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writes:This guy I like has a girlfriend he tells me he wants to be with me and that he wants to give it a shot he will NOT however break-up with his cheating girlfriend after dating three weeks sh has not! kept it in her pants, and I told him no cheating on her. I like him a lot and Ive known him for quiet sometime now. I fear he is just trowing words out there to not hurt my feelings, but then again I do trust what hes saying, he said that everyone desrves a second chance. So hes giving it to her. Then he said if things dont work out then I am glad to give you your first chance (: then said see you when school starts up. Im so confused as to what to say do or even how I should be feeling at this point...
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reader, fishy fish +, writes (17 August 2010):
Hmmm i think you definitely need to watch out, no doubt that this guy likes you but why would you accept to be 2nd option while he already prioritized his girlfriend claiming that she deserves a chance! what if things work out between them again would you wanna be the one who got dumped and waited for an illusional start ? he's surely into his girlfriend and maybe talking to you as a psychological revenge for what she did!
So no sweety i think you should take himout of your head for now till things turn clearer, explain to him your position, you'll earn his respect and save your dignity. always remember not to allow yourself to be someone's option while they're your priority! G.luck
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (17 August 2010):
 He may break up with her yet, 3 weeks is not that long in a relationship.
I would say wait for him but if someone else comes along then move on.
If he is still with her after a few months then just move on regardless. Its not worth waiting too long for him.
As for how your feeling, I would think dissapointed or jeleous would be apt for now? Both are natural feelings to have in a case like this.
Good luck!
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