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Archived questions from: February, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I am in love but keep pushing him away because I was cheated on in the past. How can I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I have had issues the past few years with letting people in. I am in love right now with someone, but I keep pushing him away. It's like I don't want him to love me back. I think this is due to my past of being cheated on. How can I fix this?...

He is right for me in everyway but I don't want to have sex with him! Will this come in time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I have the most wonderful male friend who is right for me in everyway. I know he would love to take things further but for me, there is no sexual spark which is very important to me. Does it come in time or this destined to be only friends? I ...

I really like him, trouble is...he has a girlfriend. Do you think he'll leave her for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I had a crush on this boy when I was 16 and he was 17. We kissed a few times and then he graduated and moved away. I graduated the next year and moved away to go to college. In college I met a great man and we dated for 3 1/2 years. We moved ...

I like him and he and I (along with one of his female friends) were all having a laugh, messing about and it was really fun. But do you think he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - hey everyone! well today the guy i liked, we were in a big group doing our home wrok...i was sitting beside him and looking on his copybook, so then his very close friend(girl) wants to take a look at his work so he tries to cover it jolkingly.. so ...

I want this guy to like me but he sees me as just a friend. How do I get him to like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - i really like this guy but he says that were too good of mates to do any thing, what should i do to try and get him?? ive liked this guy for ages on and off and lately weve become really good mates. and for that reason he wont think about me more ...

My girlfriend likes submissive men but ditched me because I was TOO submissive... How can I be more confident?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - Recently my girlfriend broke up with me. For a time it seemed things were going well, but she ended it, and after a bit of time she told me why. She likes submissive guys (not just in the bedroom) but she said I was too submissive for a ...

I can't seem to get a boyfriend. All my friends have boyfriends and I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - i cant get a boyfriend and i was wondering if anyone has any tips on trying to get one? ive only ever had one boyfriend and that was ages ago and even then he only went out with me so i would do loads of stuff with him. but the worst thing is all m...

I'm a gay woman. How do I meet other straight-acting-gay-chicks?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6481 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I am a woman who primarily enjoys the company of women (e.g., I'm gay). However, I often find that I am not typically attracted to "gay" women. Usually, I am always into women who identify as "straight" or who have "bi-tendencies." It's difficult to ...

Do you think I have any chance with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - i realy like a boy in my year at school i have liked him for a few months almost a year a go everyone started to smoke yesterday i started to sell fags i dont smoke i think it is horrible the boy who i like smokes and i sell him fags since i have he ...

I keep comparing myself to his girlfriend which makes me feel even worse!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - Well I really like this guy, but he has a girlfriend, who I think is more attractive than me. I'm quite jealous/envious of her and I really don't like to feel like this, even though I don't know her. I compare myself to her, which in honesty, make...

Should I tell her I've slept with someone else since we've been apart?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - My ex-girl friend wants to get back together with me after spending nearly a year apart. We had had a long term relationship (over ten years) but ran into problems sexually - I have a very high sex drive where she, for a number of reasons, didn't ...

I am in love with my Boyfriend and My girlfriend! I want to keep both, What should I do!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - I am 23 and had a sexual relationship with an older gay man since i was 17 when i fell in love. up till then i have always just fancied girls, and though i had the odd one night stand (girls) in the 5 years. i have always been in love and happy with ...

Needing to talk to others that are in a 3 way relationship!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - I have been in a gay relationship for 18 years(since the age of 16). We are very happy and committed and loyal. 3 years ago, a younger man entered our lives and turned it upside down. We both fell in love with him and fought desperately for it not ...

My boyfriends mum doesn't like me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - im a 14 yr old gal. i have been with my boyfren for quite a long while... a few months already. we get along well but the problem lies with my boyfren's mom... she doesnt like me very much. i always call my boyfren when im free, but everytime i call ...

He's my best friends step brother and I have only met him on my space, what should happen next!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - Well, heres the thing, I like this guy...alot. He's 17, im 14, he plays bass, and guitar, is a vegan, has only ever had long term relationships, and has the most amazing personality. But theres 2 things that go against him, he's my best friends step ...

Does my best mates BF like me, or am I feeling the vibe because I'm Jealous ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - hi i really need help!!!! my best mate has started seeing this guy who is really cute and i feel stuff for him but he is relly confusin me as wen we are watching the tv he look at me and wen we are alone he cuddles me and the other nite he br...

