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He doesn't seem to make any effort for me any more...

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Question - (17 August 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hey guys

I've got a small problem. My bf of 2 years is working so hard, he works 2 jobs and 12 hours a day. We barely see each other. When we see each other I wanna make it special. I take him to restaurants or surprise him with something else. When we go out I dress up very nice and put some makeup on, perfume etc. but he doesn't do anything to make is more special, he doesn't shave sometimes, he doesn't put perfume on anymore, he doesn't even take a mint for fresh breath or something. He doesn't notice the effort that I'm putting in to make the night a special one. I told him this and he says that there are more important things to worry and to care about, that this isn't really important to him. This makes me sad and if I don't do these things I'll start to feel bored as if all the excitement in my life died. What can I do, I tried speaking with him but he doesn't agree with me :( pls help me.

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