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*njvi01
writes:ok so, I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 months and last night I called him and he told me that his ex/ babies mama went through his phone and now has my name and number and that she may harass me. He said she has been coming around to his house more just to like check and see if im there or not. I dont know what to do I like my bf I like his son and his family, but I dont like drama and I shouldnt have to deal with this.I just really need advice bc i really want this relationship to work but I dont know if he's sticking up for me when she does mean things.thanks
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reader, giasmom +, writes (17 August 2010):
It's not cool that she is coming around and "checking" on him. She obviously still has feelings for him. You need to make sure that he doesn't still have feelings for her. If he doesn't then I would talk to him about the situation and ask to talk to his ex about her actions and that it's making HIM uncomfortable. If you really want the relationship to work then you will have to communicate your feelings about this....remember where there is a baby mama, there is always drama. Of some sort. Good luck with this.
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