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writes: Hey everyone, Little dilema here to say the least. Well, Ive been dating this guy for about a month and a half. We've went out or have seen each other about 5 or 6 times. The problem I had with him at the beginning was he didn't have a phone and he would only call me on the weekends. He had gotten a phone but he still calls once or twice a week which is saturday and sunday. He says he's not the type to speak on the phone all the time and likes to speak face to face. I've been to his home and spent nights there a couple of times and his story always checks out. Our last convo was a little weird I haven't seen him in two weeks but he's called a few times, I asked when was I going to see him since its been a while and he tells me he doesn't know. l feel like things aren't right like he's playing too many games. I'm a little confused about what to do I'm really interested in the guy... Am I over thinking everything ....should I continue to give him a chance. Reply to this Question
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (12 February 2007):
 Be careful andf take it slow.
Not sure about this guy not having a phone and only calls at weekends. You may have spent the night a couple of times but you have not seen him for two weeks.
Could it possible that he has a girlfriend that works away from home.
Suspicious as I am, it has happenned to me once.
Agree with previous comments. Do not expect to much to soon.
Good luck and lots of hugs
Angel of Love
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reader, fATTYNATTY +, writes (12 February 2007):
 i think maybe youre expecting too much of him, He may well just get nervous on the phone and thats why hes not calling and really preferes face to face. I wouldnt hang all your hopes with him though, maybe try dating a few more guys to take your mind off things ?
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (12 February 2007):
 Hi,
Its only a month and a half, so really you should not expect anything to much. Having said that, if he carries on how he is now, I would think again.
Its obvious that you care more than him about all this.
I think you should stop expecting him to call you all the time, and not be quite so available. He could feel that you are sitting there waiting even if your not. Give him a bit of a run around, and see if he behaves any different. best wishes XX
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