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writes: Ok i get nervous everytime im with a guy whether there a friend or bf. Like when i go 2 the movies or out 2 eat and stuff like that cuz i never know whos payin. Well last nite me and a guy friend that i secretly like took me 2 a movie. I pulled out my debit card and asked 4 my ticket well the guy took my card and b4 i know it my friend says what ru doin and i look at him and he has a 20 in his hand and i was like oh im sorry i didnt know that you were payin. So i already had my debit card swiped. My confusion comes from i never know if a guy pays, its a date or if we r just goin as friends. Last time him and i went to the movies it was him and his friend and me and i paid last time he didnt even say anything. So does this mean with him tryin 2 pay last nite is it a sign that it was like a date or sumtin last nite? And how do i know when 2 pay and not 2 pay 4 myself? I hate talkin bout who pays cuz i dont want 2 look like a guy has 2 pay 4 me.....and what r the signs that he likes me more then a friend? Hes a shy
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reader, salsere  +, writes (12 February 2007):
Well, this one is a toughie!
it's a case of just because he paid doesn't mean he wants to date you, but then he did pay so he must like you bleah bleah bleah.
i personally would give him a call and ask him out, tell him you had a fab night at the movies and you would love to do it again, BUT this time your going to pay because he paid last time.
NOW! when he accepts just kinda say COOL THATS A DATE THEN!
and go from there.. Just because his shy don't mean you have to be,
when your on your date, tell him how much you like his company and would hope you could do it more often because you REALLY like him.
I am sure he feels the same way but is unsure how you feel about him.
Goooo on go for it! you have nothing to lose only to gain, if he just wants to be friends and nothing else thats ok, if you dont try your never know, so what if he says no, your be a little red in the face for a few minutes but at least your know, and if he says yes please then you have gained every thing. GOOD LUCK let me know how it goes x
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