A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey I'm thirteen, nearly 14, and i like this guy who's like 3 years older than me, and nobody knows,cos Ive never told anyone, and am not planning to, but now I'm really depressed cos he moved all the way to the states and he doesn't even really know me. how do i get over him? because when it really hurts, i still don't want to forget...
View related questions:
depressed Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, TakeItOrLeaveIt  +, writes (12 February 2007):
 Hey. I know this is a bit different.. but my best girl friend also moved away to the Uk. I thought i was going to die. I missed having her around. I missed the fact that I knew she was always there no matter what. It has been 4 months now and i have been a lot better. I learnt to just accept the situation the way it is.
This guy didnt really know you, you said right?
So why get all hung up about a guy who doesnt even feel the same way? Its not worth it. It would be understandable if you 2 were a couple, but there was nothing going on.
I know you can get through it!! You wil. Just try not to think about him. Keep yourself busy. Do other things, meet new people, make more freinds. One day you'll meet the mr.right but i guess it just wasnt him.
I am a strong believer of "everything happens for a reason"
So it just wasnt meant to be. Make the most of your teen years. Dont be so hung up about him that you dont realise the other guys who are interested in you. cos i bet there's a lot!!! ;) good luck
A
female
reader, cseame  +, writes (12 February 2007):
 I understand exactly how you feel as i once was in the same situation..
the way i dealt with it was to just let him go...and you should to.
I got my mind of him by going out with my friends and keeping myself busy...
the way i look at it is....
if its fate then you'll defintly meet him again one day...
just don't think about it to much and enjoy life now
...............................
|
