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writes: Hay there guys.Got a slight problemyour typical girl likes boy, Boy - clueless.I had my eye on this guy for ages. we eventually got talking at some gigs one reason that attracted me to him - music style, wow , i really fall for good taste in music. haha ]Anyway, over the months we got closer, talking at gigs now and then but mostly over messenger or text,it got to the point where we were on the brink of going out, i mean the late night texts, the inside jokes, the butterflys when i saw him. and at new year the lovely texts. You know, when you just know.was actually a great feeling to feel youre wantedAnyway.i got all the right signals, im usually very guarded with guys i never really let them get close. he was the only person that i felt i could really connect with.Cut a long story short shall i?Couple of days ago now, we were talking on messenger and we got to the "so.... who's ya lurvin"me and my big mouth. ay ? wish i didnt know. He says that he's gone with this long distant relationship. he didnt glam it up just said " oh i'll give it a try" no enthusiasm, i think to soften to blow maybe? but with a girl from London. London i thought ? why ? why on earth would he just throw us away for a girl who lives so far away. i felt so ... [well i'm here, reachable, in walking distance] not good enogh basically, second best. she must be pretty amazing for him to take a risk on someone so far. i must say it got me down. i was quiet later that night though and i knew he knew i was upset. a couple of days later he said that he'd wished i gotten in there first with him and that i can always put a smile on his face,Ahh, i cant get over him, i never let i get to this stage with a guy i usually so sensible, whats with this?it hurts me every time we chat and i know he's off to London for the weekend and that he'll be with her. but i cant stop liking him. what do i do ???? i think he still likes me, and i want him to,
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys, i was told he was a abit of a player but you always thnk you know best don't you?Thanks for your advise i'll take what you said on board, you've helped, ALOT x
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (12 February 2007):
 I agree 100% with previous comment.
This guy probably does not know what he wants or is ready for any commitment.
Staying away is the best you can do for yourself and move on with your life.
It may seem very hard to let go now because you have feelings for him but time will help. You deserve more respect than that.
He missed out here, his loss not yours, remember that.
Good luck and lots of hugs
Angel of Love
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2007): Be careful of this one honey, I don't really know the guy but I think he's a bit of a player. He's given you all the signals he's interested and then let you down at the last hurdle. After leading you along he's now saying he's with someone else, this is obviously making you feel ever so rejected and now bad about yourself. ie this girl in London must be better than me etc etc. Don't put yourself down and definately don't chase him. He wants you to chase him so he gets a result and knowing guys like him will probably want to see you and the London girl at the same time. I'd give him a lot of space, you get on with the things you enjoy, friends, hobbies etc. I'm afraid he wants his cake and eat it. Don't make yourself available and don't let him think you're waiting for him, try and date other guys in the meantime to take your mind off him.
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