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writes:How do you ladies feel when your man of 3 years forgets it's Valentines day and you get nothing. Not a card, not a flower, not a single romantic sentiment? Please advise. I don't know what to do. Mention it? Or just let the day pass by like it was any other. I am so disappointed. Reply to this Question
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reader, ric124uk  +, writes (16 February 2009):
I'm sorry but how the hell do you miss valentines day!!!! Its on the telly, radio, idle chit chat with mates, have a go at him maybe not speak to him for a few hours then he'll eithe rbuy you something late to say sorry, and also he'll never dare to forget again, hopefully.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): Valentine's day is just another day in the calendar. He should show his love to you EVERY DAY, not ONE DAY A YEAR. Also you might not have a good communication of wishes or you are just too different. Maybe for him Valentine's day is not that important.
IF he shows love towards you all the time and does little gifts time to time then stay with him. But if he is that kind of guy who does not care about your relationship and does not show love enough, then just leave him.
Valentine's Day is just another day to make people spend money on stupid things. People need to show love through their actions not by spending money on things that do not really matter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): Some men honestly forget...others may feel it's a holiday full of pressure to express their feelings. I think we all have sat in front of the cards, deliberating which one is appropriate. Does it say too much...not enough...does it send the wrong message?? Men fear commitment...VDay is the day of love... He may just feel it's too much pressure and avoids it. Maybe just talk to him. Tell him it's ok if he forgot, but it hurt your feelings...Whatever you do, don't attack him. You want him to choose to love you, not do things out of obligation. That just creates resentment and will ultimatetly lead to the demise of the relationship. Good luck!
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (14 February 2009):
 I can understand how you are feeling. I forgot totally about Valentines day and I did nothing for my girl friend. She got really disapointed however I love her to bits, so don't take it too personal allthough you are right!. Take care!.
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reader, shiraz * +, writes (14 February 2009):
hiyah, there is no argument. how could he forget? every shop you go into has cards or love or hanging signs with the date printd in capitals or arrows of some sort reminding you at least 3 weeks in advance. its impossible to get away from not being reminded about the day of loveeeee. you should be dissapointed, thats the normal feeling, its one day. he could just be in the long list of many who so easily forget the day, let him know its upset you, dont be too hard he wont be the only one. hell be the one missing out too though, he didnt give you anything? he certainly wont be getting anything! this might make him suddenly 'remember' next year! best of luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009): Hi
I am sorry he forgot as it is special to us ladies...however i have to say, you could have reminded him by giving him a card yourself. Still a couple of hours left for YOU to make a special night together...i do believe it's not always down to the man to do everything.i am sure your man would appreciate a suprise as much as you...but that is just my opinion, and i hope i do not offend you....
via con dios.
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reader, kathy255  +, writes (14 February 2009):
He might not realize it is valentines day. Remind him say did you realize what today is. If he knows and did not do anything he could probably care less about it. If he truly forgot he will be apologetic. Some men don't like valentines day and won't succumb to the commercialism of the holiday, which I don't blame any man for feeling that way all this holiday does is create broken hearts and hurt feelings. One person is always disappointed, all the singles sit at home by theirselves with ben and jerry or jose and jack. If you wanted to do something for valentines day you probably should have said something early this week. Men are retarded sometimes. Last month my brother in law forgot my sisters birthday
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