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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi i really need some advice and im hoping someone out there can help me,i work with a guy and he was being really friendly..i thought that he was flirting with me and he gave me his number and i began to start texting him, last night my friend told me he wasnt flirting just being friendly so i sent him a message saying that i liked him and thought we were flrting but apparently he wasnt, he never answered so i sent another message and he answered saying that the message he wrote, he had sent to his girlfriend, he had to leave work early because she was very angry at him and now i feel very upset and guilty and depressed that i got him into trouble, what should i do?
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reader, stina  +, writes (12 February 2007):
 Hi Anonymous,
This is just a case of a misunderstanding. You told him how you felt and he let you know that it wasn't flirting. He didn't cheat on his wife with you; apparently this is just what sort of person he is - overly friendly. I would try to forget about it. You were being honest with him to see where the relationship might go and he told you the truth. Maybe just try cutting back on the text messages. (Besides, if he wasn't being overly friendly with you and giving you the idea he was flirting with you, then it wouldn't have upset his girlfriend. She's upset at him, not you. What happened seems like it did because of him, not you.) Try not to worry about it; it doesn't seem like you did anything wrong or did anything to intentionally hurt this guy, his girlfriend, or their relationship. Like I said, it's just a misunderstanding.
Take care.
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