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writes:okay so i really like my guy best friend, i am not a big flirter, but i went out of my way and did some major flirting. unfortunetley for me, he likes my best girl friend who happens to have a very passive boyfriend. both are big flirters. one night i told him i liked him. not a good choice. i made our group of friends quite awkward because he does not like me, which is kinda sad. what can i do so he likes me back?
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reader, cd206  +, writes (13 February 2007):
 It sounds like he just likes your friend better. It's nothing personal, just that he's looking for something different from what you can offer him. I don't know why your friend isn't backing off, maybe she sort of likes him, maybe she's not as secure in her own relationship as you think. I can't tell from what you say. And essentially by asking what u can do to make him like u back it's kind of the same thing. Keep being his friend and maybe some day he'll open his eyes. Alternatively talk to him, you're not 12 anymore. It's not a case of making eyes at him till he notices you. Take the initiative. You never know, his reponse might be different to what you think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionokay, i didnt make the main bold question thing say 'how do i get him to like me?' im confused and want to know why my best(girl) friend is not backing off even though she has a boyfriend. i want to know why he doesnt like me and still likes the girl who already has a boyfriend. im right in front of him, why does he look beyond me?
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reader, cd206 +, writes (12 February 2007):
You can't make someone like you. If there were a magical solution to make your unrequited love fall for you then there would be no war or unhappiness in the world, trust me. All you can do is act normal around him. You're not 12 anymore so it's not like you have to face the crippling embarassment of not being able to look at him etc. You're both past that now. Just chill out and try to act normal. Do that for long enough and everything will work itself out.
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