship to one where there's no sex yet

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - I was in a long term relationship where I was having sex about 5 times a week, now I'm no longer in that relationship I'm finding that I'm having problems adjusting to having no sex life, I'm with another guy now but he's a virgin and we haven't ...

What does it mean when a guy wants YOU to tie HIM up?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is into restraints, or whatever it's called, where your hands are tied to the bedpost, and sometimes feet are tied to the.... bottom of the bed? wtf is it called? But anyways, he said once that he wants me to tie him up... What do...

I want a romantic boyfriend who plans surprises!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Last Night I saw my boyfriends roommate leave with his girlfriend and I could not figure out where they went it's none of my business of course, but they just vanished and when I woke up this morning I saw a bag and a few blankets and a bottle of ...

Have any guys on here gone to a bar alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

30 March 2012 (M) - I have been on my own for a long time now. It has been bothering me for a while but it has only become a problem recently. I don't have particularly great coping skills and feelings of loneliness have become overwhelming. I really need to make some ...

I agreed to an open relationship, he said we'd talk about it once I was back off holiday but still no word....should I mention it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Ok, so I've been seeing this guy for the last six weeks. 4 and half weeks ago, he said he could only be in a relationship with me, if he had the chance to have sex with other women otherwise he wouldn't be happy in the relationship. so I said I ...

We've been friends for years and now it looks like it might be something more, but there are a few things that worry me about him, plus I don't want to ruin our friendship! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4625 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Hello. For the first time in my life ive met somone who has all the basic things I want in a man. We've been close friends for 7years and he's been asking me out all 7years but I always laughed him off cos I never saw us together. Now years have ...

How do I pursue my one night stand? It seemed like he wanted more!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - So I had this one night stand with this amazing guy, we cuddled afterwards and he held my hand. He spent the night and cuddled me in the morning and did it again. We spent some time talking and had alot in common. We felt connected and he blew off ...

What are the boundaries of cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Ok so I feel like I should know this already but I don't. What are the true boundaries of cheating on ur bf/gf ??? Cause one of my friends thinks it's when u have sex with someone else, another thinks it's when u make out with someone else, so ...

Fallen for a teacher from my old school after only 4 dates! Am I actually his girlfriend yet or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - so this is kinda a long one! but i want to give you a clear story before i ask my question! i'm 19 yrs old and i'm still a student and i never had a boyfriend. as part of my course at my college i am doing a year abroad to study. so far out of 1...

How do I get people to be jealous that my boyfriend really likes me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - short sweet and to the point : my boyfriend is extremely liked by many black females . he's mixed but looks black . i'm white . he's really good abt always holding my hand EVERYWHERE we go and good at looking me in my and communication . but ...

For the first time, my boyfriend didn't turn me on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - I am a bit worried because today for the first time i rejected my bf trying to have sex with me, I felt weird with the way he tried to start sex cause all he did was walk out of the room and come back in naked i told him i felt a bit uncomfortable ...

I need a girlfriend, how do I find one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - I'm 22 and have only had 1 girlfriend. I run my own business and spend half my life working but feel something is missing.........a girlfriend!!! Where can I meet someone? I'm not in a place where you go out and see loads of gay women and I'm not ...

Do men like to be chased first?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - Do men liked to be chased? When they're not calling and texting you is it because they do want to or they waiting for you to do it?...

Do you think I am Asexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - Hello everybody. I am seeking some advise from you. I am a 21 years old female and recently i've been dealing with something that trully botheres me. I have been in relationships before, and i have taken my time, plus the guys were always very...

He's catholic and I'm pentecostal , I'm in love but scared!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - Hello. I'm 22 - never dated before. For the first time really, I'm meeting a guy who has what I'm looking for but problem: I'm a staunch christian so growing up, i taught lots a thingss. He bets just for fun of it, ofcourse u know christia...

Is it possible to date, lose touch and then fall in love again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - This is a bit lengthy and I don't know if you need all the details but here they are anyway. Thanks in advance. First off, I'm not one to post on sites like this; I can usually take care of myself seeing as I am a holder of a Master's in Psychology. ...

I know he'll be dating someone else. How do I forget him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - I'v been in a relationship with this guy who claims he loves me.I asked him why he don't do certain things with me and he replied by saying he just doesn't like doing that.I was cool with it. Some days later,i saw him doing the samething with a ...

