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writes:Hi how can I build confidence to ask a girl out. A couple of years ago my mum died and I lost contact with alot of people got heavy on weed and I aint had a girlfriend now I dont no how to go about it
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reader, Universe Man  +, writes (17 August 2010):
Try spending more time with your friends and their friends. Any chance to be in a group setting with some people you know and some people you don't know is a good opportunity. Just start saying yes to every invitation. I go off and on weed myself and when on it, I try to limit it to late at night when I know there's no more social opportunities going to arise tonight.
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reader, BeSimplyTrue +, writes (17 August 2010):
 I wholeheartedly agree with Cerberus. Focus on building yourself into the person you want to be, a person you really like, and don't worry about women for the time being. Really enjoy improving yourself and by the time you're at a good place with yourself, you'll feel more confident about meeting women. It really works, I've seen it myself!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): Building up your confidence is about you and only you. So forget about women until you've done that.
Make sure you're done with weed, I don't need to tell you why that's a hindrance anyone who's smoked it regularly will know.
You have to set about improving every aspect of your life, small but significant steps, things that will make you happy, goals that you can obtain. A job, a new healthy body a nice place to live. Work on you and making yourself the guy you want to be and your confidence will sky rocket. Only when you're on your way to that and are comfortable and happy being you should you consider looking for a woman.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (17 August 2010):
 First off, get off the weed alright? That's not helping anything. Go out and just try talking to a couple of strangers, like, at a bar or something. See how easy it is to start a conversation and then go with it when you try and meet women. It's actually a lot easier then it sounds.
I hope that helps.
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