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*zraMayweather
writes:I love this guy I met, when I say love, I will drop out of college and start a family, or even have his baby if he wants me to. I just love him, I may even be infactuated with him. I think about him and cry sometimes, he is 28 and has his life together and I am jus a college student, I feel like I can't offer him anything but a hard dick (no we never had sex, I just love the analogy). He works for the water department in my city he has his own home and is wealthy inside and out. But why does he still talk to me....do I really have a chance. He even called me and says he ways to see me tomorrow. (Valentines Day) Which is something he never does. See I live on campus at school so he knows I am hom on the weekend. So for him to take the initiative to set up something to see me on Valentines ay...jus gives me hope. Is it false hope. I don't know. But I I can't stop thinking of him, we don't even go out (are official), we jus talk....but I am seriously head over heels for this man....that in my opinion, is out of my league, and thus, we may never be exclusive......what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): take some pride in yourself hun, make this man work for you, jump your guns and ask him out to lunch, doesnt have be candle lit just some cafeteria lunch, i got sick of waiting for my romeo to make a move so i took the liberty of asking, the fact he asked to see you on a day such as valentines is a good sign, and the fact he knows youra student may show he doesnt care if your a student, he may just think your a great girl, if so show it lol. what have you got to lose, your thoughts are just going to keep eating away at you if you do not know how you fair with him. so next time you see him approach with a big smile and aks to go out to lunch.
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reader, EzraMayweather +, writes (14 February 2009):
EzraMayweather is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you so much. That makes things that much easier for me. Its a lot easier taking advice from a coomplete stranger opposed from a friend, because more than likely your friends will tell you what you want to hear, intentionally or not! Thank you both!!!
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reader, kathy255 +, writes (14 February 2009):
You are not out of his league he is just older and has had time to get his life together. It takes time to get established in life. He knows that you are working to get your life all in order. Don't let his independence scare you away from what could be a potential relationship. Btw I understand the thought of dropping everything for love but please don't let love blind you from the other important things in your life. You never know when things go wrong and there you are with no education and no job. It will work out for you if he does not want to be romantically involved with you at least you have a friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009): Ok,well if this man is taking the time to do somthing with you on Valentines Day,when he could just as easily choose someone else or even be shallow and get a hooker.....honey he cares about you.It may take awhile for him to tell you that or it may take a day,but he does care.No guy would spend so much time with a girl unless he did.And you can rule out him only wanting sex (like most guys) cause if that was it,he wouldv tried to get it already from you.And please girl never think that any guy is out of your league.Its him whoes probably thinking your out of his league.So dont put yourself down like your not good enough or something...cause i dont even know you and im sure you are.Just think of it like this.If things are meant to be....they will.
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