How do you tell your boyfriend you can't see him as being the father of your children?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - How do you tell your boyfriend that you don't see him ever being the father you'd want your child or children to have and that's the real reason you don't want children? And where do you go from there? Stay but remain childless or have children bu...

I'm uncomfortable with a group of his friends -- is it OK for me to speak up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - My bf has 2 groups of friend. One group is really nice and they;re nice to me and about me. The other are massive lads and are disrespectful about me asking personal questions about our sex life etc etc. My bf doesn't answer them but I hate the ...

There was never any intimacy when we were dating, but now she's changed her mind

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

29 March 2012 (M) - Hi everyone! So, in my final year at school about 5 years ago, I'd never dated anyone, dating never really interested me at the time. Then I met the most beautiful girl. She asked me out. She was REALLY shy, almost to the point of awkwardness, but...

At 36, what do I need to motivate myself to get out there and date?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

29 March 2012 (M) - Where did I go wrong? I'm a 36 year old man that still lives with his parents who has never had any type of relationship with a woman ever, I have a job that I detest but I'ts the best pay I've ever had so I'm too scared to leave it. I tried to live ...

Has a woman ever had you under a spell?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

28 March 2012 (M) - So have you ever been under a woman's spell? I mean, have you ever been in a relationship with a woman whom you knew was bad for you, but you couldn't break away? I had this kind of relationship last year. A woman I was seeing had me under some...

Girlfriend lost her license for 5 years. How should I handle it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

28 March 2012 (M) - My girlfriend lost her license for five years. We have been dating for eight months. We both have children and we live about 45 miles apart. How would you handle this situation?...

I'm not really attracted to him, we hooked up and I don't want to lead him on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - I became friends with this guy a little while ago. We get along so well- mutual interests, great conversations, same views on life, etc. I wasn't initially attracted to him because, not to sound like a complete bitch, he's less attractive than I am ...

B/f has time for everything but me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - So, I'm going out with this guy for over a year now. I love him and all. But off late, things have become very difficult. He just cannot seem to make time for me. Ok, so we had exams for a while and he didn't have time. I get that. But we have hol...

Is he a friend..ore a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4627 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Me and my friend D met our freshman year, and we have been friends ever since (were seniors now). We drift apart, but something always happens (like our friends death) and we become really close friends when we reconnect. I have had feelings on and ...

My family will not be happy that I am dating a man from another race

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4627 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - My friend recently introduced her colleague to me and to my surprise we actually hit off quite well. We've grown very fond of each other but since we both just broke up earlier this year we're taking things slow and getting to know the other party ...

How attracted are you to your significant other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

28 March 2012 (M) - How attracted are you to your partner? The reason I ask this is because I can never find the right person for me. I've found girls I am attracted to but they seem to be disgusted by me. I've found girls that are attracted to me but they don't turn ...

Is it ok to flirt with someone so young whilst doing business? Or am I just jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - I was on my partners computer tonight sending email for him on his instructions as he is away when a message came up saying Sally was wanting to talk. I clicked on link and I saw there were messages dating back a few weeks. I was surprised by what I ...

I have serious insecurity problems and they are going to ruin our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Hello Can anyone help with my issue? I have serious insecurity problems! I have been with my bf for 6 months, when I first met him he was a bit of a jack the lad, out all the time, had girl "mates" calling him all the time, would reply to his girl...

The three-way relationship seems to be slowly excluding me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

28 March 2012 (M) - Need advice on a three way relationship. I am a straight guy dating a now bi girl, another girl came into our life and we both took her into our relationship. Only she's more gay than bi so her and my gf spend a lot more time together than I do with ...

How can he love me so much and have such little contact with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now, and in the beginning we decided to take it very slow. We had both been single for awhile and our previous relationships had been pretty bad, so we decided that slowly easing into this relationship ...

Is something going on between my B/f and his second cousin? What did those text messages mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - I’d like some input. I, begrudgingly, checked my boyfriend’s phone back in October because I had the strange feeling I couldn’t trust him. I found some text messages he had sent to his second cousin, but they were so obscure that I couldn’t tell for ...

Love at first sight, scared of being rejected

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4627 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Hello, I am a 30 year old single woman and I have completely fallen for one of my child`s teachers. I have remained single for so long - not just waiting for the right man for me AND my 2 children (lost their father many years ago when they were j...

Does he have feelings for another girl?

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28 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I had been together for nearly 4 and a half years. To cut a long story short, he used to work with a girl I felt uncomfortable with because she is very pretty/sexy, confident, flirtatious... you get the picture. I may have felt ...