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Archived questions from: 12 February, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is it a guy thing not to show emotion in front of other people?

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12 February 2007 (F) - omg so me and my bf has been having some problems with our relationship resently (he doesnt have a sec of time for me....and id things have just been going down hill with talking to each other and hanging out) but i love him soo much!! and i know he ...

I have a social anxiety disorder ..so where can I go to meet girls without all the crowds?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

12 February 2007 (M) - Where can I find a nice girl? Hi I’m a guy, who’s 24 years old. I’m a nice guy who’s still a virgin. I’m also abstaining from sex till marriage. Anyway, my problem is this I recently suffered with social anxiety disorder I also suffered with fe...

How do I tell my Mom, I am in my first relationship? Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

12 February 2007 (F) - how do i tell my mom that i am in my first relationship?...

He can't seem to cope, being alone with me...I .think he is scared of his feelings for me! Advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

12 February 2007 (F) - Hello, I have a troubled relationship with my ex-boyfriend. I fell in love with him a year ago, but this coincided with him falling ill and having to move to another country to be with his family....have asked several questions about him. An...

We love each other but are stuck in a rut. Advice badly needed!

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12 February 2007 (M) - My fiancee and I have been engaged for over a year and dating for four. We recently moved back to her home city. She started feeling differently about me over the past few months. We lived in a shitty home in my home town of 5,000 people. She didnt ...

Suspicions of prior gf's having sex with other guys caused me to break off with them. Now it's happening again! Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6497 days ago

12 February 2007 (M) - Hey...I have a really peculiar problem..and I do'nt know if it affects most guys or girls, but it's killing all my relationships...Flash back...My Italian girlfriend moved back home 2 years ago..then I began suspecting that she was doing "it" with ...

Shall I get everything out in the open??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6496 days ago

12 February 2007 (M) - 5 days ago my "girlfriend" Stephanie dumped me. We were in a relationship that started out almost a year ago with me letting her know I was interested in her while she had been in a one-way relationship with Jim for almost three years. Soon after, ...

Ready to have sex but is there a time in-between periods when pregancy is impossible??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6497 days ago

12 February 2007 (F) - OK. So here's the thing. Me and my boyfriend are totally into each other and have been going out a while now. Anyway long story short, we're both ready to have sex and understand the consequences and stuff, and we're both virgins. We are both of ...

My gf is 16 and we've been together a week - she's already talking about wanting twins!! We've not even had sex yet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

12 February 2007 (M) - My new 16 year old girlfriend doesn't wanna spend v-day with me because she wants to spend it going to make sure her lil sister will be ok. is it normal? her lil sister going for an heart operation and that's why i'm not to bothered. we p...

I'm 20 and the guy I like is about to turn 19 - will people think this is wrong if we date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

12 February 2007 (F) - i'm 20 and like this guy who will be 19 nxt month! do you think friends and family would look at me wrongly if i dated him... as he is younger! he is a little immature but we get on so well, and flirt all the time!...

Should I leave it and wait for him to contact me?

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12 February 2007 (F) - Hyah I wrote earlier this month asking for advice about sleeping with my ex. I did what I am sure is the right thing and told him that I couldn't as I still had feelings for him. He said that he understood and that if I ever felt down he would come ...

Help... I feel very uneasy doing these things to my boyfriend.

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12 February 2007 (F) - I Love My Boyfriend and everything and were both 12 BUT The other day we started to make out and he took it a bit far... He started to feel my body and he started with my neck and worked his way down to my gentals and placed his fingers inside and I ...

Can long distance relationships really work?

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12 February 2007 (F) - hi i am meeting a lad i have been talkin to on msn for over a year on wednesday (valentines day) he lives quite far away from me. i was wondering whether if i start a relationship wiv this lad if it wud be able to work as we far apart? can long ...

I would love to get together with this guy but I don't know how to tell him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6498 days ago

12 February 2007 (F) - i am completely in love with this guy. we have known each other about six months and we have a great friendship. we meet at work, but i was only working there for two weeks and we got on straight away. he told me to keep in touch when i was leavi...

Why do people cheat on one another?

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12 February 2007 (F) - Why do people cheat, why do they cheat when they know that they love or maybe think they love the person there cheating on ?...

How can I get my girlfriend to relax more?

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12 February 2007 (M) - My girlfriend is really starting too irritate me now. She makes things so difficult for me, such as making decisions. I feel too scared too say 'no' otherwise she will go all stubborn and moody on me. She can't accept a no and if things don't alw...

She asked if I would call her and I said maybe, then she got really offended! Now she won't answer my calls! Whats up with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6497 days ago

12 February 2007 (M) - Ok, for about 3 months, I dated this girl maybe twice a month, I wasn't happy with my living situation and couldn't get into any kind of relationship. In December, I moved into a new place, immediately felt better about myself and opened myself up ...

He doesn't have a phone and doesn't call me as much as I'd like him to. Is he playing games or should I give him a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

12 February 2007 (F) - Hey everyone, Little dilema here to say the least. Well, Ive been dating this guy for about a month and a half. We've went out or have seen each other about 5 or 6 times. The problem I had with him at the beginning was he didn't have a phone and he ...

What's the unwritten rule about paying? Should I pay or should the guy pay? If he does pay does that mean he likes me?

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12 February 2007 (F) - Ok there is this guyfriend of mine that i secretly like. On saturday him and i went to the movies and when i got my debit card out to pay for my ticket he asked me what are you doing and i looked at him and he had a 20 in his hand and i said oh i'm ...

