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writes:hello cupid.I've never been in any relation with any girl. now there's this girl whom Im interested in and we do the internet chatting, but its been a couple of months and things haven't even progressed to a stage where I can even express my interest in her freely. we both got to know each other through a friend and now that we are actually chatting,, although limited... I can't figure out whether she's into me as well or not. I haven't been able to tell her that I really like her because she hasn't given me d leverage so far. Though it must be mentioned that she has been very polite and friendly whenever we've chatted... but not like 2 people really into each other,,, rather like just 2 random friends. Im nuts about this gal and want her to know that. Please respond! P.S we haven't had a date either so far!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): In my opinion, it's too soon to know. A girl can have many online friends, and being polite and friendly is normal.
Find out what her social life is like. If she has many friends, chances are that you're just one more of them. If she's lonely and spends every minute of her free time talking to you, then you might be special to her.
I'd advise against telling her you like her right off the bat, especially since you don't know each other in person. If she lives nearby, invite her to do something with your friend.
Just don't hurry things. Don't gamble with your feelings. Things could go wrong. You could either get hurt, or your infatuation could fade as you spend more time with her. If she actually likes you, then she'll like you even more the closer you get. If time passes and she ends up with someone else (like Zonee's case) then she didn't like you that much.
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reader, LovelessAct1  +, writes (16 December 2010):
Is this friendship long-distance? As in you aren't in a near vicinity? If she is nearby, why not just ask her to hang out? It doesn't have to be 1 on 1, in fact it may be better to get your friend, who is a mutual friend between you two, to come along and bring some other people as well. If you get the chance to actually spend some face time with her, perhaps your chances will be greater and getting things a little more involved.
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reader, Zonee +, writes (16 December 2010):
 Be strong, tell her - better to know what could have been then guess about what might have been. I wished I did, now the guy I have liked for over a year has a girlfriend and I hurt so bad.
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