Im 18 and attracted to my former teacher, he said he wants to be with me, would it be ok to keep it a secret until schools out!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I asked this question on my previous question but didn't get any feedback...so I'm going to ask again. I'm 18 and a senior in HS and attracted to my former teacher (soph year). He's attracted to me as well. I was staying after school and we ended ...

How can I get my guy to stop chatting other women up!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - hi me and my boyfriend are always argueing over stupid things but the things he dose hurt me very deeply but i dont want to loose him how do i get him to stop chatting other women up? please help me ...

Should I take the risk on him, he said he doesnt love me but is that because he has commitment issues!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6483 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I am dating a 44 year old man who is very good looking and has had the opportunity and been in numerous relationships...within 6 mths to a year at the most they end, as he has said there has always been something wrong with the girl....and i ...

Is this just my trust issues coming into play or might he be playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6483 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - Now everyone has heard of myspace im sure of well there is this new guy im talking to and yes i meet him off of there. We went out on two dates and i saw him at his job and he came to mine. we have so much in common and i really like him. I never ...

He was my one true sweetheart but that was over 10 years ago! We are still in contact but hes married, I love him more now than ever, what should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hi,I HAD to talk to someone about this because I am so confused and devastated. I was only 16 but found the love of my life and he had said I too was his first true love and I never stopped loving him. The only reason we broke up was because his mom ...

I had dinner with my ex from 25 years ago and now I'm getting itchy! I'm married and he is seeing someone too although he said it's not serious. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I had dinner with my ex from 25 years ago. We had such a great time. He sent me an email afterwards saying what a great time he had and asking if we can have dinner again in the near future. He is dating someone on and off but did say he wants to ...

Should I continue to see my girlfriend who's bi polar? We get on great but there's problems too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - im 15 years old and going out with a bipolar girlfriend.I used to go out with another girl and she left me and went out with my bestfriend which i was devastated over and kinda got depressed over and my current girlfriend was with me all the way. ...

He has a new girlfriend that he works with but still calls me, now I don't know where I stand.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - My ex and i split about 2 months ago and recently we decided that we should meet up because we both felt ready. We ended up getting on really well and he was ringing me all the time and told me he still loved me. However he has a new girlfriend who ...

Do you think it's better to start college off with a relationship or without one??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hey, everybody. So I've liked my guy friend for awhile now and he feels the same way towards me and things might get to the point where we may start dating sooner or later, but the problem with this is next year, we are both going off to college ...

Should I call him first or should I let the next move come from him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hi there - I'm hoping you can help me with this... I was out with my friends at the weekend. I had some eye contact with a guy - and he started chatting to me. He invited me and my friends to join his friends. So - he spent most of the nigh...

I'm sticking with it for now to avoid being on my own, what shall I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Help! My partner and I have been together for nearly 5 years. We used to have a good time together but over the last 6 months my feelings have changed and we've really drifted apart. I have a son who's 11 from my previous marriage and he has two ...

Do you think she likes me? I'm totally confused by her actions.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Hello, I wonder if anyone could help please. I have known a girl for three years, each year we have become closer and closer but we are not going out. All my friends have told me that she likes me and I have noticed especially over the last year, ...

Why can she never express her love to me or say those three little words?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I have been dating this girl for the past four months now. She claims she can never say the words " I love you" and even when I express my love to her she doesn't respond. she avoids intimacy and only kissed me once. on valentines day I bought her a ...

Does anybody know something I can do in bed to really impress my boyfriend??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Does anybody know something I can do in bed to really impress my boyfriend!! We have fantastic sex I just want to do something different that will really blow him away!! Any of you ladies or gents out there got any useful tips!! ...

Do you think it's normal that my girlfriends mum agreed to us having sex when she was under age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Do you think it's normal that my girlfriends mum agreed to us having sex when she was under age? My girlfriend asked her mum if she could get the pill a month before she was sixteen and her mum said 'Okay' and was not shocked. My gf claims her mu...

He still has pictures of his ex girlfriend up and he won't take them down even although they bother me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - my boyfriend has pictures of his ex girlfriend in his home, both with him and her and her with his kids. i have mentioned on 2 occasions that it bothers me but he said they are just pictures and his kids are in them so he's leaving them up....

He doesn't trust condoms and I don't like taking medication including birth control pills. How can we combat this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - when my boyfriend and i are messing around to the point of possible sex, it always ends because he doesn't trust condoms and im not on birth control. he has asked me before if id think about going on it, and i have thought about it, but the more i ...