I can't believe this but this online girl is messaging my bf! What can I do about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6498 days ago

12 February 2007 (F) - So i just found out that my bf talks w/ his ex sometimes or i don't know how much, i thought they were just friends the way they were talking onlineat first, so i was just going to let it go, but i asked him about it and he lied saying he doesn't ...

My gf and her friend talk like little girls to each other and have shared a bed together!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

12 February 2007 (M) - I just need too know if this is normal. First off my girlfriend and her friend hardely ever see each other now since they left school and they saw each other for the first time since last october. They generally talk too each other like young little ...

I want to have wild sex with my coworker. Should I ask her out or get it out of my mind?

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12 February 2007 (M) - I think of having wild sex with a girl in my office, but i am just worried that she might find it to be bad and would get hurt if i asked her out for the same. Though i have indicators that says she is interested in me, i am not clear whether she is ...

I have feelings for another guy, yet love my bf! What is going on with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

12 February 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. The spark has gone. There is someone else at work that has caught my eye. I have a house together with my boyfriend. I am scared that I suddenly have feelings for someone else but love my boyfirend. He ...

Our text messaging got him into trouble with his gf! I feel guilty-what should I do?

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12 February 2007 (F) - hi i really need some advice and im hoping someone out there can help me,i work with a guy and he was being really friendly..i thought that he was flirting with me and he gave me his number and i began to start texting him, last night my friend told ...

Bf broke up with me to marry his pregnant ex gf! Do I wipe the slate clean and just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

12 February 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid Please interprete these kinds of reactions to me, My boyfriend broke things off with me because he is marrying his ex which he made pregnant. Everyone feels this is sweet and responsible of him to make such a decision. When he broke th...

Did I make the right decision getting involved with this man who is separated? Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

12 February 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid I have been dating a man for 9 months and have never felt this way about anyone, even my ex-husband. The problem is, when we met, this man was separated from his wife but they were still living together. He admitted recently that he ...

I can't contain myself in a relationship w/ one girl, but I want to get married and have a family. Should I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

12 February 2007 (M) - I am confused about certain instincts i have. Like i think it is next to impossible for me to contain myself in a relationship with one girl, no matter what the theories on love. Every now and then i find some girl that i sexually desire and this ...

I think he likes me but the gf far away has his attentions! Is there anything I can do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

12 February 2007 (F) - Hay there guys. Got a slight problem your typical girl likes boy, Boy - clueless. I had my eye on this guy for ages. we eventually got talking at some gigs one reason that attracted me to him - music style, wow , i really fall for good taste in m...

I love my bf but I want to have fun! What should I do here?

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12 February 2007 (F) - hey, yo. I'm really, REALLY flirty with this guy, and he's really flirty right back. If not more so. I really, really like him. He's thirty. He's hot. He's funny, and he's really kind! We were flirting like crazy on the way home and we always jo...

I'm not a flirter but I flirted bigtime with him but he liked my best friend more! How do I get him to like me?

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12 February 2007 (F) - okay so i really like my guy best friend, i am not a big flirter, but i went out of my way and did some major flirting. unfortunetley for me, he likes my best girl friend who happens to have a very passive boyfriend. both are big flirters. one night ...

I liked this guy but he moved to the states...how do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

12 February 2007 (F) - hey I'm thirteen, nearly 14, and i like this guy who's like 3 years older than me, and nobody knows,cos Ive never told anyone, and am not planning to, but now I'm really depressed cos he moved all the way to the states and he doesn't even really ...

I have this fetish about being attracted to fat women. How do I lose this way of thinking?

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

12 February 2007 (M) - I'm a 21 year old male. I've always been attracted to fat girls. The main trouble is, it's more than just a preference, I'm completely obsessed with the thought of them getting fatter, outgrowing clothes, getting stuck, breaking chairs usually e...

Does he like me or was he treating me like "one of the guys?"

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12 February 2007 (F) - Okay, so there's also this guy I know from camp. He was really flirty, I guess, I'm not very good at recognizing those sort of things. He was always sneaking up behind me to startle me and when we had team-building stuff involving those little party ...

When you are in a love relationship...what is your thoughts on how things should be?

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12 February 2007 (F) - relationship between two people in love what is your definition of how things should be? i have tried to explain it's meaning to my bf and he still doesn't seem to get it. ...

She cheated and agreed to stop talking to him! But I want to still confront him..is this a good idea?

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12 February 2007 (M) - hi I had just found out my girlfriend of 4 year and the mother of my 2 babys had cheat on me with a co-worker. i had already told her that if she wants to work it out she has to stop talking to him and stop seeing him. she agreed. but i want to ...

Followup: "Are there guys out there, that don't look at other pretty women when they are with me?" What about when they AREN"T with me?"

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12 February 2007 (M) - I asked this question here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/are-there-guys-out-there--that-dont.html my question is are there guys who don't look when i'm not with them, not when there with me. Could you please change that? thank you...

Are there guys out there, that don't look at other pretty women when they are with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

12 February 2007 (M) - my ex really did not care to look at other females- I know this because every time we were together and even when females in bikinis passed by he really only concentrated on me and didn't care to look.... he wasnt interested at all... my new ...

If he pays for the movie and meal and we are just friends, does this mean it's a date and he likes me?

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12 February 2007 (F) - Ok i get nervous everytime im with a guy whether there a friend or bf. Like when i go 2 the movies or out 2 eat and stuff like that cuz i never know whos payin. Well last nite me and a guy friend that i secretly like took me 2 a movie. I pulled out ...