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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:How do I stop taking my boyfriends manhood from him? I grew up with a single mother and two older sisters. The women in my life have always been very take charge and motivated, like myself. MY boyfriend on the other hand is different. He by no means is a whimp. But he's very kind-hearted, laid back, and emotional. He also grew up around women (four sisters) so he can be feminine. He'd rather me make all the everyday decisions (what to eat, where to go today) simple things. And i don't mind because i like being in charge :)But he says he feels I take his manhood from him. He acts like he won't grow up sometimes and can hardly sit still for longer than an hour. I admit I get frustrated and talk down to him. But not all time.What am I doing wrong?? How can i make him feel like a man??**He's 22 I'm 20. For those who believe he is a cancer and I am a Gemini. Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 December 2010):
He's kind of got to do it himself. But if he needs a push in the right direction, ask him what he'd like to do and see what suggestions he can come up with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): You can't give him his manhood, he has assert it himself, otherwise he's a man because you have allowed him to be. It's like the old joke, I am the man of the house, and I have my wife's permission to say so!
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