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writes:I'm 23 at uni and I get depressed when I see most people in relationships at university and get into them fairly easily. I have no problem asking women out (though I used to until recently) but then I seem to struggle to get into the relationship phase. It is depressing as I seem to think that there is something wrong with me particularly as my longest relationship has been 1 month.I don't think I don't too much or too little attention to my last girlfriend/dates. I haven't a clue where I'm going wrong. My only conclusion is that having dated 5 women in my life, its because I haven't had much experience or number of dates.Why do some people get into relationships easier than others and what could I do to better myself as a person.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (17 December 2010):
 I think it comes down to the type of girls that you are going for and maybe you're asking them out too soon. I'm sure that there is nothing wrong with you. What you need to do is form friendships at uni with these girls and learn a bit about them. Then you can ask them out because it really takes the presure off of the situation if you already know about the person before the first date. Also it helps so you don't ask girls out who you really won't be interested in.
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