When we argue I'M always the one who's wrong. He also doesn't want to marry me. Does he think I'm not good enough?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - i have been with my fiance for 3 years and he cant be honest with me, he refuses to accept any kind of blame if we argue and im always in the wrong, he thinks im trying to change him but im not, just trying to make him grow up an to stop thinking ...

Been with him for 4 years but the chemistry has gone. I feel as if I'm out with my mate or brother.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hi I've been with my current partner for just over 4 years. I was married previously and I knew him as a friend when I was married. We got together not long after the split from my husband and we seemed to have loads in common. Our combined kid...

How can I get him back or at least get the feelings going again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - how do i get him back or at least get the feelings going again if we only see each other when we drop our daughter off to each other and his girlfriend is always with:?...

I'm enjoying his attention and don't want to lose it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - im 18 and have a boyfriend whom i love . He doesnt work he is still in matric. i have a full time job and there is someone that works with me who is 33, married with one child who is extremely into me! we both wont let anythin happen because of the ...

My boyfriend is really sweet buthe lies all the time. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I love my bf a whole lot, we have been together for two years. He used to be the sweetest thing ever, but know he lies, all the time, and he's started being really rude and mean to me. What should i do??????????? Please help...

He seems more interested in this other woman (who's married) than he does me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - The man I have been dating seems to constantly talk about a woman he works closely with. Although she is married with small children, he seems interested but doesn't persue becaus she's married. He seems to find every opportunity to talk about her ...

Im engaged to the woman of my dreams yet have issues with her past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Im engaged to the woman of my dreams yet have issues with her past. We've been together for 18mos. We're both early 30's so obviously there are going to be people before us, but I have a feeling that if I asked for her number I would probably ...

My girlfriend wears the pants! How do I get the pants back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - My girlfriend wears the pants. How do I get my pants back?!? I feel this problem stems from her making alot more money than I do. It isn't really possible for me to make more money because I am at uni full-time and she isn't, so I don't have the t...

How much more should I give and take?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - How much more should I give and take? Based on mistakes in past relationships i've made myself a very open and honest person. I have learned that keeping things inside and not openly communicating in a relationship can make it rot from the ins...

I'm so confused about these texts. What do you make of them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hello, im very confused.... im just gonna show you all exactly the messages i have received today, but let me tell you all this.... first.... things have been fine between me and my boyfriend (me 26 him 23, atleast i thought they were....w...

I am in a wonderful relationship. Why is my head filled with negative thoughts all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - well lets see, my head is filled with negative thoughts about relationships even though im in a wonderful relationship. I constantly ask myself, "what if we break up? "what if i fall inlove with someone else a need top break up? what if we get ...

I have a girlfriend but I've met someone else. What's the best way to tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - ok i have a girlfriend that goes to school in flordia and i think she's in love with me but i found someone else that i really really like and i dont know wat to do how should i break up with my current gf i want to do it over the phone cause i ...

I like this guy and have been out with him once, there's only one problem.... the EX!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - OK, so there is this guy that I really like, and I know that he likes me! But there is one little issue, the exgirlfriend! We did go out to dinner once already and had a great time! He is friends with all of my friends and that is how I know that he ...

How can I balance my new job and continuing to see my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I'm thinking about taking up a job that might affect the number of times I'll be able to see my boyfriend. He lives 2 hours away from me, and we spend every weekends together since we dated 2 yrs ago. If I take on this job, I know most of my ...

I like this guy but have heard he's a bit of a player. Should I still show an interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hi im 16 and not had a boyfriend for over a year now. I went out a few months ago and this lad started talking to me, he's 18 tho. ive seen him around a few times as well and i do lie him, but my friend knows him and she said he's slept with girls ...

Do you think one guy was jealous of the other and that's why he called ME a loser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I sent my cousin (same age as me 18) an angry email complete with profanity and insults. I was angry at the time and said it all out of anger. I didn't mean any of it, but I wrote it anyway. I said that in the email (that I didn't mean it). I feel ...

I'm seeing a man 20 years older than me who I love very much, we're very close but not sexually, I don't think he's done it before, he seems really shy. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6482 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - PLEASE HELP! Im in desperate need of advice. Ive been in love with a man 20 yrs my senior for more than 2yrs. I know that he feels the same and we have been close although not sexually, and i dont think he has done it before. I have told him how i ...