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Archived questions from: 9 February, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend and I broke up and I slept with another person during the break... we're now back together and he doesn't know, should I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - my bf decided he wanted a break for a while following a big row we had. i slept with someone else in the time we were apart and the next day he decided he wanted to try again. i didnt tell him about this other person because part of me feels as we ...

I find it really hard to hug my girlfriend, I'm just nervous I guess... who can I be less nervous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

9 February 2007 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for nearly 2 weeks. But i really find it hard to hug her. I just feel really uncomfortable. Everyone is pressuring me and it is really annoying. Please help...

I sent him on his way and now he has another girlfriend and I regret doing it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - So there is this guy that i was hooking up with and hes had a gf on and off but i finally ended it with him telling him if he was still going out with her then im done hooking up and now i kinda regret it because he is wtih his girlfriend but he ...

I have a "shag buddy" but now I want a proper relationship with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - I've been sleeping with a close male friend for about 2 years, you could desbribe him as a "shag buddy". I was coming out of a long term relationship when it began, but am now single, and would love to have a go at taking things to another level ...

Is being "friends with benefits" a good idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - is being friends with benifits ok?...this guy at my skewl wants to be more than friends but he doesn't want a relationship...i really like him but i'm afraid i'm gunna get hurt...like if he finds sumone he wants to be with and just forgets about ...

I can't wear tampons and don't want my new boyfriend to notice I am wearing pads... help!!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - Well i come on my period today and i am out with my new boyfriend sunday night and i don't know what to do as i have tried and tried and tried to wear tampons and just cant seem to get it right! and i dont want to wear a pad so im really stuck! any ...

Why do I find it so hard to initiate a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

9 February 2007 (M) - I am 24 years old, and have never had a relationship (Romantic or Sexual). I am not unattractive, and I am relatively smart. I have a great work ethic and I believe I am an all around nice guy. I get along with people very well, and I am liked more ...

Why is she kissing me if she thinks we can't be together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

9 February 2007 (M) - my best friend is a girl and i have liked her for some time. she knows that i have liked her, and told me she cant see us together because she dosent want to lose a good friend, ova the last week or so she has become more flirty with me and we have ...

Is this love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - hi im 16 and i think i might be in love with my boyfriend. we have been together for about a month and a half now and i never stop thinking about him! i love it when he cuddles me and he makes me feel special. sometimes when im not with him i miss ...

Should I stop texting my best friend's brother because of the family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - I have fallen for my best friends brother. We shared kiss on holiday and recently had been texting each other and its clear we both wanted something more however due to other people being around we never had the chance to be alone. Recent...

Do you think my boyfriend really likes my "love handles?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - heya im 16 and have a boyfriend, we have been going out for just over a month. i am small for my age (about 5 ft 1) and i am average weight i think (around 8 stone). i have quite a curvy figure around my hips and i have love handles! (curvy ...

My girlfriend has had such a wayward past! I can't get it out of my head, do I break up with her? I'm so confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6494 days ago

9 February 2007 (M) - I met this girl in the summer, and there was an instant connection. I am a mechanic and she needed her car to be fixed, so I offered to help her out just so I'd have an excuse to see her again. Things were going well, and one night she spilled to me ...

How can I control my insecurities? I feel like I'm driving him away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6501 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year and he is a great guy. Everything i have been looking for and we had an awesome relationship until about a month ago and he has a girl working for him that i dont get along with. I have bro...

Is he really busy with work or does he not want to be with me any more? I'm so confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6501 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - I have been with the same guy for 9 months and he has a very busy life. I have told him since the beginning that i was fine with how much he works and that we can still have a good relationship even when theres times when we hardly see each other. ...

He doesn't seem interested in me any more and I don't know what I've done?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - I really love this guy a lot, and i think he loves me too, he says he does but im not quite sure if its true love or he just loves the idea of loving me. The thing is we arent going out wid each other or anything, but i want to,i dunno how to hint ...

Should I stengthen my friendship with her or forget about friendship altogether?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6501 days ago

9 February 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I broke up after a wonderful six months. We were and still are in love but she broke up with me because she wanted to prove to herself that she can be independent and live without relying on someone else. So unfortunatly I have ...

I love this married man but I didn't know he was married when I got involved with him... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - I started a relationship with a man and after a few months he told me that he was married. He's not in love his wife but he loves his children. He lives in my country now but she's at home. I love this man a lot. His work is causing problems now and ...

It's soooo obvious he fancies me yet when friends asked him outright he denied it and said he likes me only as a friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - Hey, everybody. So there's this guy I have been crushing on and he has been giving me non-stop hints that he has feelings for me as more than just a friend (he is basically going overboard to get my attention). However, when my friends told him...

Haven't had a serious bf in 3 years and it's getting me real down! Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - hi im 22 years old and havent had a serious boyfriend for 3 years ive been on dates but nothing serious but now its really getting me down everyone says how attractive i am and funny and all my mates say they cant belive never met anyone but know ...

He's online and I sent him a message and he won't reply! What does that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - ok this is another question like the one before i know this guy is for real i know it i sent him a message but he hasent replyed and i know he is online so wot do i do i really have the hots for him and i know he will understand me its just so hard ...

He left me at the party to go talk to his ex...and now he stopped contact with me! What's happening?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6501 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - Here's my problem: I don't like the way my boyfriend gets on so well with his ex. Example: Last week we were at a mutual friends party, and for the first few hours everything was fine, until my bfs ex decided that she needed to talk to him. The...

