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writes:my bf broke up we have been together 3 years and he wants me to fight for us bc my behavior was very clingy ever since we decided to get engaged and stuff, i guess i was scared to lose him! long story short, he has cut down everything. he told me its over and calls me once if anything (or texts saying hi) it hurts bc i dont know if i shoudl pick up or reply, he is older 26 and i am 24 we are beautiful together, he admitted to me in the beghining he is not one to be emotional and he got quite emotional throughout our relationship, our fights were pretty whacky but we would always get back. it came a time where i actually got physically upset with him and since then he has seen a side to me he had never seen before. the truth is , i tried so hard to be the sweetest persona nd kinda go back to how i used to be that he never commended me and instead of being nicer he became meaner. he is getting closure by talking to me. Today i found out through his boss that he doesnt want to get married, he can tell them but cant tell me? he makes me feel there is some hope and leads me on but then at the same time doesnt care? i dont know? he is going to see his grandparents in 2 weeks and the last thing i ened to do is cut him off b4 he goes off and tells them wellt his girl is out of my life...id rather he takes something with him! i feel very down like i cry first thing every morning i dont want to do this!!! i am a happy person and so strong but with him i am not!
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reader, lostlove1 +, writes (17 August 2010):
I'm sorry :/ It sounds like you are very unhappy, and like he is playing you! By him texting you he wants to keep you attached and thinking that there is hope. My boyfriend and I broke up 3 days ago. We were together for 2 years and it was the stupid bickering about nothing that drove him away. I want him back, and every night and every morning is the hardest for me because thats the most time I have to think that he's not here. I want to talk to him, but I think him, like most men, want us girls to go to the first so they feel like they have the upper hand in the situation. But iv'e decided that I cant talk to him until he talks to me, and I suggest you do the same! We both want them back but we have to have them want us back but looking strong and like we dont have to have them, and when that realize that, then they will be back!
Good Luck, and you can message me if you ever need someone to talk to!
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