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writes:Is it possible to be in love after only 2 weeks? We have been some what friends for 2 months and started dating and have completely fallen for each other. We feel connected in so many ways. We feel as though we have known each other forever. It feels as though our souls are inner twined with each other. Sounds funny but thats what it feels like. So I am a little confused and scared.... should I just let myself completely go? We have told each other that we love each other. I'm just worried.... I feel if I let myself go that my whole world will be turned upside down or that something bad will happen. What should I do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): What should you do? Well, I'd say, just enjoy it and play it out. JUMP feet first, you only live once.
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reader, Cutestuff  +, writes (17 August 2010):
 OOOoh wow.. that is sudden I am not sure if I myself believe in love at first sight, because I believe that love develops over time, with a strong emotional connection..These feelings you are having could be just a strong desire , lust or w/e you would like to call it.. and it might be confused with love. Caring for someone I think can happen very quickly , but love is a more complex emotion, and you should continue carefully.. There is usually a very good reason people fall so suddenly, the ending of a relationship, is one of the majors.. I think my advice to you would be to just slow it down, get to know him better, do things together.. and just be honest and open all of those strong emotions whatever they may be will just get stronger and you will build not only a strong emotional bond but attachment also. Good luck
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reader, dirtball +, writes (17 August 2010):
 What you're feeling is infatuation. It doesn't surprise me, but actually you've known eachother longer, so this could have been brewing for a while. 2 months is way different than 2 weeks. I think after a couple of months, it is completely possible to fall in love with someone.
On the other hand, some people believe in "love at first sight," so who am I to say it's not possible.
I think you should enjoy what you have. True happiness is important. I'd take it slowly if possible. Letting go completely is a big step, you might want to make it past the honeymoon phase before you jump all the way in. Just don't write it off either.
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