Should I continue to contact her or wait until she contacts me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6501 days ago

9 February 2007 (M) - I met this girl through some friends, and I was quite attracted to her, however I am completely oblivious to any sort of signal from women so I had no idea how she felt about me. One of my friends told me she had had a bit of a crush on me. That...

Why did my boyfriend refuse to kiss me in front of the receptionist?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - Quick question. My boyfriend had started new job and had taken the receptionist mobile number and was texting her when i wasn't about. I told him i knew and he was to put a stop to it cos there was no need for it. Today we got dropped off outs...

I think my fiance has fallen out of love with me. How do I know for sure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

9 February 2007 (M) - i love my fiance so much but i think she has fallen out of love with me. she says she hasnt but how do i find out if she dont talk to me?...

He can't get over the fact I've given myself away so cheaply in the past, we have different morals and I see sleeping with someone as just sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

9 February 2007 (M) - Hi I've got a problem. I really love my boyfriend who i've been dating for around 5 months. I made the mistake of telling him about my sexual past, including a series of one nite stands which he finds repulsive because he has high morals. He w...

We agreed to a break but would stay mates! So why is he so cold whenever he sees me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - my ex and i broke up because we both realise we rushed it, he was confused when telling me that he aint ready, but says he still have feeling for me n that im his ideal, i asked him not to avoid me and he says he won't and that we'll stay mates.. he ...

What did I say that annoyed him so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy for a year and we are friends who sleep with each other but to start out with we were just sleeping with each other. Over the past few weeks Ive asked him if he wants things to go any further and he said he didnt but didnt ...

How can I ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - I fancy this boy who's one year younger than me (he's 14), but dont know how to ask him out. we were on talking terms untill he decided to "zap" me every time he saw me(he pokes me hard in the waist so i-embarasingly- collapse). how should i ask him ...

What's going on? Do I just wait around for him to call me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - Dearc Cupid I have been without my boyfriend for a week now he refuses to pick up my phone calls and he never calls or comes a sees me. In the past we have alot of trust issues and we argue and fight most of the time I feel like he is Dr Jeckle ...

The only time he calls is to ask me to come over and have sex. Is he just using me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 10months now,when I met him I was a virgin, I held out in our relationship for about 5 months Before we had sex. In the beginning the relationship was going great we got along and spent time together almost ...

Paranoid that she'll find someone better than me and live happily ever after!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

9 February 2007 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for just over 6 months. I love her to bits, things are going great. I have what I deem to be the usual male paranoia, as we live about 50 miles apart that she'll find someone better than me and live happily ever aft...

I have a really bad anxiety problem, especially when I'm with a girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

9 February 2007 (M) - i need help big time! im 20 years old and i think i have a severe anxiety problem! i have a girlfriend and have done for 6 months now. im just going to cut to the chase as this problem is pretty much ruining my love life now! everytime i have had a ...

Should I ask him to be my valentine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - should i ask him to be my valentine? for the past 2 years i've spent valentines day alone then i met the most AMAZING man in the summer and we started a relationship. unfortunatly he broke it off, but we are trying to maintain a friendship. i'm ...

Should I keep him as a friend... or more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - Hi. I hope someone can help me out with this. well i like this guys who is over 20yrs older than me. He flirts with me all the time and i am always finding myself visiting him while hes at work. hes always joking about me and him going for coffee or ...

Guys...are you serious about these kind of questions??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - My bf asked me one time if what is my ideal age to get married and to have a child, i asked him why? He said because he said that he wants to be prepared for it. I told him that 27 or 28 would be fine with me...may i ask, is it a sort of a joke? Or...

I'm involved with a "two-year" man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - Help! I think I'm involved with the "2-year-man"....meaning, none of his relationships ever last longer than 2 years because he gets bored and the women eventually get frustrated with being ignored or feeling distant and end up dumping him. I t...

I asked if she was single and she replied "its complicated...not really"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

9 February 2007 (M) - Im a 19 yr old male in college. I met this girl recently through my classes and I like her alot. Shes a freshman, but we get along well and have good conversations. After the 3rd day of talking to her I finally asked her if she was single. She ...

Help! Who should I choose?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

9 February 2007 (M) - Hi my names mike and Im 13yrs old. I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 months now.I was recently at the mall with my friend my friends girlfriend and one of my friends (also a girl).The first thing the girls wanted to do was to go ...

Do YOU believe in love at first sight?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - Do you believe in love at first sight? What do you think of a 15 year old dating a 23 year old? Is it wrong? Let me know! Thanks...

I want to give her flowers and card on Valentine's Day...what can I write in the card. Any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

9 February 2007 (?) - i have been planning this for time so just need to know what you guys think. i really like this girl. we've dated before once. we havent talked properly since due to busy at college. i wanna ring her and tell her i need to talk to her it's ...

Is he just not interested in a relationship or is he shy? Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - I'm almost completely certain that one of my guy friends likes me as more than just a friend. However, when I try to make plans with him when it is going to be just me and him, he hesitates about it and has a hard time saying yes and making the ...

As I try to get closer she pulls away, yet when I give her what she wants she comes running back. What's up with this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

9 February 2007 (M) - Maybe its her who is afraid of commitment maybe its me, but as the relationship seems to get more serious she asks for more space. We see each other only once or twice a week at the moment. I ask her to see me and she rejects me usally saying sh...